What should parents pay attention to when teaching their children?

1.Parents and children find a quiet place to sit down and discuss what the child needs to do together.

2.Although you preach to your children, try your best to ask more enlightening questions, listen more and talk less, and let your children speak!

3.There are some key points that you can take note of and let your child read for themselves! If the older child knows the words, he can see by himself, and if the younger child does not know the words, you can remind him in the form of drawings.

When teaching their children, parents must do what they say and pay attention to their attitudes.

When you teach your child, pay attention to his reaction. Because children will also be influenced by you, or become distorted in their thinking.

Parents should pay attention to the key points to the child with a statement that is easier for the child to understand, pay attention to the child's emotions, and avoid him from having some bad feelings of resistance.

When teaching children, parents should pay attention to their tone and attitude as gently as possible.

In fact, there are many parents who do not know when to educate their children, and some parents will preach to their children when they are eating, in fact, this time is very wrong, and it will have some impact on children, so it is not recommended for parents to do it. When eating, people naturally relax, so many families will take advantage of this time to eat when discussing some things.

Some parents believe that children don't need face, but since children are sensible, they also need face. Therefore, it is recommended that parents should close the door and teach their children. If parents always point fingers at their children when they eat out, then there will definitely be a lot of conflicts between children and parents.

And the child not only does not listen, but also has some resentment towards the parents.

Add to that the fact that some children can't eat at the dinner table when they are being taught by their parents, so such behavior can lead to waste. This is also an ancient poem we learned, and we can also see that the cultivation of every grain of rice is very hard. Therefore, educating children at the dinner table will also lead to waste, so it is recommended that you educate your children at the right time and in the right place.

You may choke or have an appetite affected. First, if the child is overly emotional during eating, it may cause the food to be choked, causing life-threatening conditions. Second, it will affect the child's mood when eating, and make the child resistant to eating.

If you teach your child at mealtime, it will cause indigestion, and your child's appetite is not particularly good, and it will also affect the relationship between your child and your parents, which will make your child become very rebellious, and your child's personality will become very irritable.

In this way, it will affect the child's appetite, and may also lead to malnutrition or indigestion in the child, and this kind of education will not achieve the effect of education at all, but will be counterproductive.

This practice is actually very undesirable, it will fill the child with a sense of guilt, and also affect his digestion and absorption.

The most inappropriate way to teach children during meals will seriously affect children's appetite and mood, which is not conducive to children's physical health.

Originally, there was a saying called "food is silent", if you eat with your child during the meal, and you can't eat, and I have been thinking about eating when you are eating, it turns out that you can talk, and he will also eat lunch, when you finish eating, there is meat in it, but you can't speak, otherwise you will choke.

If you educate your child during meals, it will slow down your child's eating speed and put some pressure on your child's psychology. That's Wu Xinyu eating, in this way, what is eaten into the stomach will not be easy to digest, and it is not good for the child's body.

It will affect the child's diet, it will also affect the child's appetite, it will affect the child's personality, it will also affect the child's growth, and it will also affect the child's mood, so don't lecture the child during meals.

Eat well when eating, as the old saying goes, "food does not speak", do not train children when eating, children have food in their mouths, if they cry, it is easy to suck the rice into the trachea, it is easy to choke, and the child is also prone to indigestion.

Hello, it is easy to distract the child by doing this, and he does not have the ability to concentrate. When eating, the child does not have the heart to listen, in fact, it has no effect, but the child is disgusted.

In this way, the child can not concentrate on eating, and at the same time, the child's eating mood will also be affected, then it will definitely affect the digestion of food.

Hello, this situation will cause a certain amount of pressure and burden on the child's psychology, then it will cause the child's loss of appetite, which is very bad for the child's health.

People's appetite is greatly affected by mood, and when they are in a happy mood, they naturally have a better appetite and eat more; When the mood is depressed, he "can't eat sweetly" and has no heart to eat. We parents understand this simple truth, but once it comes to our children, we often ignore this problem! First of all, from the perspective of children's health, it is unfavorable, because before meals, children are in the time of hunger, if you educate children at this time, it will inevitably cause certain pressure and burden on children's psychology, then it will cause children to lose appetite, so it is not good for children's health.

I think it's because the culture at the dinner table is very important, some people say that if a person has a good life, you will know it when you have a meal with him, you can see it, it is very important to educate children when eating, and children are not educated Many times when they eat. So parents like to educate their children at mealtimes. Now everyone is very busy, in addition to working hours, now everyone is busy with all kinds of brushes, lying brushes, sitting brushes, standing brushes, walking and sitting on the toilet do not pull down, now brushing Douyin brush headlines and brushing the circle of friends occupies most of the day, only when eating, you don't need to take your mobile phone, you have time to sit together and eat and chat!

Eat without saying anything, sleep without sleeping" shows that these two times are not suitable for preaching. However, due to the rhythm of life and the working hours of parents, family members can only get together during meals, forming "table education".

This will have a certain impact on the child's psychology, and will also make the child become more inferior, and at the same time, in many cases, the child will also have a negative psychology, and at the same time, the child will become particularly cowardly, and it will also cause great psychological pressure on the child when eating, and it is easy for the child to suffer from anorexia.

First, it will make children have a fear of eating, which is a relaxing and pleasant thing, but because of their parents' teachings, they will be bored and afraid; Second, it will make them have an inferiority complex, because everyone sits together to eat during the meal, and criticizes the child in front of everyone, which will make the child feel embarrassed and self-ashamed and become unconfident; Thirdly, it will alienate the child from his parents, because there is less time during the day when parents and children can spend time together, and if parents always do this during meals, children will stay away from their parents.

This will not only make the child unable to eat properly when eating, but will also make the body unable to absorb nutrients, and will also make the child particularly rebellious, and will make the child disgusted with his parents and disgusted with his parents.

Eating should be the warmest time for the family to be happy, but parents are easy to preach at this time, or even criticize the child, at this time the child's mood is affected, appetite will be reduced, do not want to eat, over time to the child's physical health has a serious harm.

It will make the child easily choked, easy to be stuck in the bronchial tube by food, will lead to a short temper, a bad parent-child relationship, and will lead to the child's rebellion.

Introduction: If you want your child to be preached, be sure to find the right way.

If you want your child to accept your opinion, first let your child know that you are expressing the right thing, so that it is easy for him to accept some children and know what to do. Some parents will keep asking their children, at this time, if the time to ask for a long time, the child will also feel very bored, and must use appropriate methods to help the child. As the child grows older, the child will also have a certain reference object, so parents must think about whether the child can accept this situation, if the child likes to stay with classmates, parents must learn to face the child's situation correctly, and the child must get better development.

If you find that your child is reluctant to talk to you, or the child is talking to you less and less, at this time you should take a look at what kind of problems the child has, and you must help the child solve it in time.

Some children are often sad when they are young, so parents must take a look at what is wrong with their children, must not let their children be impatient, and must let their children know that they are talented. Many children are often unwilling to listen to their parents' preaching at home, so parents should see if the child is more fragile in their hearts, if the child knows how to reject others, then parents should improve their children's ability from this aspect. We must let the child know that rejection is also an ability, and we must let the child get better development.

Many children have their own little friends when they are young, so parents must let their children play with the children they like, so that the children can become more and more happy, parents must pay attention to the growth of children, children will not be smooth sailing on the road to growth, so that children learn to challenge.

Parents should communicate more with their children at ordinary times, should think from the child's point of view, never beat and scold the child, must be gentle when communicating with the child, communicate in a way that the child can understand, and do not force the child to return to the nucleus in the past, and must be gradual.

Parents should explain all the mistakes made by their children to their children, and then tell their children that they are wrong, so that children can understand the consequences of doing wrong things.

Parents can choose to communicate with their children once a week, and they also need to play with their children more often and become friends with their children.

When the child is afraid to speak, parents should not blindly hit the child, so that the child has a sense of fear of speaking, and at the same time parents should pay attention to the child's pronunciation, and parents should correct it in time when the child's pronunciation is not standard.

Parents must pay attention to the way of education, when teaching their children to speak, they must pay attention to their own pronunciation, correct their children's wrong reactions in time, and create a good educational atmosphere.

Parents should pay attention to the correct demonstration, do not speak children's words, such as eating, drinking water, do not speak in tongues, and do not use foul language in front of their children.

Hello dear, many elders like to teach others every day, they think that self-luck is the elders themselves have experienced a lot of things, and their own views on things are correct, and these young people will not do things, and the elders also like to use their own experience to teach others to do things, but these experiences can no longer be used.

Elders like to preach because they have a sense of age superiority.

Elders like to preach to others, and they feel that what they say is right. Elders rely on their age and seniority, so they can casually preach and criticize others, because even if he says it, others dare not refute it, because he is an elder and he is old. So he slowly developed such a bad habit, and he himself felt that it was very good, but in the eyes of others, he had no choice but to endure it, and he couldn't disrespect his elders, just listen to it himself, and he wouldn't take it seriously.

Very to the elders think that they have experienced a lot of things, so some of the ways they say about some things are also correct, and they have to let those young people do things according to their own words, but young people have their own methods and plans, so they often contradict each other because of the disagreement of views, and in the end it is often the end of the young man who contradicts the elder who gives him experience, and often complains that the young man is disobedient, so the young man is very rare.

Some of the lessons given by the elders are not so useful now.

Many elders just like to give all kinds of advice to young people who are stupid, saying that they should get married at twenty, and if they don't get married, no one will want them, the sooner they get married, the better, if others don't listen to what they say, they will get angry and lose their temper, and finally they will quarrel, many of the elders' experience is outdated, and it is not suitable for the current society at all, so we must listen to the opinions of the elders appropriately.

The elders like to preach to others for the good of these young people, but many experiences are no longer applicable to this society, and they will still speak these experiences, as juniors, they only need to listen to it, and there is no need to take it seriously. I hope my help to you, and I wish you a happy life.