The baby is sick but wants the mother to be scolded, why blame the mother?

This is because babies who are often sick are likely to have insufficient nutrition and do not improve the child's immunity, so the child is easy to get sick, or the child is sick because the mother wears too few clothes for the child, so the mother has a certain responsibility.

I think that the mother who usually gets sick does not improve the child's immunity, and then the mother who blames the cold for giving the child too little clothing, and finally the fever is not good, and the mother blames the mother for not covering the child with a quilt.

The baby is sick but wants the mother to be scolded, this is the human mind is making trouble, they usually don't pay anything, if something goes wrong, blame others, this kind of person should stay away and affect the mood.

If the father is gone, this is indeed the mother's fault, after all, the growth and character development of children are closely related to their parents. If Dad is here, I want to ask, what about others, isn't this child's feelings his?

There are very few such in-laws, and educating children is the business of husband and wife. Mothers must first stand up and have the courage to take responsibility, and at the same time, they must also learn how to educate their children. Try your husband and wife to manage the family affairs and not get involved with your in-laws.

As mothers, we are asked to give our children every love in every way; As wives, we are required to be able to go to the hall and to be able to go to the kitchen, and as women, we are required to have the ability to be independent and self-reliant, to be able to earn our own money.

But how can a person play so many roles at the same time? And how can it meet everyone's psychological expectations?

**What superhuman mother, just sacrifice yourself and give everything in order to take care of everyone properly.

Blame the mother for everything, in fact, the mother is the hardest person in the world, raising a child is not a person's business, but the responsibility of the whole family, you don't have too much psychological burden, just do your best, everyone knows, for the sake of the child, the mother is willing to give everything!

The child is sick to blame the mother, to blame the mother if the study is not good, to blame the mother for the bad temper, to blame the mother for everything, the mother is a sin in the eyes of the mother-in-law's family, I don't think it's all right, some mothers-in-law are very good, and the relationship between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law is also very good, and now many families are also sensible, and they also know that it is not easy for the daughter-in-law to marry, how can they blame.

As a mother, no one can see your efforts, they just want you to give, and they can't see how hard you work. Therefore, you must be good to yourself, so that you can be worthy of yourself.

Alas, this is the life of our women, we do it for both good and bad, if the husband is heartbroken, you will understand you, it will be interesting, I wish you a little more children when they are older.

No, educating children is not the responsibility of the mother alone, it is the responsibility of everyone in the family.

In some ways, in fact, parents are responsible.

That's right, so stay away from that kind of person.

That's right, the kind of person Ichirin.

1.The baby's appetite is not good, and he looks sick.

2.There will be painful places, physical discomfort, and reluctance to move.

When the baby is about to get sick, it will be very difficult to bring, the temper will be very strange, how to coax can not be obedient, and the amount of food will be reduced, the urine will be reduced, and the color will be more yellow.

I think that when the baby's eye area has an increase in eye droppings, see if you don't pay attention to your diet, and then eat too much spicy, and then you can't sleep peacefully when you go up, and finally you have a bad appetite.

The first point is that the child's performance is particularly abrasive, which means that the child is going to be sick, the second point is that the child does not like to eat much, and he is very depressed all of a sudden, so he should pay attention at this time, and the third point is that the child is very short-tempered, which is a sign of illness.

It is not easy to raise a child, from birth to nursing, a handful of and a handful of urine, pulling the child to grow up bit by bit. If you meet a considerate husband, your mother can save a little bit, but if your husband is not considerate, being a mother can be described as miserable.

But many mothers say that these are nothing, after all, they are their own flesh and blood, and these are what should be done. Raising a child, the most devastating thing is that the child is sick, as long as the child is sick, the heart of the mother is also tortured.

In fact, not all women will quit their jobs to become stay-at-home mothers after giving birth. As a mother, you may have to take on the responsibilities of household chores at home, take care of your children, and in addition to that, you will also have the pressure of work. Xiaoshan said that every time she goes to work, she is most afraid of suddenly receiving ** from home, worrying that something will happen to her child.

Xiaoshan's daughter is not very good, as long as the weather changes slightly, it is easy to catch a cold and fever.

Once, my husband happened to be on a business trip, and my daughter suddenly had a high fever at two o'clock in the middle of the night, so I had to rush my daughter to the hospital. **After that, I didn't expect that there were so many dozen people queuing up in front of the children's hospital at two o'clock in the morning, and I was anxious, but I couldn't do anything to share the burden for my daughter. The daughter kept crying, tears were big and kept flowing down, and the hospital was mixed with the cries of the children.

Xiao Yi also cried.

Shanshan is also a mother, at one o'clock in the middle of the night, she called her husband who was working overtime: "The baby has a fever again!" Even if I put on a fever reducer, I didn't see a fever.

After listening, the husband rushed back from the company to the home, and the couple took the child to the children's hospital together. The child has been crying intermittently for almost a night, and on the way to the hospital, he is still sobbing without listening, and Shanshan looks very worried.

Fortunately, with her husband by her side, she will not be so helpless. After arriving at the hospital, no one followed the child, so he had to be hugged by Shanshan, and her husband cried when he hugged him. Shanshan, who has also worked for a day, is already exhausted and can only hold on.

After the child fell asleep, she was taken care of by her husband, and Shanshan had time to squint for a while.

Xiaoxin said that now the child has grown up, but every time he passes by the children's hospital, his heart still fluctuates. When the child was young, it was common to run to the children's hospital in the early morning, but fortunately, everything survived and the child was quite healthy. "Mothers are great, but it only takes a fever for the child to break the mother, and it will be all it takes.

Xiao Xin smiled bitterly. Xiaoxin said that once she almost divorced her husband because of the child's fever. Xiao Xin is a full-time mother, usually mainly at home with the child, the child was sick before, the husband never blamed himself, maybe too many times, the husband thinks it is Xiao Xin's responsibility, did not take care of the child, the child will be so easy to get sick.

The child is sick, as a mother, how much I hope to bear the pain of illness on behalf of the child, the child will not express, only cry, sometimes see the child has cried so hoarse, not to mention how worried, it is really a child who is sick, and a mother has half a life.

I hope I can give mothers more understanding, and the last person who wants their children to be sick is their mothers, even if they can't understand, please don't criticize mothers.

It is not just a cold of the child that breaks the mother, every time the child is sick, it is the mother who is the most worried, and the mother is the most worried about the child when he is a little uncomfortable. Maybe that's where motherly love comes in.

Yes. Because the child is the person that the mother values the most, it is a piece of meat that falls from herself, and the child is accompanied by the mother during the growth process, and the mother is more sad and blamed herself than anyone else when she is sick.

Personally, I think that's the case, because I remember that my sister-in-law was very anxious when her children had a cold, and they both lost a lot of weight.

Yes. When the child is sick, the mother will be more anxious than the child, watching the child cry when he gets the injection, and she can't wait to be sick.

Yes. Because mothers are very reluctant to see their children get sick, they feel very distressed every time their children get sick.

Many mothers don't care, and they don't start to be anxious until the baby gets sick, which is not good.

The following mothers always think that babies are sick with colds, fevers, and sneezes, but these are the characteristics of illness, so what about before the onset of the disease?

Many mothers don't care, and they don't start to be anxious until the baby gets sick, which is not good.

The following is a summary of the following signs of baby illness for mothers, do you see that you usually notice?

Pallor. The precursor of the baby's illness is pale, but many mothers think that the baby is hot and sweaty, so it looks pale.

Then pick up the fan at random and blow it at the baby, which is good, the baby's condition is not serious, so that the mothers fan directly into the hospital.

Therefore, mothers must pay extra attention to the baby's face and don't take it seriously.

Poor breathing. Poor breathing of the baby is also one of the symptoms, usually, breathing can best see whether the baby is sick, the baby's breathing is suddenly short, that must be caused by discomfort.

Therefore, mothers should not think that it is good for the baby to breathe for a while, and it is a good policy to seek medical attention in time.

Decreased appetite. The baby's favorite food is placed in front of him, and the baby is indifferent. The mothers were puzzled, and thought that the baby suddenly changed the taste, so they began to rearrange all kinds of food for the baby, thinking that there is always one that the baby loves to eat.

But what mothers don't know is that the baby is enduring their own discomfort, and they think it is the baby's own emotional problems. Therefore, mothers should pay attention to this.

Changes in body temperature. The baby always can't fall asleep when sleeping, and keeps making noise, at this time the mothers should pay attention to the baby's body temperature, if the baby's body temperature is above the degree, then send the baby to the hospital to see.

If you continue to delay, it will cause the baby's temperature to continue to rise, which will affect the baby's health. Coupled with the fact that the baby's brain is not fully developed, a persistent fever may cause damage to the nerves in the brain. Therefore, mothers should pay special attention.

Mood swings.

Mothers find that the baby's mood is more volatile than before, even if the baby sits there, he loves to cry and throw things, which are all babies hinting to the mother that they are uncomfortable.

Mothers must pay attention to the baby's emotions so as not to miss the best time to prevent it.

The baby's illness is not a trivial matter, parents must pay attention to it, do not feel that the baby's small fight is a bad mood, maybe he is hinting at his uncomfortable willingness. May all babies grow up healthy.

Generally speaking, if the baby is healthy, he falls asleep quickly, and the sleep quality is also very good, and the breathing is relatively even. Once the baby is sick, the quality of sleep will be seriously reduced, such as difficult to fall asleep, easy to be woken up, etc., such as baby fever, pinworm disease, roundworm infection, etc., will have a great impact on normal sleep.

Healthy babies generally eat very steadily, if the baby suddenly does not want to eat or the amount of food decreases, it may indicate that the baby is going to be sick. In life, hookworm, ascariasis, tuberculosis, ulcers, and liver problems can all cause your baby's appetite to decrease. Of course, if the baby suffers from diabetes, on the contrary, his appetite will increase, and he will seem to eat a lot, but his weight will not rise, and even decrease.

If the baby is healthy, the general mood is very stable, it looks very energetic, and it will not cry. If your baby is red, glazed, sluggish, or irritable, he or she is likely to get sick. At this time, we must take preventive measures, take the baby to the doctor in time, do not blame and do not reprimand, otherwise the baby will only be in a worse mood and aggravate the condition.

If the baby has diarrhea or constipation and other abnormal bowel movements, it also means that the baby is not feeling well. Most of the constipation is caused by functional reasons, not the body's own problems, and generally can be solved by supplementing the baby with high fiber and green leafy vegetables. Of course, if you encounter abnormal color and shape of your baby's poop, you still need to seek medical attention in time.

The baby also has signs before getting sick, and I hope that all mothers can observe carefully to prevent procrastination from bringing greater harm to the baby's health.

Not trivial. Bao Ma must pay attention to the physical condition of the child, one is the fever for a long time, fever is the basic state of the child's disease, but if the fever is more than three days, you must go to the hospital for examination; The second is the mental state, if the child is not in a good mental state, lethargy, slow to react, generally have brain problems; The third is diarrhea, which can cause dehydration, and in severe cases, can lead to electrolyte imbalances and endanger life.

The baby's discomfort is not a trivial matter, when the child has a high fever and begins to have convulsions, the mother should pay attention, because it is easy to burn the child, and it needs to be sent to the hospital immediately**.

Not trivial. The baby's repeated crying, or obvious lack of energy, etc., may indicate that the baby is uncomfortable, and the baby is sending a signal to the mother, and the mother needs to pay attention.

Many mothers have such doubts, they are all children of the same age, and the children usually play together, and they don't look the same. But why are other people's babies rarely sick, but their own ones always run to the hospital twice in three days.

In fact, don't think that children look the same and are really the same, those babies who rarely get sick also have a reason. Most of these children come from the following types of families, and their parents don't deliberately dress up or anything, everything is subtly affected in small details.

Families with balanced three meals a day and reasonable eating habits.

Children who rarely get sick can be said to have a very balanced three meals a day, and their parents will not let them overeat, let alone let their children be hungry and full. It is precisely because parents in these families attach importance to their children's diet, work their children's diet, and do not think about making do with a meal today and calling for a takeout tomorrow, but make nutritious and delicious meals for their children at home if they have the conditions.

The children of these families, their parents rarely let them eat all kinds of snacks or junk food, it is because of Qingzhi Yu, the children's body intake of nutrients is more balanced, the natural resistance will be stronger, and there will be less sickness.

Moms have such experience, that is, babies under the age of 3, in many cases they are sick because of food accumulation, so mothers must pay attention to this aspect. Only by letting children eat nutritious and healthy food can children stay away from the torture of illness and worry less about themselves.

Pay attention to hygiene and love a clean family.

Those children who rarely get sick, it can be said that they usually pay attention to hygiene, and their families love to be clean, it is precisely because of this that children usually have few opportunities to contact with various bacteria and viruses, and the possibility of natural infringement is not great. Therefore, if you want your child to get less sick, as a parent, you must pay attention to your child's hygiene when you are usually at home or when you take your child out.

Of course, the emphasis on hygiene here does not mean that children should not do this or that, and all kinds of restrictions should be imposed on children. It's just that adults should pay attention to cleaning children in time after children have played, and don't let dirty things stay on children's hands and bodies, so that they will naturally get sick less.

A family that often takes their children out and is close to nature.

If possible, it is recommended that parents can take their children out for a walk and get close to nature, such an experience will not only be a precious memory for the child, but also exercise the child in the process, improve the child's immunity through sports, and let the child have a strong resistance. Children are physically strong, so they are naturally less susceptible to diseases. And those children who rarely get sick are most likely from such families.

Most of the children who rarely get sick come from the types of families mentioned above, and their parents may not have done anything deliberately, but they are very "wise" and know how to do in the details of life to improve the child's resistance and immunity. It's not surprising that children get sick less.