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I think the way is – a good fight.
Seeing this question, I couldn't help but answer the question, my boyfriend and I have been together for 9 years+, and the relationship has been very stable, if there is no accident, I should be able to enter the marriage hall smoothly. I think there is also some experience to share this question.
The most important thing between lovers is communication, communication, and communication.
There are many ways to communicate, and the common one is the usual chat, whether it is face-to-face or online, it is an effective way to communicate. But for me, I think the best way to communicate is to have a healthy quarrel every time there is a return, a return and a collision.
What is a healthy fight?
There are several characteristics of a good quarrel:
One. A healthy quarrel can release one's bad emotions.
I believe that many people have experienced cold violence, and some people even think that cold violence is more terrible than hot violence, and hot violence can at least have two people collide and touch; And cold violence makes you doubt yourself and escalates the contradictions.
Problems are always ignored and there is no time to solve them. A good quarrel can allow us to release our emotions and make the other party feel their grievances and dissatisfaction. Only with communication can there be a solution, and cold violence will only cover up one's emotions and make the conflict more fermented and worse.
Two. A benign quarrel allows us to see each other's character and three views better.
Everyone has a time when their emotions are out of control, and it is at this time that a person's behavior and morality can be better seen. In the early stages of a relationship, we will maintain a good image of each other in front of the couple, polite, beautiful and kind.
When our emotions are out of control, we can't help but expose our truest side, and irritable people can't restrain their tyrannical habits; Indifferent people are cold and violent towards you, refusing to communicate and ignoring you; The prodigal person turned around and complained to a confidant of Lan Yan or a confidant after a quarrel, and did not think of looking for you to solve the problem; People who don't care about you easily tell you ...... break up
Quarrels are a necessary test for couples, and a healthy quarrel is like a test paper to test the emotional problems between us. The unfit couple lost the test; And the right couple will only get to know each other better through testing, know that ** can be improved, and become more and more incompatible with each other.
Three. Benign quarrels can be retracted freely.
This is the most important point of a healthy quarrel. Clearly know that the essence of quarrels is to solve problems and get along better.
So no matter how fierce the quarrel is, how confrontational and disagreeable each other's points of view are, but because they know that they will not be separated, because they know that it is to solve the problem, they will all reconcile in the end. It's not a question of who bows his head first, it's that both of them know that the quarrel is to better run in with each other, so if they quarrel, they will take it back.
Chat communication on weekdays can certainly help us understand each other, but just like the answer can solve the problem, our reactions and practices when there is a quarrel can really let us understand each other more deeply.
May every couple be able to grasp every benign quarrel, and since they have chosen to hold hands, don't let go easily.
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Think about it day and night, don't think too much, it will bring you pressure in life, and it will also make you doubt your "him"! So just don't overthink it
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Auspicious and smooth, a good omen for successful development, but if the personality and the character have a number of murders, it is easy to have bad inducements, and eventually fall into disasters and misfortunes, and are framed by others, etc., and even have the worry of losing money and leaving people. 【Dajichang】
It is advisable to make plans, travel, and live performances.
Don't give gifts, don't argue, don't water plants.
If a person in the natal year dreams of the person he likes but does not see it, it means that there are slight ups and downs in the smoothness, and in the end there is still a good harvest.
If a person who goes to school dreams of someone he likes but doesn't see it, it means that there are many obstacles and it is difficult to get his wish.
I dreamed of someone I liked but didn't see itFortune changes as quickly as an eyeball. The horoscope of these two days has a lot to do with the way you lived yesterday. Maintaining a consistent style and adapting to changes is the best way to be stable.
Instead, do you have a tendency to return late lately? If so, your family has started to pay attention to your actions and may adopt stricter access control.
Dreaming of yourself and the people you like suggests that you will be widely trusted by others, and your popularity will be greatly improved.
If a pregnant person dreams of the person he likes but does not see him, it indicates that he will have labor pains when giving birth to a daughter, so take more maintenance.
If a person in love dreams of the person he likes but does not see him, it means that his temperament is intolerable, and he can tolerate each other and make the marriage possible.
If a businessman dreams of the person he likes but does not see him, it means that his fortune is not smooth, his profits are not smooth, and he cannot expand his investment.
I dreamed of the person I liked but didn't see it, according to the analysis of the five elements of Zhou Yi, the wealth is thereNorthwest, the peach blossom is inDue west, the lucky number is, the auspicious color isPurple, the lucky food isBitter melon
If a pregnant person dreams of seeing someone she once liked, it indicates the birth of a male and a female in August. Take care of the mother.
If a pregnant person dreams of seeing someone who likes him, it indicates that he will give birth to a man, and Xia Zhan will give birth to a girl, so don't overwork.
If a person who goes to school dreams of seeing someone he once liked, it means that he will go smoothly and his grades will meet the admission criteria.
Dream about someone you like, indicating that the relationship between the two has made good progress.
If a person who goes to school dreams of seeing someone who likes him, it means that his liberal arts grades are less satisfactory and will not affect his admission grades.
If a pregnant person dreams of seeing someone he used to like, it indicates that he will give birth to a girl and avoid breaking ground.
If a businessman dreams of seeing someone he likes, it means that he encountered obstacles at first, and his business was unfavorable at first, but after the reorganization, it went smoothly.
Dream about someone you like, indicating that the relationship between the two has made good progress.
Dream about someone you like, indicating that the relationship between the two has made good progress.
If a pregnant person dreams of going to see someone he likes but does not see him, it indicates that he has a boy and his health is not good.
If a person in love dreams of seeing someone who likes him, it indicates that he will persevere to the end and have a chance of success.
If a person in the natal year dreams of going to see someone he likes but does not see him, it means that there is financial gain to be gained, beware of gossip and bad words, and good harvest.
To a certain extent, this dream reflects the weakness of your relationships, which may be the reason for your fragile personality. Especially in the scene that happens in the toilet, the toilet is a place to express human desires, so it hints at your heart, being beaten by the person you are afraid of, indicating that you are under great pressure from them, but your heart is going to resist, but you finally compromise due to personality factors, showing your ambivalence and depression. Looking at the rest of the ugly view can help you.
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