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Or say: 'How can you repay your grievances with virtue?' The son said, "How can you repay virtue?" Repay grievances with straightforwardness and repay virtue with virtue. ”

Commentary: It has been said, "How about repaying resentment with kindness?" Confucius said, "Then what should you use to repay kindness?" Resentment should be repaid with integrity, and kindness should be repaid with kindness. ”

It seems that Laozi's doctrine advocates "repaying grievances with virtue," and Confucius was opposed to this, but unfortunately it has been misrepresented by some people with ulterior motives for 2,000 years that the master was wronged.

Society needs tolerance, but it can't be blindly tolerant, but should be treated differently, there are always a lot of dark people and things in this society, but there is also goodness and justice in this society. Many times we are relying on the kindness of strangers, so we use kindness to repay this society.

It is also necessary to use the attitude of "directly repaying grievances" to deal with the ugliness and darkness in this society, and for those insignificant injuries, let's laugh at the storm, when is the time to repay grievances, and if you are too careful, it will not be very tiring.

Or say: 'How can you repay your grievances with virtue?' The son said, "How can you repay virtue?" Repay grievances with straightforwardness and repay virtue with virtue.

Zi said: "The gentleman has nothing to fight. Will shoot too! Rise and drink. Its contention is also a gentleman. ”

I want to establish people, and I want to reach people.

Do unto others as you would have them do to you.

The Analects are as follows:

1. A gentleman is a gentleman, and he is born immediately. (The gentleman concentrates on fundamental affairs, and the foundation is established, and the principle of governing the country and being a man is also established.) ）

2. The use of etiquette, harmony is precious. (The application of etiquette is to value harmony.) ）

3. A gentleman has no food to eat, no place to live, is sensitive to things and cautious in words, has the way and is right, and can be said to be studious. (Confucius said: "A gentleman, do not seek to be full in food and drink, do not require comfort in living, be diligent and quick in work, but be cautious in speaking, and go to the Taoist to correct himself, so that he can be said to be studious.")

4, Zigong said: "Poor and unashamed, rich and arrogant, what is it?" Zi said:

Yes. Those who are not poor are happy, and those who are rich and courteous. (Zigong said.)

How about being poor and not flattering, and being rich and not being arrogant? Confucius said, "That's fine."

But it is not as good as a person who is poor but happy, rich and courteous. ”）

5. Do not suffer from the unknown of the person, and do not know the person. (I'm not afraid that others don't understand me, I'm afraid that I don't understand others.) ）

6. I have five out of ten and am determined to learn, thirty and stand, forty and not confused, fifty and know the destiny of heaven, sixty and obedient, seventy and do what I want without exceeding the rules. (I was fifteen years old and determined to study; Able to stand on their own feet at the age of 30; At the age of forty, you can not be confused by external things; At the age of fifty, he understood the destiny of heaven; At the age of 60, he can deal with all kinds of remarks correctly and does not feel uncomfortable; At the age of seventy, you can do whatever you want without going out of the way. ）

7. The gentleman is not compared, and the villain is not compared. (The gentleman is gregarious and does not collude with others, and the villain is conspired with others to stare at Sun and not collude with others.) ）

8. Knowing is knowing, not knowing is not knowing, and knowing is knowing. (To know is to know, not to know is not to know, this is wisdom!) ）

9. People have no faith, and they don't know what they can do. (It is simply not okay for a person not to be trustworthy.) ）

10. Etiquette, rather than luxury, rather frugality; Mourning, with its easy also, rather relative. (Rather than extravagant, it is better to be frugal; As far as mourning is concerned, it is better to be truly sad in the heart than to be prepared for the ceremony. ）

Threesomes must have my teacher.

Be friends with people, honesty is the root of the letter!

Friends from afar, isn't it pleasant? People don't know and are not ashamed, and they are not gentlemen?

If you are a threesome, you must have my teacher!

When friends are together, they will be able to see the advantages and find the disadvantages from each other as time goes by. As the saying goes, the friendship of a gentleman is as light as water; This means that the interaction between gentlemen is not about fame and fortune, but about the harmony of the heart, the mutual appreciation of the spirit, and the keeping of each other's promises. Therefore, friends should be in line with the word "integrity".

The so-called "integrity" is honesty (heart) and trustworthiness. Making true friends and close friends, often starts from sincerity, if the heart is not sincere, its purpose must be perverse, even if the trustworthiness only shows its character is good, but the moral heart is not good, although this friend is valuable but has lost the foundation of deep friendship; If the person is untrustworthy, it means that the person's moral character is not good, and he must not make friends. If a sincere person can also keep his word, this person can be said to have good moral character, and he is really a rare friend, and he should be treated as a guest and a teacher; If you lose your trust in others, it means that although your moral heart is good, but your character is not good, if you tell you frankly with sincerity, then this friend can also make friends.

To sum up, threesome:

Those who are sincere and trustworthy can be good teachers (true friends and close friends);

Those who are sincere and untrustworthy can be friends, but they must be given as a warning (true friends, not close friends);

Those who are insincere and trustworthy can be friends with them, but not deep friends (not true friends or close friends);

Those who are insincere and untrustworthy can be strangers and nod friends (neither friends nor friends).

When friends get along, all types of friends will inevitably exist; We don't have to force ourselves to meet people according to our own standards, as long as we can distinguish the type of friends around us and keep an appropriate distance from them. But in the process of making friends, if you want to find true friends, you must be honest and rooted, so that you can find the same sincere friends, and only by believing in the heart can you find real mentors and friends! Be friends with people, honesty is the root of the letter!

Zi said: "Learn and learn from time to time, don't you also say? There are friends from afar, don't you also say it? People don't know and are not ashamed, and they are not gentlemen? ”

Zi said: "Reviewing the old and learning the new can be a teacher." ”

Zi said: "If you learn without thinking, you will be reckless; If you don't learn, you will die. ”

Zi said: "From, what does the girl know? Knowing is knowing, not knowing is not knowing, and knowing is knowing. ”

Zigong asked: "Why does Confucius call it 'Wen'?" Zi said: "Sensitive and studious, not ashamed to ask, is to call it 'literature'." ”

Zi said: "Knowing it silently, learning without getting tired, teaching people tirelessly, what is there for me!" ”

Zi said: "If you are a threesome, you must have my teacher; Choose those who are good and follow them, and change those who are not good. ”

Zi said: "Those who know are not as good as those who are good, and those who are good are not as good as those who are happy." ”

The son was on the river and said: "The deceased is like a husband, reluctant to give up day and night." ”

Zi said: "I don't eat all day long, I don't sleep all night, thinking about it, it's useless, it's better to learn." ”

Confucius said, "Isn't it also a pleasure to learn knowledge and then review it on time?" Isn't it also a joy to have friends from afar?

I have the talent to learn, and others laugh at me and don't understand me, but I am not angry myself, and am I not also the possession of a person of high moral character? ”

Confucius said, "A person who reviews old knowledge and then understands new knowledge can become a teacher." ”

Confucius said: "If you don't know how to think just by reading and studying, you will be confused; If you just think but don't read and study, you won't learn anything. ”

Confucius said, "By (Zi Lu)! Teach you what 'knowing' means! To know is to know, not to know is not to know, this is the real knowledge! ”

Zigong asked, "Why is Kong Wenzi called 'Wen' by people?" Confucius said: "Confucius Wenzi is smart and studious, and he does not think it is a shame to ask for advice from people who are inferior to himself, so he calls him 'Wen'!" ”

Confucius said, "What do I have for me to silently remember what I have learned, to learn without feeling satisfied, to teach others tirelessly?" ”

Confucius said that "when three people walk together, there must be someone in the middle who can be my teacher; Choose their strengths to learn, and if you have their weaknesses, you have to change them. ”

Confucius said, "Those who understand it are not as good as those who love it, and those who love it are not as good as those who enjoy it." ”

Confucius said by the river, "The passing time is like this river!" Day and night. ”

Confucius said: "I used to go without eating all day and sleeping all night, to think, but I did not grow, so it is better to learn to accompany the slow ascension." ”

Zeng Zi said: "I am three times a day, my body --- seek for others and be disloyal? Making friends and not believing them? Are you used to it? ”

Zeng Tzu said: "I reflect on myself three times a day: Are I wholehearted and faithful in doing things for others? Is it sincere when you associate with friends? Do you carefully review the knowledge imparted by the teacher? ”

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1.Zi said: "Learn and learn from time to time, don't you also say? Have friends come from afar, are you happy? People don't know and are not ashamed, and they are not gentlemen? "Learning".

Revelation] The first sentence is about learning methods. For knowledge, "learning" is only a process of understanding, "learning" is a process of consolidation, and in order to gain more knowledge, "learning" and "learning" must be unified. The second sentence is about the joy of learning.

Like-minded people can visit to enhance friendship, and they can learn from each other and improve together.

The third sentence is about attitude. It is also the bearing and cultivation that Confucius believes a gentleman should have.