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As the saying goes, life is full of surprises, and I don't know who will experience this surprise next, but Jin in Feixi County really experienced the unexpected surprise. The reason is that more than 10 years after he broke up with his previous lover, he was told that he had an 8-year-old son, but Jin was completely unaware of this matterThis thing also feels very strange, why did the mother of this child choose to speak out about this when he was 8 years old?

01.The ins and outs of the matter Feixi County tried such a strange case, Jin was suddenly told one day that he was sued by someone else in court, Jin. After understanding what happened, he still expressed his doubts.

Because his lover who had broken up for more than 10 years told him that after the two of them broke up, the woman actually found out that she was pregnant, and then gave birth to the child, and now the child is 8 years old. Now the purpose of bringing him to court is to ask Jin to pay child support before the age of 18.

Jin was a little confused, because he had now started a family, and he didn't know about the 8-year-old son in front of him, so he chose to verify, but after verification, it was proved that the 8-year-old son was indeed the father of Jin's biology student.

02.Stubbornly thinks that there is no need for the two people after breaking up, the woman did not choose to tell her ex-boyfriend about the pregnancy and childbirth, perhaps on the one hand, because of her own stubbornness, and on the other hand, she also thinks that it is unnecessary. After the two broke up, the woman may have more or less hatred for the man, so he is naturally unwilling to tell the man about this matter, and chooses to give birth to this child, it is estimated that he is simply reluctant to let the child in his belly have nothing to do with the man, and because he is young and vigorous, he feels that he can raise the child.

03.Of course, this child is more than 8 years old, and he currently has the option to say this, probably because of life, or because his thinking is mature and mature, and he feels that his persistence is not worth it.

Having said that, the woman is now taking the man to court, just to ask for child support, so it is estimated that the woman may have real difficulties in her life to break her persistence for more than 8 years. Of course, it's also possible that you've already jumped out. At that time, the naïve emotions and thoughts were already approaching maturity, and suddenly figured out:

Since it is the child of two people, why should one person raise the other person at least to contribute?

Because the burden of raising a child is a bit heavy, I thought of telling the other party about the child.

Because if you say it in advance, you are afraid that the other party will break up with you, so you don't choose to say it until the child is 8 years old.

I think it's because the more the mother thinks about it, the more unwilling she becomes, and now the child's consumption is much higher, and she can't afford it anymore, so she told the boy's father to fight for child support.

Surprised, of course. Moreover, the woman raised the child alone, and the time must have been very hard, and the man who has responsibility and responsibility will feel guilty and give some compensation.

This feeling is very helpless, and it is also very shocking for me, because it has changed a lot of my life trajectory in the future.

It should be a very surprising feeling, a kind of horror, because it was really so sudden.

It's been 10 years since we broke up, and then my son is 8 years old, and when I saw the news, I was skeptical, because I was pregnant in October, and the two of them hadn't seen each other for 10 years, so how could the child come out after two years? This incident is particularly strange to me.

And what the report afterwards means is that he did pass the DNA testing room, the biological father of this child, and in the end, gave a large amount of living expenses. Let's not say if they have met before and how this child came to be, but I don't approve of the woman's approach. <>

First, children should have the right to know who their father is, and I think it is a great disrespect to children to wait until they are sensible and start to spend more, and suddenly be told by their mother who their father is.

Second, the father of the child should know about the existence of the child, and not after the breakup, the two people cut off all the relationship, the south has formed a new family, and after 10 years, suddenly there is a son, isn't this ruining someone else's happy marriage? It's not just a matter of money, it's a question of morality.

Third, the girl has decided not to let the man know about the existence of this child, but he uses this as a bargaining chip to ask for money, I think this is also a kind of other disrespect to yourself, you have chosen independence, why do you want to treat this matter as a transaction, treat your son who has been raised for so many years as a sum of money, and treat the person you once loved as an ATM, I think this is really not good. <>

We are adults, and we should take responsibility for everything we do, every decision and every choice, instead of leaving a tail in everything as a handle to coerce others into giving you something. This kind of psychology is very unhealthy, and if this is the case in the future, who will dare to associate with others in the future? Isn't it good for everyone to be more sincere, and more sincere?

Because his ex-girlfriend couldn't afford to raise this child, he found his ex-boyfriend in desperation and asked for child support.

The woman found out that she was pregnant after breaking up, but she didn't want to use this way to save the man, and she couldn't bear to beat the child, so she wanted to raise the child alone, but her economic strength did not allow it, so she could only ask the child's father for child support.

When encountering such a thing, don't panic first, first determine the breakup date and the child's birthday. Ask the other party to provide authentic data. If it is not reliable, you can go to the hospital for a paternity test. If the other party is suspected of fraud, you can hire a lawyer to protect your rights and interests.

After more than 10 years of breakup, the ex told "you have an 8-year-old son", what should you do at this time? After breaking up for more than ten years, the 8-year-old son didn't say anything, only did one thing, paternity test.

At this time, you should do some paternity testing work, and then make some relative conclusions based on the results of the paternity test.

I think I have to investigate whether the child is my own, how can the child be only eight years old after breaking up for more than ten years, it is obviously abnormal. But if it's really your own, you have to be responsible.

At this time, you should sit down and discuss and give the child a certain amount of child support, after all, it is a mistake that you have made.

Hello, happy with your question, you said that you broke up for more than ten years, and suddenly your ex told you that you have an eight-year-old son, what should you do at this time?

What else can be done?

Although this money is really irresponsible.

What else can be done?

Although this money is really irresponsible.

gave birth to this child, but after all, it is your child, and according to the law, the illegitimate child also enjoys the same legal status and according to the law, the illegitimate child also enjoys the same legal status as the whole body, so this is no longer a question of whether to recognize it or not, as long as it is determined to be your child, you must pay child support, and even your estate is eligible for inheritance.

The same legal status, so this is no longer a question of whether to admit it or not, as long as it is determined that it is your child, you must pay child support, and even your estate is eligible for inheritance, of course, you also have the right to deprive this qualification, so quickly contact the other party to pay child support, all you have to do is to explain it to the current one.

But the question is, how can you have an eight-year-old son after more than ten years of breakup? I suggest making a DNA.

It's been more than ten years since the breakup, and the child is only eight years old, and it's obvious that this child is not yours, so even if your ex has some purpose, you should use your brain more.

The first thing is to take the child to do DNA, if it is confirmed that it is your own child, then as a man, you have to take responsibility, you can't avoid or escape, you have to be responsible for your own behavior.

You can do a paternity test, if it is your child, then do not run away, and be brave enough to take on your responsibilities and obligations.

The child is innocent, if it is yours, you still have to admit it, even if your feelings are not there, the child will always need your support obligations.

First of all, you should recall, according to the time of the birth of this child, whether you are likely to be pregnant, if so, then do a personal evaluation, and the results will be clear at a glance, and I don't need to teach you what to do.

This is not possible anymore. You've been apart for more than a decade and have an eight-year-old son, that's dramatic.

Take the child to do a paternity test, it's really your son, just take child support.

First, do a paternity test first.

Second, look at the other person's needs.

Finally, negotiate and properly arrange the needs of the other party.

It's been more than ten years since we broke up. It's normal for your ex to tell you that you have an eight-year-old child, and this child designates that it is not yours. Because you've been broken up for ten years.

Is there a problem with you? You've been broken up for ten years, how can the child be only eight years old? Even if it's the last time in ten years, then the child will be at least nine years old! If you really don't feel at ease, do a paternity test!

It shouldn't be that you planted strawberries at this time, and you were only 8 years old ten years ago and didn't think you were a good person.

The woman was the man's former lover, and later broke up for some reason, but the woman was pregnant before the breakup, and the woman gave birth to the child without telling the man, the man had some doubts at first, and later the paternity test proved that the man was the biological father of the child.

After breaking up for more than 10 years, the man did not know that he had an 8-year-old son, and the woman appealed for child support, and after a paternity test, she learned that it was her son.

In the course of the first trial, the defendant Jin said that Song was indeed a lover who met and fell in love with him more than ten years ago, but the two had broken up for many years, and now he had already married her and had a family, and he did not know anything about the boy. Whether it is his own child or not, Jin muttered in his heart. Since the identity of the boy became the focus of the case, both the plaintiff and the defendant applied to the court for a paternity test in court.

The truth was that the man did not know that the woman was pregnant at the time, so when the woman could not afford to pay for the child's living, he approached the man.

The truth is that after a woman broke up with her boyfriend, she was already pregnant with his child, but she didn't tell him, and the boyfriend found out later.

The inside story is that the child is older, and the woman finds that she can't afford to raise it, so she comes to her father.

This woman must have some kind of hardship, maybe because of her limited ability and the cost of the child is too great, she can't afford it, so she finds an ex-boyfriend to take responsibility.

Because after the breakup, the man quickly found his other half and got married and had children, so the woman chose to raise her alone until she was unable to pay for child support, so she went to her ex-boyfriend.

Because now my ex-girlfriend can't afford to raise this child, so I have no choice but to ask the child's father for child support.

There are no wonders in the world, in the past few days, I believe that many friends have been swiped by a hot spot, a married guy in Anhui received a flyer from the court, and his ex-girlfriend who has broken up for more than 10 years sued him in court.

The reason is that there is an 8-year-old child between them, because his ex-girlfriend is unable to raise it, and now he needs to pay child support for the child before the age of 18, there may be many people who have been confused, and they have broken up for nearly 10 years, and the child is 8 years old, what kind of human suffering is this? Don't worry, read on.

01. The child is indeed his biological father. The core contradiction in this case is undoubtedly whether the child and the married guy have a biological paternity relationship, so under the arrangement of judicial appraisal, they did a biological genetic evaluation, and the appraisal result was that the 8-year-old child was indeed the biological son of the married guy, and the relationship between them was indeed father and son.

Then some people may be curious, did they rekindle their old relationship after breaking up? The reason why there is still an 8-year-old child after more than 10 years of breakup is very simple, that is, the initial reporting was wrong.

They didn't break up for more than 10 years, they fell in love more than 10 years ago, and the real breakup time was not that long, it should be about 9 years, so all this is right. But this problem is solved, and a new problem arises, the young man is already married, does he need to fulfill the obligation to support this 8-year-old son?

02. Children born out of wedlock have the same obligations as children born out of wedlock. According to the judgment of Chinese law, as long as the child is yours, regardless of whether he was born through normal means or born out of wedlock, he will enjoy the same treatment as the other party.

Both father and mother have the obligation to raise and educate the child until the age of 18, so even though he is now married and has a family of his own, he still has to raise the child until the age of 18.

In fact, this law is not difficult to understand, after all, raising children and caring for the elderly is the traditional virtue of our Chinese nation, and it is also the reason why our Chinese nation has been able to go through thousands of years of ups and downs and continue to the present, this is the power of civilization.