Why do adults always like to compare us children with adults!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

There is a reason for this, the old man always compares the child with the adult Just like the adult always loves to compare his child with other people's children, this is consistent in the heart, the old man also compares the child 1, let the child be self-motivated, grow up like whoever is who, 2, the appearance is compared, for example, this child is really similar to his father when he was a child, this is to praise the child when he grows up and is as good as his father, 3 personality comparison, for example, your father was as naughty as you when he was a child, this is the old man is very doting on children,。。 In fact, the older generation like them has lived all their lives, they haven't seen anything, their lives are bumpy, they are old, and they are okay to go out and walk around to relieve the loneliness in their hearts, thinking back on the experience of this life, knowing that the days left are getting fewer and fewer, having a son is like having a grandson, and having a grandson wants a great-grandson, and they are happy that the family is scattered, such as some old people, his son is not filial, and his grandson is not filial, they are really lonely, and the lonely heart rarely speaks, But no matter what, it's still good for children. The old man compares the child with the adult, that is because the old man really likes the child, if it is because of this little thing and the old man can be naughty, but if you are angry, you can say that it is really not worth it, we children should understand the old man, can not take the old man's love, mistaken for .........

Because we are younger than them, but don't you treat people younger than you as children?

Everyone has a child, and when they grow up, many people treat their children the same way their parents treated them when they were children, and some people are determined not to treat their children in that way. But no matter what we say, basically our parents love us. As for those grievances in the heart, almost every child will have them.

If it's something like this (what you said above), we don't have to worry too much, I've actually been said many times (I'm four years older than you, and my grades are okay), it's better to work hard below, study hard, improve your grades, and prove to them: I'm not in a "salt bag"! I'm studying hard!

You misunderstood me (if your grades aren't very good, you're going to get good grades; If your grades are good, you have to be better and try to be the first! ）。Since you can't change others, you can change yourself, and this method is not very wronged by yourself.

And then there's talking to them when they're in a good mood.

Don't be sad!

Adults can be vain sometimes, even if they're wrong! Chinese parents will not apologize to their children! They will teach their children a good lesson in order to maintain the so-called dignity of parents! And they all say that we are also for your good!

Don't take it personally!

I think as long as it's within the scope of morality and law, the focus is within the scope of morality! Nothing! Be yourself! Be a successful version of yourself!

Man! They all have mouths! What did you tell him not to say?

Let them say it! Don't take away their rights!

Haha, everyone comes over like this, it's impossible for everyone to kill themselves, right? If they all committed suicide, then the world's population would not be so large now. That's the first point.

The second point is that you should also reflect on yourself, whether there are still unsatisfactory things in learning and disappointing your parents, if you pay attention to correction, study hard, and live a sunny life, such things will appear less.

I hope you are stronger, as strong as each of us!

It's normal to have this kind of mentality, adults also think they are right, children feel that they are right, everyone will experience this when they grow up, I used to quarrel with my parents a lot, but now when I grow up, I find how naïve my former self was, so, try to be more considerate of your parents, and when you grow up and regret it, they are already old.

Because they're so old that they don't remember how they felt when they watched The Little Prince? .The children I learn from childhood and adults should develop a good habit of good communication from an early age, especially when they are very young, parents.

The last time our family and my classmates went on a trip and came back, my dad kept saying that my classmates were white and good-looking, saying that I was black, my classmates' grades ranked in the top ten of the class, and I counted down in the whole grade in this exam except for those who didn't read (because I didn't adapt to the exam room, I was too nervous and made mistakes, more than 100 points lower than usual) and other messy things, I said I would, she wouldn't, and then my dad said I wouldn't know anything. My classmate hasn't cut her nails for half a year, and I often bleed when I accidentally scratch it, she hasn't been in the kitchen to cook since she was a child, she asked her mother-in-law to cook, and she asked her mother-in-law to do everything, I didn't see that she had any filial piety, my dad also said that he rubbed her dad's shoulder, but my dad couldn't understand their dialect and she was asking her dad for money.

Come, I'll teach you, you criticize them like this, say that there are some things you can know by looking in the mirror, and then compare them with others, and see if they hurt their self-esteem.

You have to hold on, it will stop one day.

Live and you will see the most beautiful blue sky.

Even if you don't study well or do anything, you must live and don't think about dying every day!

In fact, you are the best, but others have not found your shining point, only you have the final say on what you want to do in the future, even if it is a profession that your parents do not agree with, don't listen to them, your own ideas are the most important