If you see others through but can t see through yourself, there is nothing more tragic than this.

Ann, people's biggest enemy is not others, but themselves, it's normal to not be able to see through themselves, and those who see through themselves and defeat themselves are saints, there are not many such saints in this world, why care about these, look far, and relax your heart. It's a day to be happy, and it's a day to be irritable, so why not choose to have a happy day. People will only have troubles when they have wisdom, in fact, it should be said that people will have troubles when they are idle.

Use wisdom in the things you like, do what you like, society pollutes us, and we can't resist, but try to be ourselves in our own space.

This is normal, the bystanders are clear, constantly adjust their mentality, find their own shortcomings and work hard to correct them, nothing is bad, no one is perfect.

The ancients said well, stand at thirty, and don't confuse ...... at fortyIf you can understand yourself thoroughly, then you are probably not far from the saints. o(∩_o~

As for seeing through others, although this is incredible, it is actually very simple: others are emotionally up and down in the chess game, and you look at the clouds and breezes from the outside...A calm mind allows you to see so much more than the characters at the time. Of course, you have to like "cranky", and I guess you are very good at interpersonal relationships.

Get rid of the ...... love

So, if you want to open a little, how can this be called a sad urge?? Hehe.

Can't see through yourself? People seem to have this thought, at a certain time period, or under certain circumstances, or when something happens. In the future, I will have such a thought, a thought that I think is very scary, I think this is normal, people are advanced animals.

It can't be said to be a sad urging, but it should be happy to see others through, and it is good to have a sense of proportion in everything you do in the future.

If you want to see through and not say thoroughly, first of all, you need to have the ability to think independently and a high spiritual realm, and then when you see through some things, control your mouth, don't talk about it easily, and fall into the hands of others. Life is diverse, everyone's lifestyle is different, and the personality is not the same, what we have to do is to know how to respect and seek common ground while reserving differences.

First, if you are out of place, don't say that you want to see through it, first of all, you must have a high spiritual realm, be able to have a high emotional intelligence, and understand the characteristics and characters of others when dealing with others. So, you have to experience more things, read more books, and have your own thinking skills. When you see through other people's personalities and practices, if you feel that it is out of place or controversial, don't speak, don't talk about it, and try to reduce your own sense of existence.

2. Respect for the three views of different peopleThere are different people in this world, and everyone's personality is different. If there are things that you see through and don't like to do so, learn to respect and distinguish between them. Respect the three views of different people, and don't easily criticize and slander, because there is no black and white in this world, and many things are very complicated.

3. Have the ability to think independentlyThe third point is to have the ability to think independently. You have to calm down and think carefully about what is behind what happened and what the consequences will be. It is also necessary to learn to empathize and be cautious in order to have a deeper understanding of things.

In addition, it is also necessary to keep a calm mind, not to follow the crowd, not to follow what others say, to have their own judgment of right and wrong and the psychology of seeking common ground while reserving differences, not to stand in line easily, and to remain calm.

Of course, it is a breath in the throat, and such a realm is particularly high. Because he can do it without thinking about it, without saying it, you can think you can.

Seeing through it or not, this is indeed the highest, the realm of getting along with people, there are some things that you can clearly see the truth of the matter, but there is no need to say it, save face for him. It's also about being a man and leaving a point, so that we can see each other in the future.

If you want to do this, then you have to see through some things, smile slightly, don't say it, just know it in your heart, so that you can cultivate the highest realm.

When you hear or see words or things with connotations, just smile and don't say anything, keep your mouth shut, talk less, watch more and listen more.

If you want to see through and not say thoroughly, then you must be tolerant of other people's behavior, and you must be very generous.

If a person sees through himself, he will not underestimate others. —Lao She.

No one is perfect. Everyone has strengths and weaknesses, and he can easily find the shortcomings of others, and he is a person who understands. But it's hard to find out what's wrong with you.

I don't know the true face of Lushan, only because I am in this mountain. Therefore, you have to reflect on yourself from time to time, examine yourself, and be able to see your own shortcomings and faults, and this is the real wisdom.

Everything in the world naturally has its own laws, and when people think that what they get after seeing through the essence may not be happiness, but more thorough loneliness. Even if you see yourself in the quagmire, you still have to struggle in the quagmire, every scene staged in front of you is bizarre, and behind it is intertwined with a huge net of intertwined circles, and you can't help yourself, and you can't help yourself.

People always have a hard time looking at Min Luqing himself, even if he knows his shortcomings. Just like the operation of nursing technology, watching others operate the sail is able to find faults, thinking that they will do well, but when they come to themselves, they find that their own operation is also full of problems. In fact, everyone is constantly playing a different role.

No matter how you look in the mirror, it's hard to see your true self.

He is not wise that is not wise for himself. We must be clear about our own strength, know what we want, and never keep our eyes on others all the time, so that it is difficult to find our own problems.

Quiet to self-cultivation, thrifty to cultivate virtue.

Every day before going to bed, take out half a small knee to sit and reflect on my body.

I've been confused, what is the biggest obstacle at the moment?

Asking Yi is not divination, but an expansion of a way of thinking. The world is impermanent, but what is constant is the logic and karma of cause and effect.

Accumulate energy and be virtuous.

You can't change others, you can only change yourself. I specially made a table, three provinces of my body, record the changes of myself, and be a noble person of myself.