Should I continue to get along with blind date men?

Anyway, I'm not very in favor of blind dates, but if you have a fate, you'll be together anyway.

Men are sometimes very stripy!! But in this case of yours, I think you should not be too proactive, women must learn to refuse!!

Since you have doubts, let's divide it, it's like this at the beginning, and there is still a long way to go in the future, how to get along? It's very uncomfortable to think of such a capricious person, if I would divide it, but if you like him and can tolerate him, that's another matter, and you can see that you still have a good impression of him. It's yours and yours isn't yours to grab it, or you're looking at it after a while.

I feel that you are in love with him, or accept the facts, if you like him, what if he kisses you, is it that you are married to him, don't you let him kiss you, if he doesn't kiss you, do you think he likes you, he kisses you means that he likes you, if you like it, chase it, don't deceive yourself anymore, this problem of kissing you is not a problem at all, don't think too much, that man is not bad, don't take the initiative to kiss you, then this man is not normal, your blind date was originally for the purpose of marriage, Why bother always trying to kiss you, can't you just let your future husband kiss it, do you have to get married, if you find out that she doesn't kiss you when you get married, then you won't regret whether this man is incompetent

The process of emotional run-in is the most intense stage, and the sweet in this process can be very sweet, and the bitter can be very bitter.

I don't know what stage your relationship is in, if you have only been together for a few months, no matter how open your view of love and marriage is, I do not recommend you to live together.

At this time, your relationship may not be able to go through this stage, and you think that living together is to let two people have more time to be together and more time to be sweet. However, true cohabitation is nothing more than exposing all the shortcomings in front of the other person, and all the living habits go through a stage of integration.

When you first started your relationship, you see each other's eyes are bright, and you spend a lot of time dressing up when you go out on a date every day, and the image of the other party in your heart is not very real. There is really no need to let cohabitation speed up the process of the relationship, just enjoy the current period of love. Choosing to live together during the love period may shatter all the expectations in your heart.

If your relationship is already stable, and two people want to take their relationship further by living together, this is understandable. At this time, they already have a certain understanding of each other, and the decisions they make are no longer carried away by a wave of love. You may feel that the other person is the person you want and can't wait to get involved in the other person's life as soon as possible.

Whatever the purpose, you should make a decision based on the whole thing.

My boyfriend and I chose to live together after five months together, and I didn't think much about it at the time, I just wanted to be with each other every day.

From the beginning of the stir-fry of how many chili peppers to put in the quarrel, now he can accompany me to eat extra spicy, I can also accompany him to eat slightly spicy.

However, today I realized that I could not accept the practice of cohabitation, and my perception did not keep up with my behavior. I think I've done something wrong, so I'm tormented from time to time.

Living together made me love him more and more, but my mental burden also became heavier.

If you want to live with your boyfriend, you have to figure it out for yourself.

Can you afford to take the risk of cohabitation? Is this what you want for yourself?

If you don't have any doubts, just do whatever you want.

If you really don't like this blind date man, you can make it clear to him directly. If you don't like a person and are barely with her, you will definitely not be happy. You should find a boyfriend who can really care about you, take care of you, and make you feel safe so that you will be happier.

If you feel that the other party is not suitable for you, then you can not continue, there is no need to be unhappy for such a person, after all, it is just a blind date and not a decision to be together.

1. Add points to your own image

You can add the QQ of the girl you want to meet and go on a blind date in advance to learn about her hobbies. She likes the characteristics of men. If she likes sunny and handsome big boys, she can dress casually and casually, and if he likes mature and stable career boys, she can wear suits and leather shoes.

2. Find out what the cause is

If the first blind date fails, you can ask what the reason is, metaphorically the other party may think you are too mature, you can also change your appearance and personality and dress up next time, you can be casual, but also let friends give some advice and help, or talk more when meeting girls, so that the atmosphere becomes happy.

3. Don't look too high

When you go on a blind date, don't look too high. For example, I know a big brother, many blind dates in a year, but he is not satisfied, most of them are that he doesn't look down on others, or he thinks that others are not beautiful enough, or he thinks that others are too low, and he wants to find a girl with a high education, young and beautiful, the best of both worlds, so perfect people, it is estimated that it will be difficult.

4. Improve your own conditions

Not to mention how rich you are, at least you have a stable place to live and a stable job. Because reality is very important. Without a stable job, life is not guaranteed, which girl wants to be with a person who has nothing.

5. Make more good friends. Friends

Read more books, in addition, let yourself have a few more hobbies, so that when you meet with girls, you will not be too embarrassed, and you don't know what topics to talk about, resulting in a dull scene. When your life is rich, you will be able to talk about more topics with each other.

6. Don't be discouraged if the blind date fails

Failing on a blind date does not mean that you are not good enough, perhaps it is the reason why the other party has too high vision and demands too much. How did the blind date man return to the "blind date battlefield", it is said that some boys couldn't stand this blow and chose the path of self-abandonment. One or two blind date failures don't mean anything, maybe fate hasn't come yet, and the person who is really suitable for you is still waiting for you to discover!

There are also many uncertainties in blind dates, blind date failure is a very common thing, the key is to know how to summarize the reasons for blind date failure. How the blind date man returned to the "blind date battlefield", the spirit of never giving up is worthy of appreciation.

Since it is a blind date, and they have a good impression of each other, this is a good start, the blind date is to get married, the romantic thing is done, the good side is also shown, and the rest is the time to expose the veil.

Love can only be "piano, chess, calligraphy, painting, poetry, hops", but marriage requires "firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea", when the two blind dates have passed each other's "appearance association, hard match", it is time to understand a person's inside.

Nowadays, people are not only looking for a partner when they get married, but also pay attention to the fit of the soul, if two people are together, the words are not speculative, the will is not the same, then it will be difficult to come together in the future.

If you want to understand a person thoroughly, get in touch with some external people and things, and judge a person's inner qualities, his words and deeds, and his policy of doing things all determine his character.

Then go on a trip with him! It is said that travel can test a person the most, because there will be a lot of unexpected things happening during the journey, strange places, strange people, and strange networks, in order to better see a person's way of doing things, and better test a person's ability to survive.

The test is to go shopping with him, this shopping is not for you to pay for him to buy things, but you can see a person's consumption level through shopping, will live and will not live, see different things, and have different views, a person who has the ability to make money, can understand the best items, if a person has a very low income, but has always been so fond of luxury, then think about whether you can support him in the future.

You can also create a joyful atmosphere together according to the hobbies of the two, such as they both like sports, you can often go to fitness, running, playing badminton, etc., and you can also go to read books together, cultivate sentiment, self-cultivation, these small hobbies can not only see a person's physical fitness, but also find a person's precipitation.

If conditions permit, you can also meet in each other's single apartments, and the coffee you brew and cook by yourself will also add a lot of fun, and you can also see a person's love and enjoyment of life.

Sometimes you can also take him to integrate into the increased circle of life, when there are many people, you can find out whether the other party is as perfect as you found, what is his attitude towards the friends around him, how his communication ability is, how his popularity of the opposite sex, etc., these daily days can better test a character.

I think before two people determine the relationship, we must go through good consideration, enough understanding before making a decision, people are the same, to what age should do something, young boys and girls should be in love when they reach the age of love should be in the spring to find a partner, love at the beginning of men and women are full of curiosity and infinitely beautiful love and marriage, follow the feeling and love at first sight is the luxury of any innocent age of men and women, but it is not easy to meet the object that can make you tempted, even if you have the opportunity to go on a blind date, you should be cautious, You must know that if you want to find someone who makes you feel pleasing to the eye or can be entrusted for life, you should figure out a few questions about whether the other party is the right person in the blind date process:

First, we must first understand whether the shortcomings of both sides make each other tolerant and tolerant. When you are in love, you generally see the advantages of the other party, and even the shortcomings that are exposed will be ignored as cuteness. And after getting married, it's different, living together for a long time, you can often see a lot of each other's shortcomings, and a lot of different living habits from yourself.

If you are tolerant enough, if you can accommodate another person who has completely different habits from you, if you have the confidence to change the other person's bad habits without making a fuss, or if you love each other and can tolerate all the strengths and weaknesses of the other person, then your marriage should not be too wrong. Marriage is the process of mutual tolerance, there is no theory to study married life, marriage is marriage, it is firewood, rice, oil and salt every day.

Second, then we should find out whether the other party's education level is basically the same as your own. A high degree of education may not necessarily bring a high quality of life, and a low education will never have a high level of quality of life. It is more difficult for people with low education to succeed in starting a business, and even if they succeed, they are rare.

Therefore, too low education usually means low income, means poor living environment, and means living at the bottom of society. Therefore, if the other party does not have an average level of education recognized by society, does it mean that the other party's IQ is difficult to meet the necessary standards for survival? Does it mean that you are less likely to achieve your goal of living a prosperous life?

Excessively low educational qualifications will also bring inevitable troubles to the understanding of real life, the mediation of marital conflicts and the attitude towards daily life.

3. Finally, it is necessary to understand whether the other party's personality and hobbies are similar to your own interests. However, a boy's vanity is easily lost by the girl's beauty, knowing that as the years fade, even the most beautiful looks will wither. Therefore, one should consider the local folklore, and the other should think twice before thinking about whether you are ready to end your single life.

Is there enough forgiveness to accommodate the run-in friction in the lives of the two? Seriously consider whether the two of them can afford to share the real life after love and marriage? It is hoped that both sides will be able to think carefully before deciding whether to take a crucial step.

Consider the economic situation of the boy's family, the boy's ability to work, and whether the boy has the potential to develop in his career.