How can I have her selfishly

I suggest doing something that touches him and is romantic! You can try logging in"Tower of Hearts"Participate in their"True love test", because in participating in this seemingly game"The test of online love"In the process, you can fully prove how deep your love for him and her, and after the test meets the requirements, you can also get a gorgeous prize - "True Love Appraisal Certificate", and you can apply to the Tower of Hearts to mail the certificate directly to the other you love. This novel, romantic and indirect way of confession can not only give your loved one a romantic surprise without showing up, but also prove to him through such a platform how much you have given him her, how deep and true your love for him and her, so that she can see those words you say to him; It is definitely a handful of snot and tears that can move him (my successful experience), and it is an excellent gift for important anniversaries and festivals, and to show love.

Actually, you know that she likes you, and that's easy to do, didn't you say that you are just grateful to the boy who pestered him, but that's not love, so you take advantage of it, you still have a lot of opportunities, I wish you to get her heart as soon as possible!

Strike first to be strong and then suffer, and kill your girlfriend first.

It seems that you are a soft-hearted person, hehe, in fact, why bother? It's hard to change your personality. I don't think you can be selfish, but you can change it if you are a little ruthless...When you don't care what that person thinks, you don't look at him and think about the hurt that person has done to you.

Don't think too much about others when you do things. If you want to be selfish again, and you always have to think about yourself, then there is no way. If you really want to change, you should work on it. To do it.

Selfish? Hehe! You are a very generous person.

Sometimes, you can take anything good to yourself! However, no amount of talk is enough! What kind of person is what kind of person you are!

You, I guess you just want to be selfish and don't have that center! You don't belong to the selfish people! Perhaps, you have given up all your good things to others, you feel uncomfortable, and you want to be selfish!

But, if you think about it, can you? Can you make it?

Alas... Me too! Sometimes, if you are just in a very simple, very simple sentence, a thing will be misunderstood by others!

But that's true of all people. Because they think you're okay! What is ...

But no one wants to! However, in the end, I found that you care about what others don't want to say, what they are afraid to mention! However, I thought about it from a different perspective...

You can do everything without care, just walk on your own feelings, don't think about other people's feelings, completely only think about yourself, in fact, everyone will be selfish again, don't care too much about this problem, otherwise, you will run into a lot of trouble, why make yourself selfish? Perhaps, sometimes you can rely on selfishness to solve the problem of opinion, maybe, you are not malicious, you just want to solve something. If you can, don't think about being selfish.

May Amen bless you. Hehe!

You don't have to learn to be selfish.

Born to be. True magnanimity is something that no one can do, don't you learn anything about selfishness, do you think the world is fun for a person? When you're so selfish that no one is willing to say a word.

You know if selfishness is bad or not.

Selfishness is really bad, and this is not selfishness, it is just a sign of asking for something in return.

Despair is also undesirable, it is like fire.

In fact, everyone is selfish.

Speaking of selfishness, I want to talk about my ideological experience, when I was about to graduate from primary school, I realized that I had a characteristic, which can make me get a lot of benefits, so that I can abandon shame to achieve various purposes to satisfy my desires, relying on this characteristic, my life, academic performance is very good, and there are a group of friends around me who play together, and then I know that this characteristic is called "selfishness" Traditional Chinese education makes me very disgusted with this kind of "selfishness", so I hate myself very much. I even completely denied the way I have lived for more than ten years, I tried my best to get rid of this "selfishness", I advised myself not to worry about others, not to quarrel with others over a little thing I started to change myself late, showing humility everywhere, always wanting others to do something, sometimes silently doing something for others, and not asking others to thank me, I really did it, I think I am now an upright person, I can be respected and loved by others But what is the result? Not only did I not win the recognition of others, but I didn't expect my environment to deteriorate, and I was robbed of white by others everywhere, and I obviously did a lot of things but I didn't get everyone's approval, but many people who were as selfish as I used to have been accepted by the public I don't understand, I think there is something I have done badly, and I should be able to gradually learn in life to change this situation Ten years, I spent ten years thinking about it, but the final answer is that I was wrong. I shouldn't change myself In this materialistic world, who is not selfish, the real selfish masters are very selfless, this is a high-level "selfishness", those who care about the small profits of the rope are low-level "selfish", if you want to live a personal life in this world, you must be a high-level "selfish", if you can't do this, being a low-level "selfish" can also add to your belly, and live a mixed life But don't hover between "selfishness" and "selflessness", often wandering people lose the most

Speaking of selfishness, I would like to talk about my ideological experience, when I was about to graduate from primary school, I realized that I had a characteristic, which could make me get a lot of benefits, so that I could abandon shame to achieve various purposes to satisfy my desires, relying on this characteristic, my life, academic performance are very good, and I also have a group of friends around me who play together, and later I know that this characteristic is called "selfishness".

The traditional Chinese education made me very disgusted with this kind of "selfishness", so I also hated myself very much, and even completely denied the way I had lived for more than ten years, I tried my best to get rid of this "selfishness", I advised myself not to worry about others, not to quarrel with others over a trivial matter

I started to change myself late, showing humility everywhere, always wanting others to do something, sometimes silently doing something for others, and not asking others to thank me for anything, I really did it, I think I am an upright person now, I can be respected and loved by others But what is the result?

Not only did I not win the recognition of others, but I didn't expect my environment to deteriorate, and I was robbed of white by others everywhere, and I obviously did a lot of things but I didn't get everyone's approval, but many people who were as selfish as I used to have been accepted by the public I don't understand, I think there is something I have done badly, and I should be able to gradually learn in life to change this situation Ten years, I spent ten years thinking about it, but the final answer is that I was wrong. I shouldn't have changed myself

In this materialistic world, which person is not selfish, the real selfish masters are very selfless, this is a high-level "selfishness", those who care about the small profits of the rope are low-level "selfish", if you want to live a personal life in this world, you must be a high-level "selfish", if you can't do this, being a low-level "selfish" can also add to your belly, and live a mixed life But don't hover between "selfishness" and "selflessness", often wandering people lose the most

You can analyze you and his personality and other aspects more objectively, you are not selfish, you are just not mature, and you don't know how to love someone. Love needs to be given to each other, your boyfriend is very good to you, can take care of you in all aspects, and is a very careful person. He says that you are selfish, but he is just in his perspective and interprets you in his character.

Maybe you're not as careful as him in all aspects, or maybe it's because he takes care of you too well and spoils you. In the future, you must learn to care for him and be considerate of him, so that he can feel your warmth and love for him, so that the two hearts will get closer and closer. Otherwise, he may mistakenly think that you don't love him enough, and maybe it will affect your relationship with each other.

Your language skills are not very good, the words are not concise enough, the logic is not clear enough, and the views are not strong enough.

I'll condense your question: my boyfriend is very good to me, I can only be average to him, he recently complained about me, I'm a little ashamed, what should I do. That's what it means.

What to do? Just do it well, "take the money to work, collect the money and deliver the goods" (which means sincere communication, do not owe the other party, do not take advantage of the other party), he can help if he has any difficulties, and if he can't help as much as he can, he cares more, although this kind of care has no practical effect (just ask a few words), but it can make the man feel comfortable.

To give my own example, at the end of 2010, I started a business with a female middle school classmate (she opened a ** jeans, and I bought two for 1,000 yuan), which can be regarded as a favor to her. Later, half a month later, I invited her to watch a movie, and she agreed. (When I asked her to watch a movie at school, she didn't agree, and she agreed first and then regretted playing me.)

Of course, the whole process of watching a movie is watching a movie, and nothing else. But I felt happy because my request was granted, and I felt valued, not slighted as before. Before leaving, she also sent a text message saying "It's cold outside, wear more", which made me feel warm and happy.

Actually, it's just six words, and it doesn't really mean anything, but I just feel rewarded (man's nature).

So you should do the same, learn to say something nice and care about the other person. Women are not as good at making money as men, so they put more effort into words.

In fact, you can talk in such detail about the bits and pieces of his life to you, as well as his personality, advantages, etc., which proves that you actually have him in your heart. And you also said some of your own shortcomings from the content, but in fact, this does not prove your so-called selfishness. If you are accustomed to being loved by others, you will indulge in this feeling, and over time you will become dependent (what you said in the article) or from one point of view, he is also responsible.

As for his hand being very sore at the time, and you want to make a picture, you chose the latter of the two, maybe you are a little selfish. But that person doesn't have a time of selfishness? Can you blame yourself for this?

As long as you are genuinely good to him, other problems are not a problem.

Sit down and ......Quiet ......Tell me about it.