Whoever is a virtuous sinner will not be burdened by human expectations

For the poor, you just have to be more ruthless than others.

relax, relax.

Hehe, that's a common thing.

It's not a big deal, you can apply for a transfer, you just have to go.

Why are you being at the mercy of others?

But things are always on both sides, or he has a heart disease.

There are still a lot of people in this world who are surprisingly out of the ordinary.

If you don't be reasonable when you meet him, it's useless to just try to do it yourself.

I suggest you fight him! Look at this situation, the more you retreat, the more he advances!

So don't hesitate to fight back, as long as it's not too much!

You're not wrong, it's a mistake, the personality of the individual is different, he doesn't want to make you a friend, you don't have to force it, forget it, it's not easy for everyone to come out to work, the people in the factory are very complicated, don't think too much, take a step back and open the sky, don't find some trouble to come out, work hard!

I encountered this situation when I was in school, we wanted to get along with her, but people just looked at us and didn't like it, and they looked for you when they used you, and they usually worked against you, and bullied you, I was worse than you, and they were co-op to bully me, because I moved into that dormitory later, and I believe you were also more than a later in the factory, I always felt that I was weak and didn't want to cause trouble, and they were still a lot of people, but they were more and more exclusive to you, looking for your fault, and then I had to fight back strongly, we started to be too friendly, they think that we are easy to bully, we are not inferior in the face of this evil force, be brave, and win against them, she knows that no one is easy to bully, don't always think that you are amazing, if you are afraid of offending her and her good interests, this kind of person you just cut off your head and send her to her, she will give you a ball to kick, we don't have to endure it anymore! I resisted and won! At least not as suffocated as it used to be.

Peers are like enemies, because you have a "competitive" relationship in it. Whether you have done something wrong or not, the average old man will bully the newcomer. If you are a newcomer, then he will think that the leader does not trust his work, and you may replace him in the future, then he will definitely try to suppress you to prove himself.

If this person's character is rubbish, then there is no need to spend any feelings to build a good relationship with him. If he just has prejudices against you and is not bad for others, then on the premise of doing his job well, support him in some places, see his reaction, and everyone will be familiar with it in a month or two.

Remember, if you want people to look up to you, you must first do it well, do more things, and do it perfectly and thoughtfully, and everyone will naturally look at you with admiration. If you do this, there is no need to deliberately care about what others do to you.

If you can endure things, you don't have to endure them anymore!

For the servile person, you have to teach him a lesson, saying that nothing else is useless... Beat him until he wears such a person will never be your equals among colleagues, either he steps on you or you step on him--- I met it when I first joined the work".

Because you work the same as him.

Whether you're wrong or not depends on how well you relate to other colleagues.

I don't think that's your fault, it's that they have a problem with their psychology or character. If you are kind to them, they will think that you are currying favor with them and showing weakness to them, so they bully you. You should be tough, be kind to others, but don't be too accommodating.

Be a leader, calm down, not panic, and come up with solutions in a timely manner, so that your status in the eyes of others will be greatly improved. There is also to be generous in dealing with people, don't be shy, don't twist, so that you are a successful person in the hearts of others. If you do that, I don't think anyone will bully you anymore.

A bad relationship can be cultivated slowly, maybe you meet a bad mood when you think about the problem from a different angle...

How people treat me, how I treat others, don't lower your posture, just be normal.

When you speak, you should consider the feelings of others and don't say too much, but when you say it, you must make people feel that what you say is useful and not nonsense. It's the same with doing things. Handle relationships, try to help others when they are in trouble, but don't add icing on the cake when they are not in difficulty.

I advise you to study more, just such a little thing, I haven't expressed it clearly after writing so much, learn first to improve your quality, and no one will dare to bully you in the future.

Don't be too high-profile!

Well, you have to have a normal heart, and it's the same for everyone

I ask you a word: You were bitten by a dog today, do you still want to bite back?

Treat villains, you have to pay attention, only villains and women are difficult to raise in the world, remember, treat thick-skinned people, your skin is thicker than him, I'm so cheap, what do you want? That's it.

What your friend said is not wrong, what he said is that you don't get used to them, don't treat them as friends, you know, friends will not embarrass you like this in terms of interests, you have to stick to your own position, they embarrass you like this, you don't follow them, see how they are. There is no need to satisfy them and treat them as friends. What your friend said about protecting yourself is that you have to see if they are bullying you, you have to be able to tell, and then take corresponding measures to prevent it.

It's not wrong for your friend to let the villain know that you are very powerful, you learn to fight back, and you have to find an opportunity to reveal to them what you are capable of, and it is best to fight with which person, so that they know that you are not good at bullying, and the villain is bullying the soft and afraid of the hard, which is not wrong at all.

It seems that your friend is a good person, so you do what he says, and when you deal with villains, that's how you have to do it.

Some people say that suffering is a blessing

If it's not something too excessive, I don't think you need to be too angry For example, things at work, he is now directing you to work, you are a little tired, but you think about it the other way, these things are done by yourself, you do a good job is your own credit, you have a sense of achievement, and you are the one who has learned the ability Besides, you can't be like this all your life, right?

The gentleman is frank, and the villain is often related

Stay away from this kind of person Friends are not more than fine 1 or 2 friends can help you Chinese have always bullied the soft and afraid of the hard

As the saying goes: the soft is afraid of the hard, and the hard is afraid of the dead

Think about it from another angle, why do they bully you?

In the world, remember one thing, have faith, it's not them who bully you, you bully them, it's not interesting.

Yes, this is the world of the jungle.

Have your own principles, and this friend of yours should mix well by now.

Be realistic, not imaginary. Pointless!

In favor of the upstairs! You must be confident!

Think about it from another angle, suffering is a blessing.

Society is so complicated, you have to protect yourself, and I feel that it is really difficult to survive away from my favorite campus.

You're so nice.

It's also a bit cowardly.

Ask the question, is he your boss? Why did he tell you to do the heavy lifting? If it's your boss, then you can only listen, and if not, ignore him and be your own

It's not all right, and it's good to repay grievances with virtue.

You have to let people know that you have a temper and you can't always be a good person, you know, or people will think that you are a good bully, you can help others, they will seem to be very good to you, but if you infringe on their interests, they will bully you, if you don't, they will feel reasonable when they bully you, but if you don't let them think that you are a bully, it won't be like this, for example, if you learn to say no, they will remember you when they accept your help, and they won't bully you like this It's going to feel like you're usually very good, but you still have a temper, and when you lose your temper, it will really make them unbearable, and it's fine, but you can't lose your temper often, it's not good for people, you know, you have to try to refuse.

Finally, I wish you a job soon.

You are from other places, you can only say that you are very unlucky, and the quality of the people in the factory is low.

Either endure it or change the land.

Let's say you're working in a factory in your hometown, and you're out of town. Can you say that you would be polite to them and could not be more polite? You're not going to ask him to do something for you?

Even if that's the case, I'm sure you're not going to do it too much. After a long time, these things have become very normal, today he helps you, tomorrow you help him.

The main thing is that you have a good temper, and now some people take other people's kindness as weakness, and learn to fight back appropriately, of course, not fighting, but refusal, so that others know how measured you are, and let them understand that you are not easy to bully.

Don't overcomplicate it, it's a normal part of interpersonal interactions, get used to it.

To be a man must have his own principles, you can not worry about small things, and you need to take big things seriously, your situation is a typical "rectal cold violence", it is recommended that you leave quickly!

What you see is a superficial phenomenon, on the surface it seems that everyone is good, but the good people you are talking about, they know how to operate, and you don't know how to operate.

Don't get into a head-on confrontation with someone, it's going to be troublesome.

What to do? I know you've worked hard! You don't have to put them, I greet them and they don't show me much!

Hone slowly, and one day, when you have lost enough, you will also mature and sophistication.

Unless you have smooth sailing, sooner or later, reality will grind off your edges and corners and make you sleek in life.

Because the general environment of Chinese society does not allow people who are different and have too individuality to live well.

Even if he is a genius, he is only popular after death.

First of all, respect and trust others in the process of interaction. If you can take a deep breath before you lose your temper before talking, give yourself a buffer. At the same time, we must respect ourselves, and only by respecting ourselves can we respect others. Socialize with a grateful heart!

Think about it before you talk about it, and make a draft in your mind before you speak. Usually also self-cultivation, try to avoid conflicts with people, speak three points of laughter, there is a good saying: reach out and don't hit smiling people.

This relationship can only be changed by changing from within oneself. Hehe, I hope it helps you.

One word you learn to "endure".

If you suffer a lot, you will know that you have changed! What can you do if you can't control your temper?

I hate such colleagues very much, it is a bully, and this kind of person always wants to bully new colleagues in the company. One of the most disgusting people. Here's an idea for you:

If you have a chance, you can invite A to dinner, and tell him how bad you were before, how you fought with others, etc., of course, some of them have to be fictional, mainly to let him know how good you are, and then tell her that you are a person with a more straightforward temper, and you are not the kind of bully, but if anyone bullies me, then I will not be polite to him.

Look at how he behaves, and if he still bullies you, then don't talk about face.

I am very sympathetic to your situation, I have also encountered it, but don't be afraid of anything at any time, salute first and then soldier.

It doesn't matter what kind of person it is.

First of all, the psychology must have a goal--- and not make enemies.

It's true that he's wrong, it's true that he's not a good thing, so I won't tell you, because others won't like him, maybe I'm not good enough, it's also our lack of communication, so you need to communicate more with the same time, what to communicate? What they're interested in, what they're interested in, listen!!

You have to want others to respect you, you don't have a bag, in addition to being familiar with them, you must also have your own principles and excellent skills, even if there is only one, there will be people who admire you.

If you're young, you still have to respect him – even though maybe he's a straw bale and nothing less than you.

You have just joined the company, you need friends, not enemies. What kind of master, it doesn't hurt to scream. And lose nothing.

Since he said that he is your master, maybe he does have more experience in the work than you, so it doesn't hurt to learn first. You invite him to eat 2 small meals, and get close to him. You can take the opportunity to inquire more about the company's business situation and personnel relationship background, so as not to know the depths.

Do it to make him feel like you are an ally with him.

As for him to send you, you can help him do the little things you can, and if it's a long-term job, you can find an excuse not to do it, but don't break out into a head-on conflict. After a long time, you are qualified, and he is embarrassed to send you again.

Turn enemies into friends.,This is the upper level Oh.,Hehe.。。 Good luck in your work

You have to try to be technically motivated (more than A), and you must do a good job in interpersonal relationships first, ignore him, according to your description, A is a proud and arrogant person.

Only when everyone else (excluding A) is familiar with what kind of person you are can you be polite to A.

When the time comes, everyone will take the initiative to help you.

I believe everyone's eyes are bright!