Why is it said that only by accepting loss can we have better?

Many people always know how to cherish when they lose, and only after losing do they realize that what they have lost is the most important. Then slowly find what you have lost, and finally have it better. Losing is actually not terrible, it is yours, it is yours after all, it is not yours, no matter how you keep it, it is not yours.

Therefore, we must understand a sentence and lose it calmly.

Just like love, some people don't cherish this relationship. When in love, the other party is kind to himself, does not take it seriously, and ignores the other party; doesn't care about the other party, and even thinks that the other party is dispensable, and sometimes feels that the other party is in the way. So I was impulsive and broke up with the other party.

However, after a while, I found that there was no other party, and I seemed to be a different person. I regret the decision I made. So he went to look for the other party, but because his previous attitude towards the other party was too bad, the other party was no longer willing to be with him.

After losing the other party, the whole person becomes lazy and sloppy. Then I realized that I had lost the best, so I slowly looked for someone similar to my ex-girlfriend, and then cherished each other.

Some people don't study well in their junior year of high school and indulge in playing all day long. However, I didn't pass the college entrance examination, and I saw that other students were entering the university one after another. I saw other classmates posting all kinds of food they ate in college, friends they made, and friends going to college classrooms.

When I saw this scene myself,I hated that I didn't study hard at that time, so I lost the opportunity to go to college. But some people are not willing to accept that they were not admitted to university. I embarked on the road of repeating, because I knew that if I didn't study hard, I wouldn't be able to get into college, so I studied seriously every day when I repeated.

I spent a lot of time brushing up on the questions, and finally I was admitted to my dream university.

Only when people continue to lose will they usher in new vitality。Only when you lose will you realize what you have lost, and you will find your mistakes. In order to sum up the experience in the verses, in order to meet the best harvest.

Have a wonderful result.

There is a loss, there is a gain. Sometimes you have to comprehend and cherish the beauty that is coming in the midst of loss, otherwise you will not know how to cherish it until you lose it.

Because when we prepare for the worst, we can accept the outcome calmly. In this way, you will not be afraid of losing, and you will cherish what you have more.

There is a saying that when you gain something, you also lose something. If you lose it, you will know how to cherish it, so that you can have it better.

That's because only by constantly accepting loss can we find something better for ourselves.

You can't win 'em all.

When everyone is faced with a choice, they will hope that the fish can be obtained, and the bear's paw can also be obtained.

But if you don't lose what you gain, won't it feel too easy? It is even more impossible to prove its worth.

In fact, with the choice of fish and bear's paw, it can better reflect the value of your choice.

So before doing anything, be sure to think it through. What is worth paying for it and what you are cherishing.

That's what you really want.

Cherish the present, be content.

I like to watch "Journey to the West", and every time I hear the sentence "The most painful thing in the world is this", I can't help but feel sad

I don't know how to cherish when I have it, but I don't regret it until I lose it.

What you have is not satisfied, what you get is not cherished, you are obsessed with greed, and you are just asking for happiness

Liu Ruoying sang in the song: Later, I finally learned how to love, but unfortunately you have long since disappeared into the sea of people

Later, in tears, I finally understood that once some people miss it, they will never do it again.

People are like this, what you can't get is always the best, so people always deliberately pursue those things that can never be obtained, and often ignore the people around them who have been silently loving them.

If you are in true love, then don't break up easily, and don't wait until you lose it to regret it.

At that time, the pain was unforgettable, and many people in the world only knew how to cherish it until they lost it, so we should cherish the people we have around us, and don't lose an opportunity or a lover because of others, so we will lose a lot.

Yes. It's a manifestation of reverse thinking!

It's been eight months since I graduated. Graduation season breakup. I'm not saying that I got anything out of losing it, but in the process, I learned to really get along with myself, I spent more time reading books, reviewing professional knowledge, and after eight months, I forgot why we broke up.

Life is really vast, feelings are just a branch, treat work, treat family, treat friends, there are many things to do. I'm no longer the kind of girl who cries until the middle of the night because of my feelings, I know exactly what I want and what I need to do. In addition, I think it is important to get to know yourself well before meeting others.

Time keeps moving, and no matter what you've chosen, it's doing. You lose something like this, which means that you should have experienced this thing in the time you used to experience something else. When you lose, you are just taking an unexpected path, this road is not what you once expected, but when you cherish it, you will find that this road is also beautiful.

What you lose, you will always be taught something, and this is what you gain.

All things, as if they are clearly arranged, will appear and disappear at a specific time for you. Its arrival makes you understand that you have had, you have been happy, you have been uncomfortable, it makes you understand that having is a kind of beauty, but if you lose, it will also make you understand that you do not have to it.

Gain calmly, lose indifferently, fight for the inevitable, and go with the flow.

I'm a Pisces, I don't have a self to be with whomever I like, and then I broke up, I changed myself into what I liked, you see, even though I lost him, I found myself and was happy, although I miss it occasionally.

What is lost is the present, what is gained is the future! Whoever hasn't made a mistake when he was young, just don't repeat it in the future!

But I've always thought that a loss is a loss, unless that thing lives in your heart forever, just like everything has pros and cons, there are bad things and good ones, and there are losses and there are gains.

Personally, I think the reason why there is this statement is because if you really lose, you will grow, but you will really gain a lot of things, and I agree with this point of view.

Because only when you truly feel the loss will you cherish it, and in turn you will cherish it even more when you encounter it again, and you can truly harvest what you want.

Because only after the real loss, will you know what you want in your heart, will you fight for it again, and you will really get it.

Only real loss can really be gained, why do you say that, first of all, when you lose, you can prove that you have gained before. In turn, it can also show how to prove that you have it, and that is when you lose it.

It means that when we lose these things, we can realize the importance of this thing, so we will cherish this thing more.

Because people can't be overly attached to certain things, they must have a good attitude, even if they are not around, they are still in their hearts.

For example, when we go to school and complete so many years of schooling, it is only at the moment of graduation that we really get all the knowledge.

Losing is also a kind of gain, because after losing, at least it will make room for us.

What you get is a new space, and you can accept new things.

Just like at home, the old furniture is thrown away, and such material things are lost, but the space becomes more open.

To be able to make the mind wander more openly, to learn to give up, to know that loss is not terrible, the key is not to be sad, not to blame yourself, and not to think that this is an absolutely bad thing.

Only in this way can we look at the problem of loss dialectically, and we must transform loss into a kind of gain, and if there is loss, there will be gain.

In the same way, we should not always possess things, because when we gain, we also lose.

It's a terrible thing to lose your freedom.

Don't wait until you lose to know how to cherish it, don't wait until you are sick to feel that health is precious, and don't wait until time passes to feel precious.

Don't miss the opportunity, and never miss it. There is only one life, to stay healthy, to work hard, to live your own color.

Not all opportunities have another chance, treat each opportunity as the only time to work hard, and treat every day as if it were the last day. Reach your full potential and strive for a better life.

In the face of life's difficulties, we must learn to face them; In the face of everything lost, learn to fight for it; In the face of the passage of time, learn to cherish it.

1. Facing difficulties.

Whether it is work, study or life, we will always encounter problems, how to better solve the problem, how to maintain a good attitude, is a course that needs continuous learning.

First of all, you have to figure out what the root cause of the problem is, what are the ways to solve the problem, what problems you need to overcome in the process of solving the problem, the clearer you think, and list the predicted possibilities, the more you can prescribe the right medicine to solve the problem.

Of course, in the process of overcoming difficulties, the mentality is also very important, whether to solve the problem with self-pity or to solve the problem with optimism and positivity. To a large extent, determines how far you will go.

Telling yourself that overcoming difficulties is a small step towards success, but it is a big step in your life.

When you have the courage to face it and solve problems with practical actions, your ability to cope with stress and your self-confidence will improve.

No pain, no gain. Facing difficulties and solving difficulties. Growing up slowly is the first step to success.

2. Gain and loss.

Sometimes you lose and you gain at the same time, but it's important that you know how to choose, what is the most important thing for you so far, what you have to choose.

All losses will come back in another way, don't always care about the gains and losses at the moment, temporary backwardness, temporary abandonment, in order to delay sexual happiness. The rest of your life is long, and if you don't reach the last moment, how can you admit defeat.

3. Summarize and reflect.

We must learn to reflect and summarize in our daily work, study and life. So as to improve their work efficiency, find the best learning method, and strive for their ideal life.

Be good at summarizing the problems in life, find the reasons for temporary lag, find the tricks of your own progress, and find the way forward.

When a problem occurs, the first thing to do is to find the problem from yourself. Review your own mistakes, of course, you must also affirm your own advantages, and you can't blame yourself for it.

The biggest regret in life is that I could, you could have tried to do your best, but you gave up trying. Don't let yourself spend each day with remorse.

Plan ahead and prepare in advance, no matter when the opportunity comes, we may seize the opportunity; Always be optimistic. Keep exercising, then health will always be with you.

If what has been lost is irreparable, grasping the present is the best attitude for the moment. Many times, losing is also another kind of gain at that time.

Give you what I like, I hope it helps you.

Miss the flowers, and I will reap the rain.

Many things are always understood after they have been experienced. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; After being stupid, we will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner, and we will slowly understand ourselves in the process of gaining and losing. In fact, life does not need such meaningless attachments, and nothing really cannot be parted with.

Learn to give up, and life will be easier.

Learn to give up, turn away before crying, leaving a simple back; Learn to give up, bury yesterday in your heart, and leave the most beautiful memories; Learn to give up, so that each other can have an easy start, and the love that is bruised all over the body is not necessarily unforgettable.

Every relationship is beautiful, and every journey is intoxicating. It is the regret that we can't have that makes us more nostalgic; It is the sleepless thoughts in the middle of the night that make us feel more nostalgic. Feelings are a questionnaire without answers, and painstaking pursuit does not make life more fulfilling.

Perhaps a little regret and a little sadness will make this answer sheet more timeless and longer.

Pack up your mood and keep walking, miss the flowers and you will reap the rain; I just met you when I missed him, keep walking, you will eventually reap your own beauty.

If you like something, you must learn to appreciate it, cherish it, and make it more precious.

If you like someone, you have to make him happy, make him happy, and make that feeling more sincere. If you can't do it, then you better let it go, so sometimes some people have to learn to give up, because giving up is also a kind of beauty.

And then tell you that the more useful things you give to others, the more you gain, and you gain more than you lose during this period.