The question of how to educate children to be petty, disobedient, self centered

Indeed, there are many children who see delicious food and fun and cry and shout to their parents to buy it, and if you don't buy it, he will cry to you.

This scene is very common, and I have encountered it, (it is my little nephew, six years old) who flattens his mouth at every turn, pretends to be pitiful, and if you ignore him, he really cries.

For this kind of 'scoundrel' child, some parents beat him on the spot, beating the child to cry (hit the child's body, pain in the father's heart, why bother), some coax him, saying that there is no money now, and he will buy it later, and some are just according to the child's will (this kind of general economic conditions).

The child is disobedient, that's for sure, parents, there should be a good person, a bad person, the father is strict, the mother is kind, (vice versa) the father has taught him, the mother should not be in a hurry to coax him immediately (because this has little effect) let the child cry by himself for 30 seconds or 1 minute (don't let the child cry for too long, otherwise he will be angry on his own) The child is not sensible does not mean that he does not know the mistake, in the time of crying, he will have fear in his heart, then the good person, the mother should go up and coax him

Uh, seeing the hard work of the people around me taking care of the children, I don't dare to have children, speechless + ...... failure）

Let him play with patience. Take your time, you can't rush to come now, you haven't taken care of it before, so let's bother more now, there's no way.

For children's education, we must teach them according to their needs, and correct problems in a timely manner, but we must pay attention to strategies; Children focus on encouragement and praise, find out his shining points and praise them, and he will become more and more obedient.

There is no doubt that a six-year-old child who is naughty and disobedient can directly start beating him, and the beating is absolutely the most effective.

Six-year-olds need to deal with it slowly and give them some personal learning space so that they can grow and become talents.

Parents need to let their children correct their attitudes first, and then communicate with their children in a calm tone.

Establish rules and boundaries. Children need to know what to do, what not to do, and what the consequences are if you do something wrong. This allows the child to be clear about the standards of behaviour and to know the consequences of making mistakes.

Rules and boundaries can be established through family meetings, house rules, etc.

Establish a good communication mechanism. Parents need to give their children enough time and attention so that they feel respected and heard. When children make mistakes, parents should adopt an open and gentle attitude to communicate and help children understand their mistakes and know how to correct them.

Give positive feedback. When children behave well, parents should give full praise and reward, which can boost children's self-confidence and motivation. Parents can also set goals with their children to give them a sense of accomplishment and stimulate their self-management skills.

Lead by example. Children will imitate their parents' behaviors and attitudes, so parents should lead by example and be a good example. For example, if a parent often loses his temper with his child, then the child will also learn this bad behavior.

Seek outside help. If your child's problems are more severe, parents can seek outside help, such as consulting a professional psychologist or homeschooling specialist. These professionals can provide more professional advice and support to help parents address their children's issues.

It is the nature of children to be naughty, and children should not be debugged into the "good" children imagined by adults. For naughty children, it is necessary to take the weight as the lead. Then naughty children are also highlights, according to the harmonious teaching method, so that the child's naughtiness is more and more level, teachers and parents if according to a sentence of appreciation, a slow with the strokes of Tong, a communication between each other, to debug naughty, will become very elegant and plastic arts.

Furthermore, debugging a naughty child into a "well-behaved" child is not a success in education and training. Nowadays, some adults stipulate children with their own eyes, and use their interpretation of "well-behaved" to consider children, and as a result, children should not be perfect and mature, and they should not be mature and sophisticated, and a mouth is "adult tone". In fact, this kind of "well-behaved" is based on the cost of giving up the child's nature, and it is the conviction of adults to decide the child's rough personal behavior.

In fact, when children become "good" children in the eyes of adults, their innocence and childlike innocence are also "taken away".

The adolescent rebellion of a naughty teenager is particularly strong, and when he makes a mistake, if he just blindly reprimands and blames, the actual effect will only outweigh the gains. At this time, if you do not blame and reprimand him against the results of his "prediction", or even just pretend to be deaf and dumb and ignore him, the child's psychological state will become excited, and he will think about the position of the mistake again, so that the child will be given a period of time to rationalize his own brain, and then communicate with him in some cases, because the child has already reflected on his own mistakes, so he can calmly accept the suggestions of teachers and parents.

Although children are young, they are very competitive, especially naughty children, and teachers and parents should persistently treat them with the concept of dividing into two, and try to find their bright spots to motivate their development. Generally speaking, naughty children are mostly intelligent, energetic, and have strong language skills. With the right guidance, they are usually more productive.

For naughty children, teachers should not pick out their own language expressions and expressions, but use various forms to show these people our love. Even if it is just a bruised smile, a word of concern, and two close strokes, it will make many people feel that "the teacher and my parents may love me and sell the promotion, I should listen to the teacher's famous words".

A child is like a mirror in a home, and it is very easy to shape what kind of child in a home. Therefore, for the cultural education of naughty children, more attention should be paid to the critical stage of home-school cooperation. Starting from home, master the methods and ways to think about the family atmosphere of children and teenagers, the literacy of parents, and their cultural education.

According to a variety of methods such as interviews, parent questionnaires and contacts, teachers and parents discuss ways to educate naughty children. On this basis, we can achieve problem-oriented, mutual benefit and win-win results, and produce the best cooperation.

Today's children are very smart and naughty, which means that they know more about things outside the world through the Internet and learn faster. Educate disobedient children to quarrel, I change the front of the staff can use our knowledge, let the child base shout to convince the child to like to listen to you talk about some useful things, he does not know things, so that education will attract the attention of the child, let the child follow you to learn.

The best way is to educate through language, so that children can recognize their mistakes, can tremble and show cartoons to children, and the educational significance can also be understood by children.

I think we should have a good grasp with the child, understand the real old thoughts in the child's heart, and then we should actively guide the child, do not use the way of beating and scolding to educate the child, we must be good and guide the child slowly.

We must convince people with reason, let children understand the consequences of doing so, and also establish a correct three views for children, and parents must have a correct guidance.

You can scold yourself, as long as your attitude is particularly strict, and the child knows that it is not right to do so, he will not be so naughty next time.