Talk about why you think a guy doesn t like a girl who actively pursues him?

It's not that a boy doesn't like a girl who doesn't take the initiative to pursue him, but he looks down on him from the bottom of his bones. Nowadays, girls pursue too much material enjoyment, they worship the supremacy of money, they are more and more demanding of boys, not only need boys to have a rich economic foundation, but also require you to have a long diploma handsome, if you meet a boy she likes she will take the initiative to attack. Girls are naturally more reserved and reserved, and she will take the initiative when she meets a boy she likes and likes, but in the eyes of boys, she thinks that this kind of girl is flamboyant and casual, and a girl's too initiative will make him think that you have no quality and no education.

It's not that boys don't like to take the initiative to pursue girls, but they don't like this kind of character from the bottom of their hearts, which is what all boys think.

There are many reasons why a guy doesn't like a girl who actively pursues him. Boys may feel pressured by girls who are actively pursued. In traditional social perceptions, men are usually expected to play the role of suitors, while women are expected to play the role of pursuers.

Therefore, when a girl takes the initiative to pursue a guy, the guy may feel confused and overwhelmed.

Guys may think they're not emotionally prepared enough. Many boys are more conservative when it comes to relationship problems, and they want to have enough time to think and prepare for their emotional investment. When girls take the initiative to pursue them, they may feel that they come too suddenly to adapt to this fast-paced development.

Guys may also worry that the girls they are pursuing are just motivated by impulse or curiosity and don't really like them. They are afraid of being hurt or rejected after being emotionally engaged. Therefore, they are more inclined to wait for girls to take the initiative to express their interest and liking to them.

Societal expectations of male roles are also a factor. Traditionally, men are expected to play a strong, dominant role, while women are expected to play a weak, passive role. Boys may think that if girls pursue them too aggressively, they will undermine this traditional notion and make them feel upset and confused.

Boys may also worry about hurting their self-esteem. In social relationships, men usually feel honored and proud, and when girls take the initiative to pursue them, they may feel shameless or humiliated. As a result, they prefer to maintain their traditional suitor role in order to protect their self-esteem.

There are many reasons why boys don't like girls who actively pursue them. Whether it is the pressure of social concepts, lack of emotional preparation, fear of being hurt, etc., it may affect the attitude of boys towards girls' active pursuits. Therefore, it is very important to understand and respect the feelings and needs of the other person when pursuing love and building relationships.

A healthy, stable, and balanced relationship can only be built if both partners can express their feelings and wishes equally.

I think the main reason why many boys don't like to take the initiative to pursue their girls is because what they can't get is good. Not only boys, but many of us actually have a similar mentality, and the thing we can't get is always the best. Many boys also think the same way about the girls who pursue him, and the girls take the initiative to give him a hug always makes him feel that this girl is very easy.

On the contrary, the girls who he took a lot of effort to catch up, he usually cherishes them more. Everyone cherishes hard-won things more, and the same is true for feelings. In fact, I think many people usually have this kind of mentality, but whether it is a girl who actively pursues herself, or a girl who she finally pursues, as long as you like each other, you should cherish this relationship.

Man is a strange animal, and the more he can't get it, the more he has to pursue it, even if it's very hard. And for those feelings that can be easily obtained, they often don't know how to cherish them. Many girls who take the initiative to pursue boys are generally not taken seriously by boys, and such feelings generally have no good results, so that girls can only eat coptis and swallow bitterness in their stomachs.

Therefore, some smart girls often do not behave very positively even if they like a boy very much, but will give boys a chance to pursue themselves, so that boys can satisfy their desire to pursue.

We have some traditional ideas that have been passed down from generation to generation, such as girls should have a subtle beauty, and it is better to be more beautiful and quiet than a lady, so that such a girl can marry and teach children after marriage in the future, and is suitable for life. On the contrary, a spicy and extroverted girl is not easy to manage, so the boy is usually educated by his parents and commented by the people around him, and he also has such ideological concerns, and he doesn't like the girl who takes the initiative to pursue him.

Because now boys think that girls are very difficult to chase, and boys also think that girls are very money-worshipping. Boys feel that marriage is very far away, so they will not take the initiative to pursue girls.

If you can't get it, you love it more, and if it's too easy to come, you ignore it.

Some girls will take the initiative to pursue boys they don't like, which is actually incredible, but from the perspective of girls, it may be that there are no high-quality candidates around them, and there are no boys they like, but they want to get rid of the situation of being single, so that they will take the initiative to pursue people they don't like.

In their consciousness, feelings can be cultivated, when a boy who doesn't like becomes their boyfriend, two people may gradually develop different feelings in the process of getting along slowly. This is an opportunity and possibility to get rid of singles, and it is also the status quo that many girls will have, after all, it is very difficult to meet a person you like in this world, and the probability of this is extremely small.

Of course, I don't approve of this kind of behavior, after all, this is very irresponsible to yourself and others, the pursuit of a person you don't like, if the other party slowly likes you in the process, but you don't have any change in behavior, still don't like him, then the final hurt is the other party, people are equivalent to suffering an unwarranted disaster, after all, the beginning is decided by you, and the end has you to grasp the initiative, which is very important to him. It's not fair, we should have the initiative in love, but we must be sure that we like each other before we can take the initiative to pursue. Love also has a moral bottom line, and everyone must have a bottom line to find the other half.

But life is like this, and many rules and regulations can't restrain other people's thoughts. Everyone understands that love needs love, but there are always people who think that love is just a process, an experience, so they are not willing to put all their energy into finding love. In the end, they want to have such a journey, so they don't think about the feelings of others, and blindly stand in their own perspective.

Such selfish behavior, I don't think it should be done, when everyone is looking for love, we must consider it from our own likes, so that we can have the sweetness of love.

It may be that the other party is very good to him, or he wants to pursue some novelty, or he feels that the other party has a good character and character, or it may be that the other party has good family conditions.

This may be because the girl finds that the boy has a shining point, or thinks that the other person has potential, so she does this.

It may be because these girls are just looking for a sense of security and not to feel lonely, so they choose to be reluctantly together.

Now the reason why some boys are reluctant to take the initiative to pursue girls is because there is too much pressure in life, and there are many things that can replace love, in addition, because they have not met someone worthy of their hearts, or they don't like girls so much, and they will not accommodate each other.

First, under normal circumstances, girls are relatively passive, even if they have a good impression of the boy, they will not make some active behaviors, at most they will give each other hints, but many boys will not think like this, they will judge based on their own situation, and some boys throw an olive branch to the girl because they don't want to fall in love yet.

, selective neglect, and some boys think that they have no conditions to fall in love, so they choose to treat it coldly, and do not give girls a reply, so that girls know the difficulties and retreat, this is because some boys think more far-reaching, thinking that falling in love needs an economic foundation.

If you don't have an economic foundation, don't easily provoke the other party.

Second, there are a lot of interesting things in real life, such as being able to play games with friends, so that you don't have to spend your energy on pursuing girls. There are also boys who will experience love in movies and television by watching movies. But it's different in real life, because love in real life is not as deep as love in film and television works, many girls like to chase romance movies, but there are also many boys who like to watch it, and because they watch too much, the concept of mate selection has become extremely harsh, when getting along with girls, they will subconsciously regard themselves as the male protagonist, waiting for the female protagonist to take the initiative to pursue themselves, to put it bluntly, they are deeply influenced by film and television dramas and cannot extricate themselves.

Third, some boys have never met a girl they like, so when he gets along with a girl, he will show it intuitively and will not take the initiative to pursue a girl. But if the girl takes the initiative or keeps in touch with the boy often and deepens the understanding of each other, the boy's state will change over time, and he will slowly take the initiative.

Because most boys are shy and lack the courage to confess, most boys nowadays are reluctant to take the initiative to chase the girls they like.

Boys' economic conditions are not good, work pressure is high, there are games, and girls are prone to tantrums, and girls are difficult to coax, these are the reasons why boys don't chase girls.

Because there are so many girls now, boys think girls are very vexatious, so they don't want to chase girls.

I am relatively timid, introverted, don't love this girl enough, have low self-esteem, and have no confidence in myself, so I won't take the initiative to pursue girls.

It is possible that boys have low self-esteem and feel that they dare not pursue girls, and they are afraid that after pursuing girls, girls will not agree to themselves, and they will be very embarrassed, and they may not even be able to do it with ordinary friends, or they feel that they can't give girls what they want, so they dare not pursue.

There are reasons such as fear of rejection, low self-esteem, feeling unworthy of the other party, being emotionally hurt, and being afraid that the girl you like will have a boyfriend and that the other party is too good.

As the saying goes, men should get married, and women should get married, and for the vast majority of people, when they reach a certain age, they will find a partner, fall in love, and get married. ......But there will also be some people who have very good conditions of their own, but they don't fall in love. The practices of these people are puzzling to many.

The reason why this situation occurs is that some people are very demanding because of their own good conditions and can't find a partner, some people like to be single and don't want to fall in love at all, and good or bad personal conditions are not the decisive factors in falling in love.

1. Some people have very good conditions, so they have very high requirements for finding a partner, and as a result, they can't find a partner.

According to most people's understanding, good personal conditions should be conducive to falling in love. But for some people, it affects their ability to find a partner. ......The reason why this situation occurs is because these people have high requirements for their love partners because their conditions are very good, and the result is that there are too few qualified people, and they can't find a suitable partner, so they have been unable to fall in love.

2. Some people like the state of single life and don't want to fall in love at all.

For others, although their own conditions are ideal, they very much like to live in a single state. ......As a result, these people don't want to fall in love at all, they just want to live a single life that they like. ......Although these people have good personal conditions, they still won't fall in love.

3. Good or bad personal conditions are not the decisive factor in falling in love.

Fundamentally, whether or not a person falls in love is related to personal conditions, but this is not the decisive factor. It's not that people with good personal conditions will definitely fall in love, and it's not that people with poor personal conditions can't fall in love. ......In fact, there are many people who have good personal conditions but do not fall in love, and there are many cases where people with poor personal conditions successfully fall in love.

The fundamental reason for this is not what personal conditions are, but whether you are willing to fall in love, and whether you can fall in love in the right way. This is the key to whether a person falls in love or not, and whether he can successfully fall in love.

Girls are mostly emotionally passive.

I think there are several reasons why girls don't take the initiative

- Self-esteem generated by inferiority complex