Friend, does it feel good to find a boyfriend who is lazier than yourself?

Not good at all. My boyfriend is the kind that never goes out, let him go to get a courier, he is too lazy to take it, would rather spend more money to let people send it up, when I am hungry, let him cook, he doesn't do it, just order takeout, the house is messy and there is nowhere to put his feet, he won't clean up, once my mother came to my house, the first sentence when he entered the door said: You are a home or a kennel, my mother can't stand it, and directly clean up the corners and corners for us, and my boyfriend is like a mummy, lying aside and playing with his mobile phone, He was indifferent no matter what I said, I sometimes wonder if I am sick, this is because I found a boyfriend, I am a giant baby who has not grown up, I am so tired.

It's not good, because I'm usually lazy enough, I never clean at home, my parents wash my clothes, and I can't imagine living with people who are lazier than me.

Every time I go out with my boyfriend, I will fight, he obviously can drive, but he feels troublesome, never drive, once I worked overtime in the company, got off work very late, I called him ** to let him pick me up, I waited at the door of the company for a long time, but it was a taxi, at that time I was confused, after going home, I endured a belly of fire and asked him, why didn't he pick me up, but he said that he was playing a game, couldn't leave, called me a car, I listened to it at the time, I was very disappointed, I was really disappointed in him, Someday I'll get rid of his lazy cancer.

It's lazy like a giant baby who calls himself dad every day, but is actually an abrasive giant baby. This feeling is really super unpleasant, because I am very tired, I do my own things, and I still do his things.

Every day after work is to lie down, and then is endlessly playing with mobile phones, lying on the sofa can not move the nest, should be how disappointed in life, a lot of things and many things to remind him to do, once a friend at home came, we were both lazy to clean, he actually hired a cleaner from the Internet, 20 yuan an hour, I really admire his laziness.

On the weekend, I stayed at home with my boyfriend, and no one wanted to move when I was cooking, so I had to order takeout, and when the takeaway arrived, I asked my boyfriend to get it, and he didn't go, so I had to go, and when I washed the clothes, we both had to play with scissors and baggage hammers, and whoever lost went to wash, but my boyfriend played tricks every time, but I couldn't do anything with him, and many times I felt like I was raising a son, alas, so tired.

I felt that life was completely hopeless, I was quite lazy, the two of us ate together and ordered takeout, washed clothes in the washing machine, and decided what to do, as if I had lazy cancer.

Once my boyfriend took a shower at night and put the down jacket on the sofa, the next day I saw him hanging his clothes on the balcony, I thought to myself when he washed the clothes, so I went to touch them, but the clothes were dry, so I went to ask him, he smiled and told me that he was like this in winter, the clothes outside were never washed, and they were worn when the wind blew, and they were black anyway. It made me laugh and cry.

It is better not to marry these three types of men.

1. A man who doesn't do any housework.

To tell the truth, in reality, a man who is willing to take on housework is as precious as a panda, and there are few and far between, when a man sees that his mother is too busy in the kitchen; When he sees that his family members are not up to some of the housework; When he watches his lover come back from work, tired like a dog;

In the above cases, if the man is not willing to put down his body to take on housework, it proves that he does not know how to be considerate of others, proves that he is very selfish, and a woman will not be happy when she marries such a lazy man.

Women must not regard "men don't do housework" as a trivial matter, doing housework is also a manifestation of a sense of responsibility, and it is best not to marry such a man.

2. Sloppy and lazy men.

Laziness and sloppiness are not only a matter of personal living habits, but also reflect a man's attitude towards life. And sloppiness proves that he can live a good life, and a man who can't even take care of himself, don't expect him to take care of the whole family.

Therefore, a sloppy and lazy man has lost in attitude, such a habit is formed since childhood, it is difficult for outsiders to change, women must stay away when they meet such a man, don't be naïve and serious love can change his bad habits for decades.

3. Men who smoke and drink excessively.

Many men have the habit of smoking and drinking, but everything must be done in moderation and not in excess.

When working, click one; When chatting, click another one; Before eating, order one; After eating, there are several in a row; Men who are surrounded by smoke every day not only have money and the most important thing is to hurt their bodies.

It's the same with drinking, it doesn't matter if you drink a little on festive occasions; But I have to drink every day when I eat, and occasionally I go home when I get drunk, so a man with no control and poor self-control ability can imagine that the quality will not be high.

No, this kind of man can't take responsibility, you say that your boyfriend is lazy, then you have to take care of everything in the future, marriage is a matter of two people, you have to share it together, the man is still the pillar of the family, you should communicate with him more so that he can make changes, you must be self-motivated and take the initiative to share things for you, if he doesn't change, don't marry.

Long-term love does not rely on tying him and tying him, but on loving each other sincerely, and keeping this love fresh, so that the love of two people will not be diluted by time, even if 10 years or 20 years have passed, it can be as sweet as first love, and you and I can be like first love.

Whether a man or a woman, after falling in love with someone, they are afraid of losing, fearful, and become cautious, and when the other party is not by their side, they will ** SMS tracking, 24-hour contact.

If you have a chance and care about you, you can still consider it.

[I felt that I would have to put some pressure on him if I couldn't go on like this, so I told him that I wouldn't go to work and stay at home all day.] Slowly he got better, sometimes I say that he doesn't even make enough money to support himself, maybe he's under pressure, but now it's much better than before].

It can be seen from this that you can change him, and he is also willing to change for you, willing to make money for you, and willing to support you.

If you really love him, don't think too much about it.

He should need you to put some pressure on him, and you should put some pressure on him.

I feel that this kind of man is really insecure.

Always rely on you to urge, but he doesn't take the initiative to work hard, a little irresponsible, you will get tired of it.

Don't put too much pressure. Believe in Him and encourage Him. No matter who has a shining day. You have to work hard yourself, after all, you don't have the financial strength to let a person idle now.

Happiness is always experienced by yourself.

Our concept of happiness is very diverse, some are satisfied with green vegetable steamed buns, and some are still not satisfied with sitting in a BMW and counting banknotes. It can be seen that happiness is defined by itself.

This man, although he is still very mediocre in his career, at least he is willing to make changes for you, and he is willing to be more positive in life and the pressure you give, what does it mean, it shows that this man is still very brave to face life, isn't this enough?

Believe in yourself man, don't bother yourself in mediocrity.