Why is there many descriptions of Daiyu being jealous in Dream of Red Mansions , but few of Baochai

Baochai is jealous, then it is not Xue Baochai, Daiyu is jealous because of its "truth", and the love for Baoyu, Baochai is not jealous, it is because of its "pseudo", one is that she knows that she is not as deep as Bao Dai grew up with, and she can't be jealous, and the other is that even if she is uncomfortable, she must pretend to be generous, because this is Xue Baochai.

Lin Daiyu is a fairy who descends to earth, focusing on the process of love, according to her own words: I am for my heart. So she'll be jealous.

But Xue Baochai is different, she follows feudal etiquette, she is for the interests of the family, the process of love is not important to her, she only cares about marriage with the permission of the feudal parents, so she does everything possible to promote the good relationship with her mother, and envelops everyone and even Lin Daiyu, so she will not be jealous, she will laugh at Lin Daiyu behind her back: Don't look at you and Jia Baoyu are so good now, it is not the two of you who decide the marriage sooner or later.

Daiyu has low self-esteem and is suspicious. Take Zhou Rui's family to send palace flowers as an example, it was just a copy, not distinguishing between high and low, but it happened to be given to Daiyu in the end, which caused Daiyu's surprise: "Or did you give it to me alone, or did other girls have it?"

Waiting for Zhou Ruijia: "Everyone has it, these two branches are the girl's", Daiyu immediately came to a thimble: "I know, if others don't pick the rest, they won't give it to me."

She always laments her background. In Jiafu, there is also a feeling of sending people under the fence.

Because Baochai didn't want to marry Baoyu at all.

According to the red scholar, the Baochai family went to Jiafu to run for the female officials in the palace.

And she should regard Baoyu as a friend, Daiyu is his girlfriend, the two of them flirt, she doesn't need to get involved, right?

I saw someone eating stinky tofu in front of me, why didn't I feel it? ”

He replied, "Not what I love." ”

That's it.

The personalities of the two are inherently different.

Temperament issues. Cao Gong wrote, Daiyu is thoughtful, more small, more hearted. Sister Bao is dignified and virtuous, and she is generous. Through this series, the interest of the characters can be reflected. It also paved the way for their future endings.

Character's personality. Writing about them, of course, has to reflect the character's temperament through a series of things. And the differences between the characters of Dai Chai and the two determine these.

"Dream of Red Mansions".Lin Daiyu's jealous lines are as follows:

1) It's also a shame that you listen to her. What I tell you on weekdays is all on deaf ears; Why did he say that you would follow, faster than the Holy Decree!

Xie He Zaoshi: This is obviously a strange snow goose.

If you don't listen to yourself, you listen to Zijuan.

, but it is alluding to what happened to Baoyu and Baochai just now, meaning: You don't listen to what I tell you, what Baochai says, but you treat it as a holy decree.

2) I didn't come if I knew he was coming.

Explanation: Daiyu Xue visited Baochai at night and saw Baoyu present, and suddenly became jealous. So he made a mockery, and then used the snow goose to send the stove, and ridiculed Baoyu for only listening to Baochai's words.

3) Idiot! Idiot! If you have jade, they will have gold to match you; People have "cold incense", but you don't have "warm incense" to match?

Explanation: Daiyu loves Baoyu deeply and loves Jinyu.

Good fate is too sensitive, reminding lovers everywhere and paying attention to drawing the line between gold and jade.

4) The purse I gave them too? You can't think about my stuff tomorrow!

Explanation: Daiyu wanted to blame Baoyu for not knowing how to cherish it, so she couldn't help but be jealous. Now seeing him so precious, I can't help but be ashamed and ashamed. I had no choice but to cry.

5) Phew! I forgive who it was, it turned out to be this ruthless and short-lived.

Explanation: Daiyu did not really curse Baoyu for her short life, but her persistence in love.

6) Yo, I'm here at a bad time!

Explanation: Baochai is sick, Jia Baoyu.

came to visit first, and then Lin Daiyu also came, and when she saw Jia Baoyu here, she opened her mouth and said: Yo, it's not a coincidence that I came to Zen, so Xue Baochai said.

is also confused, it takes Lin Daiyu's explanation to make everyone understand, but anyone can hear that Lin Daiyu is jealous again.

Because Baochai, like Daiyu, is the candidate for Baoyu's wife, Baoyu also has a heart for Baochai, and the attacker is just a maid and can never become a wife, so Daiyu will eat Baochai's vinegar, but not the vinegar of the attacker。The people in "Dream of Red Mansions" have different personalities, Daiyu has more thoughts, and every time she is with Baochai, she always sneers at her, and seems to look at Baochai unpleasantly. On the other side, the attacker is Baoyu's maid, and she has a skin-to-skin relationship with Baoyu, but Daiyu has no hostility towards the attacker, and these two people can coexist with Tan Shengping.

Daiyu and Baoyu grew up together, even Mrs. Jia thought that the two were a natural pair, and Daiyu had long regarded herself as Yufeng's daughter-in-law who had become Baoyu's daughter-in-law, and it stands to reason that she should be hostile to the attacker, and the reason for this has a lot to do with Baochai's identity.

In that society, it was normal for a man to have three wives and four concubines, and Daiyu lived in that era, and the concept was the same. Attacking people is to be Baoyu's concubine, and she can never become a wife, so Daiyu never takes attacking people in her eyes, because she is not worthy of fighting with her, and she will not eat the vinegar of attacking people.

On the other hand, Baochai is different, Baochai came out of the Xue family, and Baoyu can be said to be a good match, although Baoyu has been obsessed with Daiyu since he was a child, but his heart is not firm, Baoyu also has feelings for Baochai, and he has also been moved. For Daiyu, the person who moves Baoyu's heart is her rival in love, so she is particularly hostile to Baochai.

Some people in Jiafu support Daiyu to be Baoyu's wife, and some people support Baochai to be Baoyu's wife, Daiyu knows these things, so for Daiyu, Baochai is her biggest competitor, and she naturally doesn't dare to take it lightly.

Because she knew that the attacker was assigned to Baoyu's little maid, Baoyu was only a master and servant to her, and Baoyu Duan Kai's affection for Baochai was more special than that of the hall fight, so she was jealous.

Mainly because the identity of the attacker is a maid, it is impossible for her to threaten Lin Daiyu's status, but she minds Jia Baoyu and Xue Baochai dating very much, because Xue Pei can threaten Pei Bi to her status.

may be because Xue Baochai's status is very high and he can threaten Daolin Daiyu, and Xue Baochai is also very good-looking and talented.

Whether you have watched "Dream of Red Mansions" or not, everyone must be very familiar with the image of Lin Daiyu, and the adjectives around Daiyu can't escape "jealousy, love makes pettiness".

Daiyu's mind was all drawn by Baoyu, jealous and squeezing people, and she shed tears sadly alone. Daiyu has a very serious sense of insecurity about Baoyu's mind and outsiders' opinions, she is dissatisfied with Baochai when Baoyu goes to the doctor, and loses her temper with Baoyu who speaks out to defend Xiangyun, and her anxiety and loneliness torture her mind and consume her health. But Daiyu also has times when she is not jealous, and she is not jealous at all for young women who have a very close relationship with Baoyu, who is this person?

Attacking people, Baoyu's personal maid attacking people. For this young woman who had a skin-to-skin relationship with Baoyu, Daiyu completely restrained her jealousy and played the role of a good sister. When there was a dispute between the attacker and Baoyu, he persuaded her on both sides, comforted her softly, and not only that, but also called her "sister-in-law"!

Although this sister-in-law has a joke component, it is really strange with Daiyu's deep affection for Baoyu and her jealous personality.

Previously, many scholars believed that this was because in Daiyu's view, whether in terms of knowledge, identity or power, attacking people was not a threat to her, and He Qi didn't think so. The biggest premise for the establishment of this threat theory is that Daiyu has coveted the status of Bao'er Grandma for a long time, so she will be concerned about Baochai Xiangyun and the like, and will not take the attacker Qingwen in her eyes.

This view is undoubtedly a blasphemy against Daiyu, Daiyu in "Dream of Red Mansions" has always been a pure little daughter, innocent, coquettish and infatuated, and there are not so many trade-offs and schemes in her eyes. What she loves is not the position of Narang Bao's second grandmother, but Baoyu, who has the same heart as her, what she thinks and does is just for her own "heart"!

Baoyu doesn't treat the attacker as a maid in her heart, how can Daiyu treat Zijuan as an outsider in her heart? The two of them also have the same mind, and Xiqing truly loves the beautiful lives that take care of them, not just the Donglu Bureau because of their different identities. She treats Zijuan sincerely, of course she can understand Baoyu's thoughts about the attacker, which is also a clear proof that the two are like-minded.

The only thing Daiyu is afraid of is that someone will enter Baoyu's heart. And in Daiyu's eyes, although she is close to Baoyu, it is not love, so of course she will not be jealous!

The reason why Lin Daiyu is often jealous of Jia Baoyu in "Dream of Red Mansions" is that Lin Daiyu likes Jia Baoyu, but she is not sure if Jia Baoyu likes it too, and in Jiafu, there are many women with outstanding appearance and outstanding talents, and Jia Baoyu's feelings for sisters are very special. So Lin Daiyu is often jealous of Jia Baoyu. And I have never seen Jia Baoyu jealous of Lin Daiyu because ancient women usually do not go out of the door, so Lin Daiyu can't see other men, and because she usually learns and plays with her sisters, she can't get in touch with other members of the opposite sex.

So I never saw Jia Baoyu eating Lin Daiyu's vinegar.

Those who have read "Dream of Red Mansions" should know that Lin Daiyu's life experience is very tragic. Although her mother is Jia Min, the eldest lady of Jiafu, and her father is Tanhua Lin Ruhai, but unfortunately her mother left Lin Daiyu when she was very young, and her father was worried that he would not take good care of him, and because Jia's mother lost his beloved daughter, he missed his granddaughter very much, so he took Lin Daiyu to live in Jiafu. Who knows, within a few years, Lin Daiyu's father also passed away.

Since then, Lin Daiyu has no parents and brothers to rely on in this world, only one grandmother. So this also made Lin Daiyu develop a sensitive character.

After Lin Daiyu came to Jiafu, she met three springs who were about the same age as her, namely Yingchun, Tanchun and Xichun. Every day, they play and study together, and they live comfortably, and their relationship with Jia Baoyu is also very stable, and there are no waves. But then came a Xue Baochai.

Xue Baochai is older, has a very calm and calm personality, and treats people and things very properly, which is very popular with Jiafu and his subordinates. What's more, someone calculated Xue Baochai's life and said that she had better find someone with jade on her body. And Jia Baoyu happens to have a jade, and the relationship between Jia Baoyu and Sister Bao is also very good.

This made Lin Daiyu feel very uncomfortable. Because she is not sure about Jia Baoyu's feelings, now there is the docile and sensible Sister Bao, and Baoyu is also very good to her, which inevitably makes Lin Daiyu jealous and petty.

So before the relationship between Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu was determined, Lin Daiyu often ate Jia Baoyu's vinegar. But since the two of them exchanged hearts, this has rarely happened.

Daiyu likes Baoyu, but she doesn't know Baoyu's feelings for herself, Baoyu just mixes with her sisters every day, making people angry. Daiyu couldn't see other men in the Grand View Garden, so how could Baoyu be angry.

Think about it, Jia Tongyin is fake, Lin Tongyin is zero, zero is jealous and hopes to have a turnaround, if you are jealous, it will not be fake, and you can't satisfy your fake desires, so Baoyu is not jealous.

It has something to do with personality. Daiyu is a girl, and most girls are sensitive and fragile, but Baoyu is pampered and doesn't care about the little things in life.

Read Dream of Red Mansions carefully, who is left of the young and reasonable men in it except Baoyu. Baoyu is jealous of Daiyu, and there must be someone who can be because of it.