Why don t you feel love with a girl?

Hello, maybe you don't like to listen to what I said, you're still very young, a lot of things about yourself are not qualified, and you are now in the age of fun, your friends seem to be a little big, even if you don't want to play and want to live together, do you think it's possible, after all, you haven't decided on anything now, whether it's career or study, men don't test a face, and women are the same, if you don't have some real talent, how to maintain it, no matter how good your family background is, it's not your ability, so you still have a chance, Enrich yourself, learn some skills, etc., or go to college, and when you reach a certain age, you will feel yourself, I hope you find a girl who is not only beautiful but also has connotation and quality, at that time you will not only have feelings, maybe you also know how to cherish and love each other, I wish you all the best luck!

Is it family affection or love! See for yourself! It's to treat her as a sister or a lover. Can't you see that she will miss her? Do you feel lonely without her, love someone will often think about her and care about her. If you don't love it, let it go and let everyone be OK

Everyone's taste is different, which means that she has no connotation, and if you have that kind of thought, it means that you don't like her character, think about it yourself

That means that the two of you are only suitable to be confidants.

You shouldn't love her, you have scruples in your heart, maybe you treat her as a sister.

Judging by how you feel, this girl can only be considered your confidant.

A girl who can communicate with your heart is not bad and happy.

In fact, love and non-love are very delicate, have you really loved someone or been loved, and what love feels like? If you have had this experience, you may not have forgotten your old relationship, you and your current girlfriend can't say love, but at least you can say that you like it a little, you can slowly accept her, maybe she may be your future other half.

If you are in love with each other, you will miss each other very much, and you will feel like you haven't seen each other for a day, and you will be more enthusiastic after meeting, which means that you are in love with each other.

Do you really love him? What are you doing with him for? Ask yourself, and maybe you have the answer.

There is a saying: Love is an ethereal thing, I don't know what to do, and I love it deeply. ”

It is true that love always makes people can't help it, love is love, and the other party's attitude towards themselves, the other party's economic situation, and the other party's family situation ......It doesn't matter.

However, falling in love with someone and being able to be together are not the same thing.

As someone said:

Love is a person's thing, just because of a heartbeat, but whether they can be together is a matter of two people, and there are too many realistic considerations. ”

In this world, not all deep love can eventually achieve positive results, how much love there is, how much love there is.

Although there are various reasons why two people can't be together, after careful study, most of them can't escape the following three reasons if they love someone deeply but can't be together.

Wishful thinking, love but not love.

A good relationship is never a one-sided insistence of one person, but needs to be maintained by two people.

If you love someone, he does not respond to your initiative in the slightest, he always shows a lack of enthusiasm for your attachment, he never takes you seriously, and always turns a blind eye to your love.

Then your hard work will only become a joke, and you will only be hurt in the end.

In the TV series "The Crocodile and the Toothpick Bird", Li Nanen, a small-town girl, fell in love with her senior Takagi when she was studying architecture at the University of Victor in France. But Takagi has someone he likes, and he doesn't like her.

However, for such a situation, Li Nanen thinks that as long as he insists, he will definitely move the other party and make the other party fall in love with him. So she was very considerate and thoughtful to Takagi, and she did her best to do what Takagi asked her to help do.

However, all these efforts were in vain, and Lee Nam-eun not only did not move Takagi, but was decisively rejected when he confessed.

It was also at that moment that Li Nanen really saw clearly and really died.

Why be with a girl you love dearly? Don't feel it? I feel that it is very likely that one of the two of you is unrequited, so there will be this feeling, maybe he doesn't love you, so you feel that he has no feelings for you, don't think you do something she is uncomfortable with, so she has the kind of life she wants in her heart, you can't give it.

I don't feel it when I'm with a girl who is deep in my own life. It shows that you have been together since childhood. The two sides know each other too well and know each other too well. Since you were a child, you treated her as a sister or buddy, and she also treated you like a brother. That's why I can't have the feeling of a lover.

If you don't feel the woman you love deeply, you just think you love each other, if you love each other, you may have the feeling of electric shock, not without a little feeling, if you have a feeling, it means that the two people only have family affection, no feelings.

With a girl you love, you don't feel it, it's because although you love him, like him in your heart, and think about him in your heart, this girl doesn't have any feelings for you, and there are seven points of feeling.

This causes you to have true feelings and true feelings, but girls don't like you either, so he doesn't feel it, so he says.

Why don't you have feelings with a girl you love, it's because maybe the two of you don't have much contact time or very little, and both of you have a feeling of taking care of it, so you don't feel it. It should be touched more. If you don't know each other, you won't feel that way.

I think it may be your psychological problem, you are with your own beloved girl, you will not feel that it may be your problem.

I think that love is the feeling of both boyfriend and girlfriend, and if it is not for mutual attraction and admiration, there will be inequality in the relationship, and it will be difficult to maintain such a relationship, so you will not feel in love when you are with the girl you love deeply.

You say that you are with a girl you love deeply and you don't feel anything, which means that you still don't love this girl, so you don't feel this way. If you love, you won't say, you won't feel it.

Because after a long time, there is no novelty for two people to be together, and there may be more and more problems, which will cause the two of you not to want to be together. If the problem is not solved, maybe the two of you will slowly have to separate, because you are not happy together, and you will not think about continuing.

Hello, if you don't feel it, you don't love her, although you say you love her on the surface, but if you don't feel it, you don't love her, your heart tells you the answer.

Even if you love deeply, how can you not feel it, which shows that you are not deeply in love at all, but only attracted to the opposite sex.

Because you get it, maybe what you like is not that person, but the feeling of liking a person.

Why are you with a girl you love? Don't feel it? Why are you with a girl you love? There is no feeling because maybe you are unrequited love, there is only friendship and family affection, and there is no love.

I think it's very likely that one of the two of you is unrequited, that's why you feel this way, maybe he doesn't love you, so you feel like she doesn't have feelings for you.

Is it that you can't find the innocence and carefree happiness in your heart, maybe it's because of a long time, or because of something else, there is a psychological separation between each other, chat more and spend more time with her, and you will get back to the previous feeling!

Because the so-called deep love is just a self-righteous illusion and illusion, in fact, what you really love is just an idealized dream, and reality and some trivial things undoubtedly dissipate your good feelings.

Why be with a girl you love dearly? Don't feel it? This seems impossible, you should like it and have feelings, which means that you have no feelings for him.

I guess you must be on the verge of dividing and not separating, right?

Is there something wrong that must be separated?

In fact, if it is a relationship that you are invested in, you must cherish it, especially the relationship that has not been cracked.

When you are separated from the person you like, there must be a lot of reluctance in your heart! will remember all the news about her, and ask her about her current situation without free lords.

Of course, if this is not the case, it means that you can let her go and be able to look at her with a blessed mentality.

I don't know why, you want to separate, I just hope that if the relationship is very strong, it is better to cherish it, after all, you have done your best, even if you really separate in the future, you will not regret it, because you gave yourself a chance!

You may not understand the meaning of deep love, deep love is that you have an inseparable feeling for each other, you like it no matter what he does, why don't you feel it, if you don't feel it, it means that you still don't love.

If you once loved a girl deeply, but you were with the girl you loved deeply, and you didn't feel that way, I think it's completely the effect of your heart, because you got it, so you don't know how to cherish it, you just feel like that.

The girl you love so much may be because of the man's sense of conquest, and now that you have him, you don't feel it.

It may be due to the girl's own poor sense of security, so he can't feel your love for him, if a person's own sense of security is poor, then he will be more in some details, that is to say, some details in life often cause him to be insecure, when he has such an unsafe factor in his heart, naturally he will not feel your love for him, based on this situation, you need to care more carefully and take care of your girlfriend, Only in this way will she feel secure, and when he has a sense of security, he will naturally feel that you love her, and then your relationship will be smooth.

Of course, it can't last long.

If you don't have feelings for her at the moment, then you can't guarantee that you will have feelings for her in the future. I feel that this kind of thing is very strange, it's hard to describe, no is nothing, you can't force it, you may know the ending when you meet, so you didn't have it at first, and it may not be there later.

I once asked some friends, I feel that this thing is wonderful, now I have a feeling, what if I don't, my friend replied that it was separated, why should I be together if I didn't feel it, I felt that there was still a responsibility to be together, but then I thought about it and it was not a marriage, ** to the responsibility, since it has been found that it is not suitable, it is good for both people to separate decisively.

And your situation is that you don't feel like you're still going to be together at all, is it appropriate for you to wronged yourself like this, after all, you are in love, and you should be in the most comfortable state with another person.

If you are with her, or even after getting married, you find someone you have feelings, what should you do at that time, whether to divorce and pursue the person who has feelings, or to blindly live like this, will you regret being so unconscious before, if you can decisively pursue pure love at that time, you will not be so entangled when you meet someone with feelings.

Everyone deserves to meet the right person, don't just pursue the result because of family reasons or other external factors, if you don't feel for a person, you won't really be good to her, and girls are very sensitive to this aspect, she can feel that at this time she quarrels with you, you will naturally be irritable, too lazy to pay attention to her, so you can't go to the end.

Therefore, it is recommended not to be together, wronged yourself, and wronged the girl.

Hello dear, if a person does not feel love for a long time, sometimes he will be full of sadness about his emotions and life, and even let himself fall into low self-esteem and be reluctant to interact with people. Therefore, women are in a state of "lack of love" for a long time, and there will be such a situation, which is sometimes unavoidable. Easily agitated and has a small temper.

In life, many things around us cannot be compared, and if there is a comparison, there will be harm, and there will be a psychological gap. Those women who are in the love of others, you will often find that they live very happily, their eyes are full of happiness that is difficult to hide, they get along well with the other people around them, they talk very optimistically, and often laugh, many reasons are the charm of love, which makes them happy and sunny. And women who are not loved, often have to face big and small things by themselves, deal with them by themselves, no matter the bits and pieces of life, most of them are like this, when they see the sweet happy moments of others, their hearts will fluctuate greatly.

In this case, they can easily become inferior and withdrawn. Longing for love, sighing at the unfairness of fate, easily getting emotional, and losing his temper over a little thing. Looking back, most people sometimes don't do this, they are less concerned, their sense of existence is low, and they naturally want to find a breakthrough point to vent their depressed feelings.

A woman in deep love will not have such feelings, because others love and others surround her, what a beautiful thing, without experience, there will be no feelings, and generally will not understand. In some cases, they are not vexatious, but they just want others to pay attention to and imitate love. Accustomed to nagging, sometimes complaining.

If a person is in a negative mood for a long time, it is difficult not to be affected by emotions, if there is a lack of love for a long time, sometimes the inner hunger and wisdom will change, look at yourself and everything around you, and have doubts. In this case, there is no response from the people around you, and you will be alone in fragments, habitually complaining, and telling others about your emotions. If you have a boyfriend or lover who doesn't feel loved, you will complain, vent your emotions on your boyfriend or lover, and you will also complain that your boyfriend and lover are not as good as you want, and complain about how your boyfriend and lover are doing, and how your boyfriend and lover are doing.

Looking back and thinking about it carefully, these are very normal psychological phenomena, when a person has felt good in the past, and suddenly there is nothing, this psychological gap, it is natural to complain. A woman who is independent and strong often has a fragile side behind her, and she also expects someone who can see through herself, understand herself, and protect her vulnerability. There will be, complaining about the people and things around you, complaining about why you are like this, if you can be loved, who will pretend to be strong, move forward, and be a well-known female man.

When a woman is disappointed, she can't feel the love of others, or when she is not loved by others, it is possible that her heart is completely disappointed and has no expectations. At this point, he becomes resolute, cold, prefers to be alone, and does not pay much attention to things that do not concern him.