Is it worth it for me to endure for the sake of face, is it worth it to endure for the sake of face?

So long. What happened to the landlord.

It's a long time, go find a technology you like, don't want anyone to introduce you, think about it at home for three days, see which one suits you, do it wholeheartedly, don't run around and run around, and achieve nothing.

You're pretty literate. Your dad just thinks that you have no interest, and the money society looks at it.

It's not worth it, we are all still young, and we can endure hardship, but we have to combine it with the actual situation.

You haven't found a good goal in life, you're all messing around, so many jobs, how can you earn more than 1,000 casually, learn a good technique, why don't you have the endurance you need in the process of learning technology. In Beijing, the basic salary of a casual sales person is 1500 or more.

That's how society has to learn to accept.

See what you're ultimately after?

Personally, I think if you know how to be tolerant. If you forgive something or someone that seems unforgivable, your personal charm will naturally improve, and you will win respect. That is to say, let go of temporary dignity and choose tolerance. It will be admired by more people in the future.

Tolerance and dignity are mutual, if you tolerate others, others will feel dignity, your dignity will also improve in the eyes of others, and with dignity will you learn to be tolerant.

Sometimes you have to be tolerant, and sometimes you have to care about your own respect, depending on the situation.

Not contradictory. It's just that the various things that exist implicate them and seem contradictory. Patience is not to blindly experience the unfair treatment of others, but blind patience will make us have negative emotions, patience is based on wild code - others are right.

Or if others can't afford to mess with it for the time being, I'll hide for a while.

Or whether it's right or not, he's sincere for my good.

When you don't blindly accept suffering—those who are truly worthy of your patience will not blindly suffer you—Confucius said, "A gentleman repays his grievances with straightforwardness!" ”

That is to say, if you really can't bear it, your own interests have been damaged, and your reputation and dignity have been trampled, as long as he insults your personality, and you have the strength to fight him, you have to do it when you say it, don't let others reflexively think that you are a sick cat, but you will suffer more trouble.

Leave him alone. Find another one yourself, and if you can't do this, you will make a rebellion, and it will be no good. Just understand it in your heart, and stay away from such people in the future.

You shouldn't have borrowed him in the first place.

It's not worth it when it happens.

Tolerance is a beam of light that reflects a person's good self-cultivation;

Faith is a bridge that supports you to overcome difficulties and move towards success;

Dignity is a line that delineates the basic bottom line of how you behave in the world.

Face all beings with tolerance and face faith with faith.

How you do to others is your business How others treat you is their business The most basic and noble virtue of being a human being is: do not do to others what you would not do to yourself.

Also, you have to think about why they all like to joke with you together, it's not a problem that someone likes to attack you, so many people attack you and don't attack others, it's a problem, think about the reason first, it may be that some of your habits are unacceptable to others, or it may be that you have a weak personality, and they like to joke with you.

And finally, no matter what, be open-minded, and if a dormitory student is really going to get into trouble, it's going to be very troublesome, and you have to believe that everyone is a good person, and no one is born to attack people.

Whether there is dignity or not, this is the feeling of the chief officer, that is, his own feeling, there is no rated standard, and the evaluation of outsiders does not count. For the same act, those who do not believe in this god will feel that they have lost their dignity, but believers think that it is a sincere worship from the heart, and it is a very dignified thing. The child is not a fish, and he does not know the joy of fish; If the son is not human, is it not the heart of man?

There is no embodied god in this world, and all gods are the concentrated embodiment of the spirit and ideology of people who uphold the same point of view, so in the final analysis, the will of God is the unanimity of the general public, that is, the will recognized by the largest number of people.

Society is not something that ordinary people can manipulate, no matter how much you say, it's in vain, it's enough to live your own life, why do you care so much, it's too tiring, it's not worth it.

It's important to go your own way, let others say what they like, do what they want to do, do what makes you happy.

More is better than less, don't mind too much about some small details (as long as others don't touch the bottom line of your dignity!) ）

People are very contradictory, just as I am too, a lot of truth and others say that the head is the way, but it is difficult to do it in yourself, dignity must be maintained, in this society, regardless of what kind of work everyone has their own principles and bottom line, in the face of life, is survival important or dignity important? The benevolent see the benevolent, and the wise see the wise.

Caring too much about what others say will only make you very tired. Try to adjust your mindset and laugh at life.

No way. Let it go. You hate her more than you love her now.

There's nothing wrong with choosing either one, and I don't know what your relationship is! It is to warn you to think carefully and do not regret it!

If both parties still have feelings, you can still try to forgive them; But if the woman is purely using it, then it is not necessary; Remember that what you want to fight for, don't miss it, and regret it again, "Death to save face, can only live to suffer"!

I had the same experience, and I chose to give up.