When you express yourself, how can you not let others feel like you are showing off?

You should also express yourself in moderation and give others the opportunity to express yourself.

Of course, you have to be outstanding when you need to perform, why do you need to perform if you are not outstanding?

There's nothing wrong with being good at expressing yourself, the key is that you have to have the capital to show off.

The most important thing is not to use other people's examples or piggyback on others to highlight yourself.

I think it's better to keep a low profile in normal times, after all, there is a sky outside the sky, and there are people outside the world. But you can't keep a low profile all the time, and the current society depends on when you show your strengths. In front of work and leadership, you can give full play to your advantages, so that the leader can know your ability, so that the leader can arrange a suitable position for you.

But it's better to keep a low profile in front of normal colleagues, if a person plays his own strengths in order to show off or belittle his colleagues in front of others, this method is absolutely not advisable.

The difference between a drama and a successful person. You see, Brother Ma has never put how much money he makes, how much he graduated from, and how much ability he has on the surface. You are gold, and it naturally shines.

You don't have to show off, you can do it if you have the ability. As for the gossip, the people who are jealous of you, you don't care what they do.

Do things perfectly. Seamless. Then they won't feel like you're showing off, you're really capable. Hide the utensils in your body and move when the time comes. Unassuming, humble and low-key, can also be.

In fact, for many people, they are unwilling or even afraid to let themselves be so dazzling, one is some restrictive beliefs that they have received since childhood, such as shooting the first bird, etc., and the other is not confident in themselves, thinking that they are not worthy and not good enough. For this situation, you need to find and break the Trojan in your head. I have a visitor, she herself is very good, talented but unaware, she will never stand out in the crowd, and later learned that she was bullied by her friends because of the first place in the general exam when she was in elementary school, and was warned that she could not take the first exam in the future.

In fact, if you "behave" yourself appropriately, not only will you not be envied, but you will be respected by others and bless you.

To let others notice, which means to move the gaze from others (as is the case with the self that does not show), that is, to compete? Do you still want to be harmonious? Two more compliments on you?

We'll all act with you as supporting roles. If you compete with others, you must have the consciousness of fighting, and if you get cheap and sell well, isn't that a lack of cleanup?

If you ask this, it means that you don't want to show off to people, but this is not something you can decide, many times the speaker has no intention of listening to the listener's intention, and if you want to put an end to it, you just don't show it. Be yourself and don't overthink it.

As long as you don't have the consciousness of showing off, it's okay, if others really feel that you are showing off, then there are only two reasons, one is that you are really showing off, and the second is that the other party is jealous, just like a scholar, sometimes just mentioning your grades will be regarded as showing off. This phenomenon is normal and pitiful. In short, as long as you grasp your own heart and don't show off, after all, you can't control other people's hearts.

Of course, your own advantages and specialties must be shown, so that you can better position yourself in life! Of course, it's not the same to show off, and you can't say that you are not low-key when you show it too! ‍‍