I found the problem, and continued to be confused and depressed

There is time for blind thinking, and you should think about a few questions.

Do you have the ability to support your family and the conditions to raise children? Is there any security for the future? Although you don't necessarily have to have a successful career, ambitions and ideals, you must have a certain ability to protect your wife and children.

When you have a wife and children, you will be the main force of the family.

When you think about these, you will have pressure, maybe you are under a lot of pressure now, confused, if the work is not ideal, then find a way to make him ideal, what kind of work you like to develop in that direction, constantly enrich yourself, and move forward.

Unable to invest. Or is it because you don't have a goal. Find a goal, set one for yourself if you don't have one, don't be afraid of pressure, there is pressure to be motivated!

1. The best thing to do is to do something else, divert your attention, and when your stress is reduced, make a new plan for yourself and ask yourself what you really want.

2. When you calm down, you will work harder to think about why you are confused, what you should do when you are confused to make yourself more realistic to face reality, and maybe when you divert your attention, these answers will come faster. You can choose to relax, or go out to travel or go out to play, anyway, you have to do something else to distract yourself. Only by enriching one's life and one's own life will one's goals be more certain.

3. There is a way to hide your grandson is that you should continue to try and test your life path, because in the process of continuous attempts, you will find that your road is not going through, if there are other ways to go, you choose other roads, and it is not too late to go down. And only when you keep trying new things and doing things that you haven't done before, will you know why you're confused, because your previous attempts are not new, and you are too timid and too afraid to face failure. That's why you will be confused.

4. More often than not, you should ask yourself what you want, the way you are walking is not suitable for yourself, just like an unsuitable nut, set on an unsuitable screw, even if they are important, they will not be suitable. So when you choose more nuts to try to fit you, you will find that the world is so big. You can't just be limited to the current thing, otherwise you will only make yourself more confused, and you will never be able to walk the path of confusion.