Regarding the problem of feelings, thank you very much for your help

I get irritable and angry for no reason, because I am now insecure. The specific reason is only known to you psychologically, this state has a certain relationship with different places, two people are not together for a long time, they have more time to be independent, and the psychological thinking problem is clear, and they can look at each other's relationship more considerably. This state of separation for a short period of time helps the relationship to become stronger, and it is easy to become estranged after a long time.

Therefore, if you cherish each other, you will end this state of being in a different place as soon as possible.

I think it's strange, since it's a different place, shouldn't we be happy when we meet, how can I lose my temper?

I guess your irritability for no reason must be because he doesn't live up to your level or he can't meet your needs. But you can't say it to your face, you can only lose your temper.

You see, he's not pleasing here, he's not pleasing there. I think some people downstairs say that this is the run-in period, and I agree with it, some people can get through it and live a good life. And some people broke up unhappily.

Many people who have passed the run-in period are very happy in the end. You also think about your own shortcomings, it's not that he's bad alone.

I used to be with my boyfriend, the two were very good at the beginning, but slowly they didn't like each other, and then we separated for a while, and finally found that the right person was him, because everyone has shortcomings, and after we reconciled, we tolerated each other. If there is a small contradiction, it will be fine for a while if it is not expanded. Now the relationship has always been very good, and they treat each other as the most intimate person.

You're not tired of him, you're not used to a long-distance relationship, you're afraid that he will leave you in your heart, don't worry, it's okay, but you have to make it clear to him, don't let him think you're a vexatious girl, let him be bored with you, although the long-distance relationship is hard, but it's good to persevere, my brother and my sister-in-law are still in a foreign relationship, my brother went to college abroad, my sister-in-law is in China, although it's very hard, but they are getting married now, hehe, I wish you happiness.

It's not that I'm bored, but I treat him as a family member, you don't find that you are more casual with your family, and you will lose your temper at will when you are unhappy. You think more about his goodness, your temper should be properly controlled, and cherish him well, otherwise after a long time, no matter how good a person is, he will be impatient! I wish you all happiness.

After two people have been together for a certain period of time, they will go from peak to trough, and if you go through the trough and understand each other's shortcomings and faults, you can go on all the time.

Two people have a period of mutual attraction together.

There is also a run-in period, and it is not pleasing to the eye when you look at each other.

It's good to pass the run-in period.

Do you compare yourself to others?

Is it your mood at work that affects you?