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Anonymous users2024-02-12This is a matter of communication, the most important thing is to find the reason for the parent's opposition, and you should also think carefully about whether the reason for the parent's opposition is for your own good, or for the sake of the parent's own face. If it is the first case, parents are experienced, and it is recommended to think carefully about whether you want to socialize with your friends. If it is for the sake of the parents' own face, it is recommended to find a good way to deal with it, such as moving out of the house first and becoming independent.
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Anonymous users2024-02-11The opinions of your family can be respected, but after all, it is your own lifelong event, so your own thoughts still account for the majority. If they are far from home, they are old, and they are not good-looking. Then I think you need to do your family's work.
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Anonymous users2024-02-10Do you like it? Sometimes we have to be rational about emotional matters, and sometimes we have to listen more to our parents and other elders, after all, they have seen more than us. If you are really sure that he is the person you are looking for, then communicate more with your parents, say more about him in front of your parents, and let them accept this matter slowly, and you can't rush it.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09Look what kind of friend it is?! If it's a fox friend or a wine and meat friend, don't want it! But if it is a comrade-in-arms who takes care of each other and shares weal and woe, he will stay. To put it simply: play roll! Fight it.
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Anonymous users2024-02-08You lack communication with your family, right? Only by communicating more can we know the solution to the problem.
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Anonymous users2024-02-07If you're suitable, you're together.
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Anonymous users2024-02-06If he doesn't mean it, I don't think it's necessary. Do you dare to say to yourself that he will not change his mind after you share weal and woe and become rich? It doesn't matter if you are poor, the important thing is whether you are self-motivated!
If he changes after being rich, you might as well have a long pain rather than a short pain! Women, a lifetime is very important!
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Anonymous users2024-02-05It doesn't matter what the family conditions are, what matters is how he is, whether he has a sense of responsibility, whether he will have a future in the future, whether he will be happy with him, it all depends on the individual, it is not good to have money, and it is not your own to have money, sooner or later it will be spent, if you can't do it, it is useless to have 10 million Ah The two are together, and on the basis of living conditions, they must have happiness and feelings Money is emotionless
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Anonymous users2024-02-04Look at you, if you really want to be with him.
What's done is done.
Let's talk about getting the marriage certificate.
Parents always love their children.
No matter how stubborn that kid is.
I want to believe that if I did that, you did that.
They didn't recruit it.
If he wants to break with you.
That means they don't love you.
But I don't love you.
How can you think your boyfriend is poor? After all, they are still afraid that you will have a bad time?
That's not it. Do they love you?
Feel free to do it!
Some parents are afraid of dogs, like my dad has been bitten by a dog and has a fear of dogs, and like my mother, I am worried that the dog will be infected with bacteria, shedding, and rabies news uploaded on the Internet will lead to opposition, we must understand them and communicate patiently, rather than quarrel with each other, although I have done this kind of thing. However, after leaving the society, I had an economic foundation, so I rented a house by myself to raise Qian Bao, and from time to time I took Qian Bao to show off my skills in front of my parents, and I brought them some animal knowledge, and slowly my parents accepted it, after all, the cute and obedient dog is still very attractive.
It's up to you what you think!
After all, happiness is a matter for the two of you, do you still have to live with her family in the future? >>>More
This girl is a bit casual, you first learn more about her, whether she loves you, whether you really love her, whether your personality, worldview, values are consistent, what are her other qualities, these are determined to be "yes", and then you can consider whether you can accept her past, if so"yes"then you can find a way to convince your family.
What you like is your freedom, regardless of what others think, and if you really like it, no matter what others say, they can't change your mind. >>>More
I suggest first of all, in fact, you can't be blamed for this, because your family has raised you until now, and it is not easy for them to do so. But I want to tell you that the upbringing and interference in your family is only on the day when you have the ability to work, and now you need your own sky, and what you have in your family can only be opinions, because you need to have your own way to go, and secondly, why do you say that the elders are more realistic than us? Because the elders will think more than us, there are objective factors such as family, education, personality, appearance, work, etc., but what they don't understand is your heart.