How can I change her? 30

If you really love someone, it's not for him (her) to change everything, you have to insist on being yourself In fact, loving someone doesn't have to be like this!!

If there is something that is not good enough, it should be changed! But if it's a personality, the two can't agree may affect the relationship between the two parties! If you really love her, she loves you too! Men should take the initiative to change themselves!

You don't just want to change her.

It's about helping her share everything she has.

If you love her, you have to tolerate everything about him!!

It's as simple as that!

Keep everything simple!

Too much pursuit.

It's only going to get worse!

It's not her who has changed.

It's you. You change, she will naturally change with you...

I think of a female friend of mine. Like her, really, but it's not her I love, I'm the best friend. If I love her, I will chase her regardless of everything, be good to her. Maybe you're the same, you don't really love her, it's just liking.

Summary. Hello dear, having this awakened consciousness is progress in itself! If you want to change yourself, you have to discipline yourself and get out of your comfort zone. Plan for yourself, what projects you want to accomplish, and implement them step by step every day.

Hello dear, having this awakened consciousness is progress in itself! If you want to change yourself, you have to be self-disciplined and get out of your comfort zone. Plan for yourself, what projects you want to complete, and implement them step by step every day.

What do you think needs to be improved, you can share it with the teacher, and the teacher will help you analyze and analyze

Don't like to use your brain, low self-esteem, no courage, laziness and lack of self-discipline.

Why can't you change yourself if you change your environment?

Well, understand that Mr. Luo Xiang said: The biggest pain of people is not being able to cross the gap between knowing and doing.

What do you mean? Pro, that is, the unity of knowledge and action, and the action to achieve it after knowing.

Self-discipline is the victory over desire, and people are as free as they are.

Why you know that change is not possible.

Self-discipline is anti-human because we often like to do things that are simple and comfortable.

1.You can force yourself to talk skillfully for a while, let yourself form a habit, and once you form a habit, self-discipline will become less painful2If you feel in your heart that it would be better to do it, but it doesn't matter if you don't do it, there is a high probability that it will not be successful3

You must know that an ordinary person, if he can focus on one thing for a long time, he can exceed 80% of people.

How do you dispel the fear of change?

Okay, I'll give you a thumbs up after asking, how can you make up your mind to change yourself.

1.Do what you are good at, dig into the shining points in yourself, so that you will become more and more confident2Exercise your aura, face life with a positive attitude, and let yourself be full of sunshine 3

I encourage myself to learn to sell my own holes, and when I have the idea that I am very bad, find a piece of paper to list the strengths of the family, and tell myself, I can, I am great, and if I don't do a good job, there must be something that needs to be improved.

4.Accept your imperfect self, lower your expectations of others, and affirm yourself. I will disappoint others, and others will disappoint me, which is a part of life 5The fear of the unknown is the self-imposed limit, breaking down these first eye barriers.

Summary. Hello dear, 1Realize the need for change:

First of all, you need to be aware of the need for change and be willing to take action. 2.Set goals:

Set clear goals and create a plan, including specific action steps and a timeline. 3.Seeking support:

Reach out to friends, family, co-workers, or professionals for encouragement and support. 4.Step-by-step implementation plan:

Follow the plan step by step and maintain a positive mindset and willpower.

Hello dear, 1Awareness of the need for change: First of all, you need to be aware of the need for change and be willing to take action.

2.Set goals: Set clear goals and create a plan, including specific action steps and a timeline plan.

3.Seek support: Reach out to friends, family, co-workers, or professionals for encouragement and support.

4.Step-by-step implementation plan: Implement the plan step by step, and maintain a positive travel mentality and willpower.

Accept failures and setbacks, reflect on and adjust plans in a timely manner to achieve the ultimate goal of self-change. Continue to learn and improve yourself, continue to grow and develop, and strive to become a better version of yourself.

Do you want to improve yourself?

Yes, how do you do that?

You can read more books to improve yourself.

How to maintain a positive attitude and willpower.

Correctly recognize your own emotions, pressures and abilities, and correctly view the existence of challenges and difficulties.

Why can't you change yourself if you change your environment?

Can you tell me about the specifics?

Why?

Does changing the environment mean living in a different place?

Oh, yes. Changing yourself doesn't happen overnight, it needs to be gradual.

Are you studying anything now?

Computer. Are you working now?

There are no other skills being learned.