I m 23 years old, whether this relationship will continue or cut off, everyone help me!

If you see my answer, then congratulations, you already have the answer.

First of all, why do others keep saying bad things about him Is it really that you are very good There are only two reasons First, he is an unlikable person Second, he is very good It already makes people jealous There are only two possibilities Even if you are very good, your marriage is about their Are you right Since you love him, you know what good things he has Why do you love him Men and big men pay attention to be measured Do you think she is a big man If he is a little man, will you love him Women are so contradictory Please cherish the people in front of you You may be very good But for me, someone who doesn't know you, you're just a woman, and since you're beautiful, it's good to just dig this woman, and you won't have any other thoughts, that man gave the money to her mother, may I ask how many children he has in his family, is it not good to be such a man who takes care of his family, like me, I ask the family to spend tens of thousands of dollars every year, it's good, please find such a good man, please really cherish it, and finally remind me that even if you are better, you are always a woman, a man, and a woman who doesn't like yourself is a strong woman, at least in life Can't be too egotistical.

If you want to consider getting married, don't choose this kind of person. If you are simply in love, don't choose. Listening to your description, I don't think she's a good person.

You know it's not suitable, it's not too late to give up, it's too early to be 23. You are really in a hurry, saying that you are so good that you are afraid that you will not find anyone, and women are afraid of choosing the wrong man! Think about it!

It's love. The relationship continues.

Let me start by saying that you really did the right thing.

There's no need to redeem it, such a relationship is really not worth it at all, it's too fake, and your friend is right, breaking up is good, after all, it's not worth loving yourself.

You are boyfriend and girlfriend, not outsiders, what is it like to go abroad for such a big thing as to leave again and again without discussion? They all say that they are about to marry you.

is so sloppy that even if she gets married, she won't think about things in her life.

My girlfriend after the breakup also told her to borrow money, and she didn't ask me how much or what I was going to do. And she said yes. But she didn't give me as much as I wanted, she said not that much.

I felt very comfortable and proved that she still believed in me all along. I paid it back in a week.

Finally, I want to tell you about it. There is no need to redeem such feelings.

You're still young, go and start your own emotional path.

It's right to break up, because it's uneasy for a woman to run abroad at every turn! She has so many ways, what if she is still like this when you get married in the future? You don't usually stay together, you must know that the relationship between the two places is really difficult to maintain, especially from your description, it can be seen that she is not a good wife and mother, she doesn't want to help when you need help, what is there to regret when you are separated.

Loneliness is temporary, after all, there was always a concern in the previous days, time is the best healing medicine, don't go to her again, be worthy of your future wife and children!

Since you can have better opportunities and choices, let's share it happily with her.

Do you think that in this relationship, she has not paid much, and she doesn't care about you, and you are not your own person, such a woman, what is the pity of breaking up with her, and what can hurt her?

It's true that you yourself are reluctant to let go!

In fact, I envy your woman for being so independent, she doesn't need your support at all, emotionally I don't dare to say that she has no attachment to you, but in life you are really useless to her. Can a woman do this, can she not make us admire and make you men angry? I think the woman you like should be the kind of woman who is more traditional and bird-like, and that woman is not the type you like.

Let it go as soon as possible, maybe she's also waiting for you to propose to break up, maybe she's just embarrassed to speak.

There's no need, this kind of woman doesn't have to be necessary, you'll be fine after a long time, there's really no need to keep this kind of woman! It's true...! Husband and wife share weal and woe, she actually...! Alas, there is no mouth to speak of this woman! Points, I support you points!

Even if I love him very much. I think it's better to break up. After reading your description, I don't think that woman loves you very much, lukewarm.

Women love very crazy and don't care about gains and losses. Besides, love is to respect each other, and she has deceived you again and again I don't think it's necessary to continue, think about it yourself, and ask yourself, Has he ever loved you. Did he keep him when you said you broke up?

You don't have to hang yourself from a tree Take a step forward and you'll find that your world suddenly opens up You can have a lot more There are still a lot of good women in your world Don't insist too much It's only yourself who gets hurt Women are selfish When he doesn't love you He doesn't care if you live or die.

It is a woman's nature to be cautious and careful, she does not lend you money and says that she should consider it, maybe there is a reason for her, or maybe she will think: what do you want to do so much, is there any problem, generally speaking, a man will not borrow money from his beloved woman, unless he encounters something that cannot be solved.

The evidence of a sentence cannot convict a person, it is her fault that she goes abroad without permission and does not discuss with you, but you also have no evidence to say that she is unfaithful to you, since you have decided to get married, why doubt her, the fault of the relationship is not a person's, maybe she wants to leave a little nostalgia for youth before you get married, maybe because you are busy with her, she can't bear to blame you, so she first cut and then made you mistakenly think that she disrespected you?

Although I'm not married, I'm not in love! But still understand your confusion! Remember that feelings cannot be tested with money.

Whether it's friendship or love! It must not be measured by money! You'll be very sad then!

It's true...! With the ingredient of money, everything will be greatly discounted! Believe me!

It's not that she doesn't discuss anything with you! It is the words that everyone has their own right to freedom, and they are bound because they are in love. That's why she chooses not to say it!

For the feelings of the two of you! I think if you still love, it's good to be together! If you really don't love it anymore!

Just borrow it! It's not to give up, it's not to give up!

When two people are in love together and are going to get married, both parties will definitely influence each other, so both parties must bear certain responsibilities for the other party in terms of language and behavior, and they must consider each other's feelings. Judging from your description, this girl may not be very good at considering the other party's feelings, that can only say that she is not mature enough, it does not mean that she does not love you, at this time, it is very necessary for you to communicate more, and you happen to be too lacking in good communication, you unilaterally imagine too many things, and you imply to yourself that she is not good for you, but please look at yourself, you say that you don't care about her as a person, only care about this relationship, this statement is simply contradictory, without her, how can there be this relationship? You don't doubt her feelings for you anymore, the truth is that you don't love her anymore.

I've been watching it for a long time and I can feel what your girlfriend is doing in a foreign country! How to say, from my analysis, what she needs over there is money, but after having money, she needs your comfort, she doesn't really like you, he will only live with money... Dude... You've wasted a lot of energy... I've always persuaded and not persuaded to separate.、This time·· I don't know how to say yes... I hope you find your soulmate!!

Bubble love, even if you are barely together again today, will not last long in the future.

Do you still love him? Is it the love of her now or the original feeling? Ask yourself!

Loved, once separated, it will feel very painful. What I want to say is: love is a feeling, a responsibility, an understanding, an inclusion.

If you feel that her behavior is hurting you, then let it go, if you feel that you are willing to love one forever and tolerate her, then communicate with her well, don't doubt her, love can't stand distrust. Measure it for yourself.

A woman's consideration for money. It's normal...

As for not consulting with you. for fear that you will oppose ...

I can tell you... If you want to find a reason. In that case.. Whether you keep it or not, you can find it. So.. Respecting your heart is the most important thing and not allowing yourself to regret it. That's it.

When it comes to getting married, do you want to break up? Calm down, I think your fiancée loves you, it's just that she sometimes does something wrong, personality. If you think it's worth it, then redeem it, after all, you can go together for 5 years.

Ever wondered how she treats you sometimes? Well? If you still love it, start anew.

Forget about the unpleasant things before, ask her, and discuss things with two people in the future. The most important thing is communication, I wish you happiness!

Let's continue to learn, to use a simple analogy, you may come out now for 3000 a month, and next November for 5000 a month, which is more worthwhile? Measure it yourself!

I'm not talking without evidence, I've personally witnessed it, I'm engaged in HR work in the company, some time ago the general manager recruited a secretary, must have good English, but a few were not satisfied, the general manager said that they are not very proficient in English, and a very good one came behind, and the boss wanted to stay. Give 5000 a month, and the previous ones are 3000,

I suggest you look for a job.

Now that industry requires experience.

Your academic qualifications are not difficult to find, and you will have more experience than you in the same major that you worked in a few years before you, but I am afraid that you may not have an advantage if your education is higher than others.

Just come out, you don't have to be too demanding, weak in speaking, but also in practice to work for a period of time, soon you have experience, then is the best time for you to find a job, social work is also a kind of learning, and you can't learn by reading.

Everyone has said so much, the most important thing is to listen to the voice of your own heart Actually, I know that you must already have the answer in your heart.

Let's work first, after all, language is just a tool, learning never ends, you can learn it while working, and your foundation is so good, there should be no problem with self-study.

Besides, you also know that now work is about experience, work first, be familiar with your own work content, and then study hard professionally.

In short, should theory be combined with practice? (Hehe, it's a bit big.)

In a word, continue your education!! If you miss this time, you really won't have such a good opportunity, and your age won't allow it! When you really go out and experience the difficulty of finding a job, you will regret it too late, I am from here, listen to me, continue to work hard! I wish you success!

Look as you go.

If you can find a better job, go for it. After all, good jobs are hard to come by.

If you don't find a job that you can see, then it is better to continue your studies and get a certificate or something so that you can find a better job in the future.

I think you should go to further education, it's not easy to find a job now, either the salary is low, or the skill is not enough. After further study, you can do double translation, which is too self-conscious, and it is a 、、、 in exchange for sweat

That's what I did.

You said that your spoken language is weak, but isn't communication indispensable at work? So, isn't it easier to improve speaking in real work?

Much better than which English course you are enrolling, I think.

So take a firm stance on your work.

And a lot of people say that your English level is enough at work, which is not good, hehe, don't think too much, the opportunity is fleeting.

That's it! However, it is recommended to repair 2 exceptions. In Japanese, 87 seats in the top 500 Japanese companies are useful. Just graduated, don't expect a good salary

You can learn while working.

I don't think you're wrong, it's just that there is a divergence of values in your love, which is normal, on the contrary, I still think you are right, you bf is a little childish, not so mature.

Since he doesn't love you anymore, then don't be sad, without him, you have nothing, it's zero, but keep him, you may be negative, understand my words?

Your husband doesn't gamble or prostitute, so you play a broken PSP and you quarrel with him?

I really don't know if you will be happy after buying a car and a house!!

I think you should talk about it, it's not an unsolvable problem when it comes to saving money, so as not to ruin a relationship. You also experienced opposition from the outside world when you were together, and now you should deal with this more well, as for him saying that he doesn't love you or something, maybe it's angry words.

Men forget their roots once they have money, but money is the foundation of relationships.

Communicate well and it will be solved, he hasn't forgotten his roots, he's a good man.

I don't know what you want, and maybe you don't know what you're doing.