How do you feel when someone in your life suddenly disappears?

If this person is your relative, he generally does not disappear and disappears without a sound, does this mean that he left this world and went to heaven? If he disappears without any warning, it may be that he has some kind of physical illness and dies suddenly, and in this case, only the mourning will change, because we cannot decide whether a person lives or dies, and our hearts will be very sad, and we hope that he will live well in heaven. If it is a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, there is a disappearance that he refuses to contact you, unwilling to continue to associate with you, such a person is not worthy of your sadness, nor is it worth nostalgia, it is better to disappear, and there is also a way to go to heaven, this situation also depends on the relationship between two people, the early stage is generally very sad, but as time goes by, it will slowly come out of grief.

There is also a third situation that a stranger who has only one side of the relationship disappears without a sound, such a person has no feelings for us, disappears and disappears, and has no feelings!

Colleagues and friends suddenly disappeared, and then could not be contacted, it may be that they went out for a long distance, maybe it was inconvenient to contact for other reasons, and they still felt very lost, if it was the disappearance of the relatives, it would be different, the relatives would not suddenly disappear for no reason, and the disappearance of the relatives would prove that the person would never be seen, and it would be very sad.

It's just a capital confusion, I never thought that this person would leave my world, and suddenly left, leaving without looking back. On the morning of the breakup, he kissed me and said baby I love you, and a few hours before the breakup, you had to hold my hand and walk together. My mind is full of his goodness and sweetness, and when we were together, I was really obedient to me, caring and considerate in every way, and I didn't even say a word to me, let alone quarrel, I have always been hypocritical and picky, and I am really very satisfied.

Suddenly I just left, it felt like a dream, countless times I wanted to turn back time, countless times I regretted guilt, countless times I burst into tears, and then I didn't have a third party, just a stubborn person who was too pessimistic and didn't share it with me across the wall, thinking that breaking up was inevitable.

It's very uncomfortable, it's absolutely uncomfortable, I once had a female girlfriend who didn't say anything, she also told me: the two of us are very suitable, want to be with me or something, it's just that I love my current wife, and I used to be my girlfriend, after I got married, I didn't have much contact, sometimes, my heart will be empty, I will miss some of the past, so there is no pure friendship between the opposite sex, if there is such a person who has nothing to say to you, then you cherish the person in front of you!

Speaking of feelings, it is absolutely uncomfortable. But this is actually a kind of inevitability, and you should be psychologically prepared for this when you get along at the beginning. The journey of life that accompanies you through each section of the road is not necessarily the same, it is a natural choice for someone to leave halfway, let go of the knot, and welcome the next traveler who accompanies you!

I'm just not used to it! I always feel like something is missing in my life.

It makes people frightened and uneasy, full of thoughts, unable to eat and sleep, feeling as if they have lost their souls, worrying about his life and death, comfort and everything.

The world is so big, I can't find anyone when I turn around, I guess I feel very emotional.

This question reminds me of my mother, and that goes back to 1997. Really, I felt like she had just gone far away and just couldn't see her. My heart is numb.

I don't know what I'm going to face, since I was a child, mother and son have depended on each other, and my mother has quietly disappeared in my world. Maybe I was too young at the time to escape something. I lie to myself in the future.

The sudden disappearance of the common people in my life makes me feel the fragility of life.

I will feel that there is a piece of missing in my heart, and I feel empty, and I especially hope that one day she can suddenly appear in front of her again and be able to talk.

It's like losing something, and I always feel like I'm missing something, but after a while, I'm relieved, really, this is also growth.

Even if you are disappointed in your heart, you have to hold back your tears and smile and say that it doesn't matter, the sooner it ends, the sooner you will be relieved, life always becomes stronger after losing some loved ones.

Not long ago, my uncle passed away, and I was very sad at first, and I didn't want to eat anything, but then my parents enlightened me to feel better.

It's like the song Deng Ziqi sang, when a person becomes a mystery, you don't know why they left, and that goodbye was actually his last ......

No one suddenly disappears, everyone only connects with the people they miss.

Occasionally, I feel troubled, why are two people who were once so good, there are no financial disputes, and there is no vulgar plot, why did they start not to contact, unless you take the initiative, there is only each other's ***, why is this? When I swiped this answer on Douyin, it suddenly dawned on me, yes, because he doesn't need you anymore, you should quit, that's all......

Being abandoned is a more difficult thing for people to accept, in order to obscure this fact, we will find different excuses to justify it, maybe people are too busy, whether you are not behaving well, whether you are angry with her, but, to put it simply, you are deleted, you are no longer in his world, that's all.

I am easily moved by the kind of behavior in film and television dramas that only gives up everything for love, friendship, and family affection, and every time I see this, I will feel that this is the most authentic emotion in the human world, and this should be "love", not the weakness of the heart when the silver friend is in difficulty, nor is it the effort to live within my means. But we are destined to be mortals, film and television dramas are also destined to be fairy tales, we are still thinking about paying, calculating returns, because we are not "fools", but those who don't care about paying are fools, I ask myself? I said in my heart that it was not, but I couldn't do it without asking for anything in return, I was a mortal after all.

brushed up to Nankang, who is waiting for you to be 35 years old, admires his courage to run for love, and wants to scold the nuclear mountain banquet to wake up his sinking, but I still wish him to be happy in the next life, and ...... for your pure soul and desperate courage

I don't know what to do, and I complain.

When I was in high school, a friend who had a very good relationship had to transfer schools because of the transfer of my parents' jobs. She couldn't bear to tell me until a few days before she was leaving. I remember myself at that time, I just looked at her stunned, and I didn't want to believe that this was true, because I couldn't imagine that she left me and left me alone, what should I do in the future, I am used to having her in the days, used to her company and care.

The day before leaving, she gave me a photo album full of photos of us together, full of memories. She said that I would be her best friend for life, and I only knew to hold her and cry, aggrieved like a child, and tell her how reluctant I was to her. In the end, she also cried and told me to take good care of myself, study hard, and be admitted to the same university in the future.

In the first week she left, I felt that my life was suddenly empty, eating, studying, and without her presence, I was alone every day, I didn't want to be with others, I didn't want to make new friends, that would make me feel that I had betrayed her. Looking at the book, I will suddenly be in a daze, and I will be sad and want to cry when I think that I haven't seen her for a long time. Every time I pass by a place we have walked together, I stop there and think about her, and wonder if she is doing over there.

In the first month of her absence, I slowly began to adjust to life without her, I began to study alone, eat alone, go back to the dormitory alone, think about her alone, and occasionally chat with my classmates. But I still think of her often, thinking about how anxious she is every time I get sick, how I comfort me every time I am sad, and thinking about everything about her.

Half a year after she left, I had already made new friends, started playing with them, and started eating and attending classes with them. But I still think about her, and when I think about her, I will turn over the album, think about the time we used to, and think about how we can be admitted to the same university and meet again.

Looking back on that experience now, my heart still aches faintly.

I've had a serious liking of someone, but they don't seem to like me that much. When I fell in love with him, he disappeared, and before we even had time to start, it was already coming to an end.

When he left, he didn't give me any warning, he just disappeared silently, I don't know why he left me, I just know that I was sad, I care about him.

In the first few days, I was still the same as normal life, but I was a little flustered and uneasy, but I didn't think he would really leave me, I naively thought that he would contact me in a few days, but I waited and waited, waited, waited, and waited, and after a few weeks, he didn't contact me, and the messages I sent in the past were like ...... sinking into the sea

When I suddenly realized, he was really gone, and he wouldn't be in my world. At that moment, I broke down, I couldn't hold back anymore, and I cried a lot. It was the first time I'd liked someone!

When I started to try to accept the fact that he was gone, I realized that I couldn't forget him, I missed him so much, I wanted to go to him, but I didn't know he was a**. I know I'm useless, he treats me like this and I like him, but I try hard to forget, but I can't forget this person.

When my pain could not be alleviated, I thought of using alcohol to numb myself and make myself forget about him. When I was drunk, I did forget, but when I woke up, I was even more miserable. I've only had one drink, and the only time, I've become a tragedy.

Because, when I was drunk, I accidentally fell down the stairs and for a long time, I couldn't walk. Alas, I like to be alone, like this, and I'm really sad.

During that time, my weight also plummeted, and I had no appetite for food. Later, I slowly figured out that if it's not my own, it's useless to like it, because it's not my own.

It's been a long time, life has returned to the way it was before, and I don't miss him that much. However, I still think of him from time to time.

At the moment, looking back at this question, I feel so stupid. Now if you want to tell this story, it's really a joke.

Loss and anticipation torment me

It is easy for a person to come to another person's world, but it is easier to leave Whoever cares more will have to bear all the pain and desolation

He broke into my world one summer in my high school and probably noticed me very early, so much so that there were all sorts of coincidences and encounters. Let me naively think that there is really a destined fate between us All kinds of sugar-coated shells bombarded me wildly, and after all, I couldn't hold my ground and threw myself into his arms.

People who have been in love should be able to understand that once a person enters his own world, is his mind full of him. I feel that everything has to be implicated and entangled with him, so that I can have that happy sense of belonging and ownership.

It's not long ago, it seems like it's only a year, and I can't receive his message during the winter vacation that year, and I can't receive his **. My mind started to wonder if something was wrong. Is it that I don't do well and he's unhappy?

Was puppy love discovered??? In the end, I found out that I really thought too much, and he was tight because he didn't want to be with me anymore, why? I still don't know.

When we came to school, I started to look for him frantically, and seemed to avoid me, and I started writing to him asking why? He still didn't respond to me, and finally only gave me a sentence of "I don't want to fall in love anymore", hehe, although I like you, but I love my dignity more. I left without further ado.

After leaving, I was still looking forward to his return and apology, but I didn't wait. In those days, I was tormented between anticipation and loss. But wherever there is him, I will not go again, and when I see him, I turn a blind eye.

But he always secretly weeps at night, do you know the feeling of tugging in your heart? That may be the sadness and reluctance when you lose your emotional dependence

There are always people in life who come and go, no one is anyone's shackles and dependents, love yourself well, don't let others occupy all of you, what if you leave you???

1, it may be that the person has something very important, so he or she temporarily disappeared to solve the problem 2, that person may not have a good relationship as you think, he (she) does not want to contact you 3, that person is lazy.

4. The person left for some reason.

5. If he is your lover ... That is to say. There are many situations where he may have changed his mind, you better find him yourself and ask him clearly, this is the best, if you really can't find him again, then believe in fate and fate.

Hope it helps.

I probably forgot that the competition is so fierce now, so I guess I'm busy with work.

It's a very uncomfortable experience. To use a bad analogy, it's like if you have a puppy that you've had for a long time, and all of a sudden you get lost, and you want to think about it, but you can't find any clues to look for it, and you don't pay attention to it, and you look around and you can't find it. You'll miss it for a long, long time, but over time, you'll have other pets or you won't have pets anymore.

I have a person I like like like this, I didn't cherish the time together, I didn't get along very happily, and as time went by, I slowly graduated, and I never saw each other again, and I didn't even have the opportunity to write love letters again, and there was no one who would make you feel at ease when you saw it, and no one would make you feel so excited again. No matter how many other girls she likes, she doesn't dare to let go of her posture and chase boldly, for fear that one day she will have the opportunity to see her again, and then there will be a chance to say "I like you" to her in person. I don't want to miss even the slightest opportunity, but just think about it, there will be no more opportunities, and even if we meet on the road in the future, we will pass by like strangers, and there will be no more words.

After all, I have been away for too long, and I don't have the courage I had back then.

So sometimes I'm still very lucky, at the stupidest age of seventeen, I fell in love with someone who wanted to chase my life, even if I left, then I left, the road is still long, there are more opportunities, but when I think of her, I will still be sad, even if there is still a trace of luck, but when I think of her, the sadness is always much more than luck.