How to live yourself 30, how to live yourself

Yes, you're right, explore or change while you're young. Because exploration requires time capital, and you don't have that capital when you're older.

What you need to do is think carefully about what exactly you want? What you like, what you are good at, what are your strengths, what are your shortcomings, what resources are there and what opportunities you have.

Be as grounded in the status quo as possible, and move towards your ideals from reality. Because radical change means giving up everything you already have and starting from scratch, which is very costly.

With every change, careful consideration must be made to reduce the likelihood of failure in the exploration.

Good luck!

You have to cherish what you have now.

As you said: marry your girlfriend, get married, have children, run around the city, and enjoy the warmth and happiness of home in a hurry.

That's beautiful.

Some people may not have a girlfriend right now and then try to find it, and you have it now.

I feel like you can follow your dreams with your girlfriend and do crazy things to reflect your youth.

Don't let your girlfriend wait for you in order to pursue your dreams, it's not good.

Hope you go well, plan well.

Wouldn't it be nice to go through something with the most important people in your life and let them know how much you love them and experience what others don't.

It's also living your own life, but in a different way.

Oh, it seems you know what you want in life. That's a good thing.

If you have a dream, you have to be young.

You have to have a strong desire to achieve it, so you have to love what you choose. Love can continue to pay, and the motivation is strong.

Anyway, you have ** to get married and have children, it will be very binding, so it is more cost-effective to get married later. Personally, I plan to get married very late, and I want to have my own life and pursuits first.

1. Discover yourself and redefine yourself Everyone in the world has their own strengths and weaknesses, and has their own value of existence, we often can't find our own strengths and weaknesses and values, and often magnify one side and ignore the other, I think this is what leads some people to succeed and most people are just very mediocre, right? Discovering ourselves, making the most of our strengths, and changing our shortcomings in time is the premise for us to be the best version of ourselves.

2. Don't be too entangled in the pastNo matter who you are, you can't change your past, what you can change is the present, and the present in the future (that is the future), take the past as your own growth record, a place to improve yourself, let yourself forgive past mistakes and past behaviors, and don't be as proud as the past. You have your reasons for them and decide that it makes sense at the time, so instead of using your past mistakes, let yourself learn from their lessons and constantly improve yourself.

3. Don't care too much about what people think of you, some of them may like you, and some will hate you. Either attitude this can't be yourself, when you're constantly wondering, "Do they think I'm funny?" Does she think I look ugly?

Do they think I'm a restless person? Am I good, smart, popular, etc., part of their group of friends? "To be the best version of yourself, you should let go of these issues and only you think about other people's, not them.

Fourth, to maintain honesty, bravery, honesty, bravery, etc. are the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation, but also a bridge between people to build trust, we should have a brave heart, to embrace, face many difficulties, and contend with it, only in this way can we get rid of the sea of suffering, find a happy and happy life.