People feel lonely and don t want to trust others

You're sane. There is no such thing as good or bad, right or wrong. But relatively.

You think it's an economic loss, but from another perspective, you're generous and arrogant. Gentleman's behavior. As the so-called gift of roses, the hand leaves a lingering fragrance.

If a person only wants to take advantage of others, it is advisable not to have many friends. If you want to have a lot of friends and someone to help you in trouble, you have to be generous and bold. There are not many gentlemen nowadays, so why should people turn for you if they don't take advantage of it.

It may be a good thing not to hurt your muscles and bones and suffer a loss. It's not cool talk. As the saying goes, great wisdom is foolishness.

Get along with others, don't want others if you are not in harmony, and reflect on yourself. It is the cultivation of virtue. You can't change others, you can only change yourself and improve your self-cultivation.

Of course, there must be a degree of loss. I'm sure you'll get it. Like I said, you're an open-minded gentleman.

It is characterized by generosity and boldness. Hehe, are you still depressed.

There will be a gap between people, not everyone is a stranger, we should distinguish which ones smell like ourselves, otherwise the words will definitely make you feel that friends are boring, because those are not friends at all. It is recommended to put your energy into life, work, study, sports, and meet friends in life who can get along with you.

If there is no social interference, life will definitely be lonely, and there must be people who have been deceived, like me, who believed my netizen for no reason, went to buy her jade, 1500, but others told me that it was fake, she deceived many people, and I didn't believe it anymore, but I later told myself that I just spent 1500 to buy a lesson and teach me how to do things, the price is a little bigger for me, but it's all worth it, because some of the lessons we can't buy with money.

Let go and open your heart to accept the care of your friends. It is recommended to chat more online first, so that it is more secure to communicate with others.

People always go through a thousand blows before they mature!

Don't start the key wheel to think too much, you can read more books when you have nothing to do, you can develop your own interests and hobbies to be confident, go out to exercise more, and keep your head up and whisper when you walk, so that you won't be so lonely.

In life, if there is a situation in the spine of Shanzheng, you can adjust it yourself, or you can take the initiative to get close to others. Finding the right person for you can be happy.

I think low self-esteem is caused by people's extreme lack of self-confidence, you are very inferior, you dare not trust others, over time, you will have more low self-esteem, more distrust others, and fall into a kind of dead circle.

So even if you have low self-esteem, you have to try to make friends with someone, no matter how bad it is, you have to have a pet and have fun from time to time. Because a person's inferiority complex will deepen if it is not resolved in time.

In addition, you need to be optimistic and do more things that you like to do, such as eating your favorite food, watching your favorite movies, etc. An optimistic attitude can make you believe in others and believe in life more.

Finally, if you really feel that you have low self-esteem, you can go and confide in your family, after all, they are the ones who love you the most. Or you can go to a psychiatrist, they are much more specialized than me.

Hope it helps.

Invite. Q:"Why are people afraid of loneliness?

Answer: Since this is the way the question and answer question is raised, we might as well go back and see who is afraid"Loneliness"Huh? I thought that there would be someone"Fear of loneliness"It is because of several reasons.

People, from small to large, grew up in the circle of family, classmates, partners, and acquaintances, and have long been accustomed to living in groups. After entering the society, relying on oneself to run around, work, struggle, shout, and struggle, there will be so-called in consciousness and unconsciousness"Alone"of"Loneliness"、Feel"Loneliness", and naturally feel the horror, fear, and horror of loneliness and loneliness. Actually, it's just one of a kind"Immature"performance, and even a kind of childish psychology is at work.

I thought that people were facing"Loneliness"When it comes to the situation, young people and young people will feel very uncomfortable and difficult to accept. Young and middle-aged people will feel it"Loneliness"It's just a bit tedious, but it's passable. Middle-aged and elderly people think"Loneliness"That's it"Loneliness"That's it, it's not scary, and it can be adapted.

Seven. X.Eight.

Ten, nine. Ten, and even centenarians, will follow"Loneliness""Quiet"with"Idle"Get the supreme pleasure! Therefore, loneliness is not lonely, this is just a psychological manifestation of a person's immaturity! It's one aspect, and the other"Loneliness"with"Not lonely", which is determined by the personality of the person.

Love to be lively, see the high and low at the poker table, and fight him in the dark and don't know the end. Or drive a car and have fun in crowded spots. Those who love tranquility are alone, or play the piano, or practice calligraphy, or paint and carve insects, or plant flowers and birds, or accompany their good grandchildren for fun.

My good wife always praised me and said that I was the most patient"Loneliness"No matter how long you go to the street to shop, or how long you stay in the studio, you are always in a hurry. Hahaha, she didn't know that I was there so-called"Loneliness"Meditation conceived a painting of educated youth that has no precedent in the world!

Loneliness is not terrible, everyone will face loneliness, it is impossible to have someone with you all the time, however, loneliness is also a life experience, look at it correctly, it will allow you to gain experience.

In fact, everyone is afraid of loneliness, this is human nature, loneliness has lonely troubles, lively and lively troubles, contentment and gratitude, living oneself, is happiness, everyone pursues a happy and happy life.

When you grow up, you will find that loneliness is your friend. Everyone faces moments of loneliness, and it is moments like these that test our hearts. Learn to be alone and you will no longer be alone.

How to improve your self-confidence and abilities.

1. Professional ability: to do a certain job, irreplaceable.

2. Collaboration ability: be good at cooperating with others and complete tasks together 3. Help others: when others encounter difficulties, they can help 4. Planning ability: be able to decompose tasks and have a very clear understanding and grasp of the goal 5. Communication skills: be good at using communication to improve efficiency.

It's a good thing to get into a key high school, but I used to have top-notch grades in school, and when I got to this place where people are all top-notch, all the bullshit superiority is gone, there is pressure, if you can turn pressure into motivation, this is a good thing, but, unfortunately, you were obviously knocked down by this sudden gap. It is always a little difficult for a person to be familiar with an unfamiliar environment, although men sometimes have a heart-to-heart in an instant, but life is not Jin Yong after all, there is no happiness in the rivers and lakes, only plain, and the familiarity between a person and a person is to use time and energy to slowly recuperate. You used to have "her" If you count the two places of lovers, God, I can't find a reason for you not to be depressed and confused...

Brother, everything adds up, the pressure on you is too great, find time to go out for a walk, it's really time to relax, by the way think about what to do in the future, it is foreseeable that if you continue to be so depressed, you can't learn anything in school, as the saying goes, sharpen the knife and don't chop wood, first adjust your emotions and then think about anything else. Happy New Year's Day!

Don't care too much, socialize more with the people you want to associate with, and leave those you don't like. The landlord and I are the same type of person. Also, don't let yourself be too depressed, because what you do now will bring memories to your future self, so try to relax and be happy.

Visually stewed is a little cabbage Suffering just begins I wish you victory over yourself.

o( o Alas, could your question be clearer You are asking a question? It's still Suke.

First, force yourself to socialize with others, and then you can read more books on how to socialize with others to help yourself. Finally, master the skills of getting along with people.

This is not difficult, you can study hard, continue to pursue higher grades, and give yourself a sense of achievement. Secondly, you can observe your classmates, people in the 21st century are very cheerful, many people are willing to make new friends, find someone you like, and gradually you will have new friends

You'll definitely make more friends and know more about it.

Everyone has a bad mood, will suddenly feel very lonely, no friends, it is difficult to trust others, in this state most of them are in a bad mood, more pessimistic, everything has to think about the good, people's mentality is very important. Everything is looking forward, life will be kind to those who work hard, and usually participate in more gatherings of friends and communicate with friends.

Seeing this problem, I was deeply touched, the same feeling is very lonely, and the same does not have many friends? It used to be easy to trust others, but now I basically don't trust others very much, people, day by day, grow older, get older day by day, the more they grow up, the more lonely they become, this is a very reasonable sentence.

Try to trust others, communicate with friends a lot, you won't feel lonely, there are no more friends, just a few people who can make friends.

I haven't felt this way before, but since I changed cities. My former friends have less contact, but there are two people who never send messages, but the relationship has not changed. But I feel lonely when I'm not around.

It's hard to trust others, but it's actually not confident in yourself. You will always suspect that the people around you approach you with ulterior motives, always feel that you don't deserve to be treated so warmly, and always start to be afraid of getting hurt before you open your heart. Doesn't this just feel like you're not strong enough?

A friend is someone who has a similar personality or situation to you, and will resonate with you in many things. Think about it, although there are so many people, there are two kinds of personalities, introverted and extroverted.

Introvert, directing your interests and concerns to yourself.

Extroversion, directing interests and concerns to the object.

There are also Type A and B classifications for personality.

Type A is impatient, self-motivated, extreme, and in a state of nervousness.

Type B is mild, has a steady demeanor, and is patient and thoughtful.

So, what about you, I think you are an extrovert but a B-type personality, if you want to be the focus of the people around you, if you want to be generous and elegant, you need to consciously go towards the B-type personality, and then find more B-type personalities around you to be friends, and your problems can be solved by yourself.

When I meet people in the same way, I have a special feeling. At some point I felt lost as to who I could trust.

I've been alone for too long, I'm lonely, and it's good to get in touch with people slowly.

This is very normal, after all, everyone has their own life, it is impossible to pay attention to you all the time, you may sometimes feel more lonely, and you also learn not to be too sensitive, sometimes you may think a lot about other people's unintentional behavior or language, try to tolerate, learn not to care too much, and when you feel lonely, you can do something that interests you to enrich yourself.

If you want to manage your emotions suddenly, if you have been like this for a long time, it is recommended to listen to the advice of a professional. We are not professionals and can't give much substance. The most I said was to let you meet more friends and go out more balabala

Then like yourself a little more, be kind to yourself, maybe you haven't met someone who opens your heart.

Try to accept yourself and others.

Take the initiative to talk to a friend, don't talk directly about your helplessness, you can joke or something. Or in a daze....

You are the best trust and reliance.

Looking for friends, I really don't have myself.

Like you, I'm a bit of an introvert, but one day I found out that my friends were always there for me. Only after a deep friendship can you know your heart, open your heart, your friends will smile a little more, and you can find a reason to live.