What are the other person s behaviors that mean they may only use you as a spare tire?

If the other party is hot and cold to you. Moreover, it will not take much time to spend with you. Then you are the spare tire.

He never shows up when you need him, and you have to be there when he needs you. There is never a trace of you in his circle of friends, and he never announces you to his friends and family. Those who have these performances generally treat you as a spare tire.

When she asks the other party out, the other party always shirks herself, but when she is sad and sad, she will find herself. This means that the other party may only use you as a spare tire.

It's just that he doesn't just chat with you alone, he usually plays ** behind your back, doesn't send messages in front of you, often hears him chatting with other members of the opposite sex, and never talks to you about marriage.

If the other party is often hot and cold to you, and doesn't care about your feelings, and won't give you a proper name, then it means that he just treats you as a spare tire and doesn't want to go down with you.

He always ignores you, thinks of you at the last minute, always wants to ask you for help, or ask you to borrow money.

Usually there is no news, and as soon as I send a message, there is something, borrowing money. I don't want to see you, I don't want to hang out with you.

will be hot and cold to you, reply to your messages will become very slow, will not take the initiative to buy you things, will not go out on dates with you.

They often deceive you, don't care about you, draw you a big pie, don't take action on you, won't reject you and don't accept you.

He has a very cold attitude towards you, he will only contact you when he needs you, and he will never take you to heart, you are dispensable.

During the period of love or ambiguity, we will always constantly guess each other's thoughts, such as how deep the other party's love for us is, or whether the other party likes themselves, etc., but in fact, some people are ambiguous with you, just treat you as a spare tire, and do not want to be with you, the spare tire means that she doesn't want to be with you very much, but wants to hang you to satisfy some of his vanity, or pick up the man. When a person uses you as a spare tire, he usually has the following performances, first of all, he is hot and cold, and secondly, he accepts your good, but will not admit your relationship, and the most important thing is that he will never introduce you to friends or family members.

1. Hot and cold to you。If a person really likes you, then he will only treat you with enthusiasm and gentleness, but when he is hot and cold to you, generally speaking, he doesn't care so much about you, but treats you according to his emotions, when he is happy or, with the person he really likes, when the relationship is good, he will be very cold to you, almost not reply to your messages, etc., if she is emotionally frustrated or not very happy and needs comfort, he will come to you, don't be in a hurry to be happy at this time, When he is hot and cold to you, you have to judge rationally what kind of existence you are for him, if you are sure that he is just using you as a spare tire, it is best not to waste feelings and time on him, and say goodbye early.

2. Accept your goodness, but never admit the relationship。I can think of the advantage of a spare tire, that is, it will be good to him and not ask for anything in return, so when a spare tire is good to her, she will never refuse, and she will also enjoy this kind of good to him, but when the spare tire feels that he has paid enough, and wants to confirm the relationship, he will never admit it, at this time there will be many excuses, such as "what do you want, we are buddies", and "I just treat you as a brother" and so on, in short, I don't want to admit the relationship with you, because he is likely to have a legitimate boyfriend, or has several spare tires, which is extremely hateful, and is somewhat similar to green tea, so we must carefully distinguish in life and beware of being deceived.

3. Never take you to meet his friends or family。As mentioned above, he won't even admit to the relationship, so how can he take you to meet his friends and family? Generally speaking, when we bring our friends of the opposite sex to meet our friends or family, we have basically recognized each other and want to develop for a long time, so when he just treats you as a spare tire, he will not establish a relationship so much, and he will not introduce you generously to friends and family around him, because he is far from treating you as his future object, so introducing you to fixed friends and family around him will inevitably have some embarrassment and abruptness.

Clause.

One, she will only think of you when she is bored; Clause.

Second, she is always ambiguous about her confession to you; Clause.

3. I will not refuse to have intimate contact with you.

In the emotional field, the original beauty of the Rose Covenant!

He won't reply to your messages in seconds, but he will reply when he's bored, and never send your ** in the circle of friends.

If a person treats you as a spare tire, first of all, he will not take the initiative to contact you, and will generally wait for you to contact him, or he will take the initiative to contact you when he encounters a problem.

The other party treats you as a spare tire, and the simplest thing is what they say to you, and they don't care too much about your every move at all, so this is an obvious performance.

It's that he will come to you when he is unhappy, but when he is happy and normal, he will go to find other girls.

will not agree to your confession and will not refuse you, occasionally flirt with you, and will not let you get him.

He will definitely be very uninterested in your personal affairs, and he will always think about himself first when he encounters things, and he will not usually take the initiative to contact you. So it's still very easy to distinguish if you look closely.

The biggest manifestation is that his attitude towards you will be sometimes cold and sometimes enthusiastic, because he does not put all his feelings into you.

The other person may not particularly care about my feelings, and they will not be centered on me in everything, and they will feel that they don't care.

Generally, when I am happy, I will not be happy to see you, and when I encounter sad things or difficulties, I will always take the initiative to contact you.

He will occasionally perfunctory you, but he will never put you first, and will throw you away as soon as someone else has him.

The other party may not care about himself at all, and he has to give a lot to get a little bit in return.

It's not very timely to reply to the message, it's hard to ask her to make an appointment, the gift to her never refuses, confess to her, she doesn't refuse directly, only says, I don't want to fall in love now, and I don't even recognize you as friends.

Don't accept or refuse, never take the initiative to chat with you, unless there is something important to ask you to help, kick it away immediately after helping, and you will be sent a good person card, and the gifts you send will be accepted in full.

It will always be hot and cold to you, come to you when you need it, and ignore you when you don't need it.

When you call her, she always says that she is busy, and she never takes the initiative to find you.

When the spare tire generally has the following obvious manifestations, such as coming and going when you are called, looking for you when you need you, usually not looking for you, not being honest with you, and not loving to communicate.

He will be hot and cold to himself, he will not be really involved in this relationship, he will be very enthusiastic about himself when he needs himself, and he will be cold when he does not need himself.

Clause. One, she will only think of you when she is bored; Clause.

Second, she is always ambiguous about her confession to you; Clause.

3. I will not refuse to have intimate contact with you.

When you want to date her, she always finds reasons to find excuses not to go out, and occasionally goes on dates together, and will keep a proper distance from you, without the intimacy of a real couple.

I may often say that I have something wrong in the middle of a chat, and I can't talk to me anymore, and my attitude towards me will be hot and cold.