What do the classmates who don t talk mean?

In fact, most of the students in the current classmate group do not speak, only children will be keen to speak in the group, and most people will not speak in the group. Especially those who used to be classmates, very few of them can speak in it. Most people now have their own lives, or busy, or have their own lives, not to mention that everyone is often together often has nothing to say, talk about the previous life, that is a topic that has been said a long time ago, again it is very embarrassing, say that the current life is a lot of new things, such as new friends, new teachers, new class groups.

At first, there were people involved in such a topic, but in the later years, because there was nothing else to say after the start of the new life, the topic gradually became cold.

So those of us who have grown up will not speak in the group of classmates.

And those children, those children who are chatting hotly in the group of classmates, probably not because they don't want to participate in the topic of the class, but they simply don't like to chat with QQ software. And now more and more teachers are joining the group, and under the supervision of various teachers, the children's communication is becoming more and more hindered.

I think that those students who don't talk in the class group now should not want to talk, but just have nothing to say, many people don't have too many topics with others, and they have different ideas or opinions on those topics that others talk about, for example, it is very likely that poor students and good students in the class group can't talk, because they have completely different views on teachers and subjects. Boys and girls can't talk to each other, because boys and girls have different preferences, at least that's how ...... in our classBut my sister's class doesn't seem to have such a big gap, and the boys and girls all talk about the glory of the king ......

So those classmates are not actually reluctant to chat, but they simply don't have a common language with others.

Not speaking in the group of classmates is nothing more than the following situations.

First, the stars hold the moon and seal their mouths. If everyone in the student group only sings praises and admires a few outstanding students, some students feel a lot of pressure and it is difficult to join in the fun.

Second, respect each other is like a guest seal. Good morning, good afternoon, good afternoon, good evening, good holidays... The politeness of this kind of communication without any substance makes some students feel ethereal, and it is better not to say it, not to say it.

It's the same as not saying it, so I just didn't say a word.

Three, shut up every day. Some students are really busy and don't have time to pay attention to what their classmates say in the group. They also can't remember to go to the group of classmates to see what people are talking about and exchanging topics.

Fourth, flirting and scolding. The group of classmates, as the name suggests, are all peers who used to go to school and play together, at that time they were carefree, everyone felt that their youth was boundless, and they laughed and scolded without weight. But the years are ruthless, the once green years are gone, and the chat mode of some of the more active classmates or the classmates who are often in contact with them has always been the rhythm of that school era, which makes some students who have experienced it feel very uncomfortable.

After all, it's not a carefree time to study, and in the hesitation of not knowing how to deal with it, I have become silent.

Fifth, the listener intentionally gags his mouth. Some people have traveled, eaten, shopped, met new things... are accustomed to sunbathing.

This makes students who don't have time to travel, students who don't have time to dinner, students who don't have time to shop, and students who don't have the opportunity to meet novelties feel ashamed of themselves, and it's hard to say whether this is a comparison. Then I had to stay silent.

The first is because the classmates are busy with their studies and rarely have time to surf the Internet, and the second is that the classmates have graduated, and they are all running around and busy, with different life plans, and there are no common topics to talk about, so they rarely chat. There are also many students who may not develop satisfactorily, and they are embarrassed to appear in the group, and slowly the group will fall silent. In fact, the friendship between classmates is very simple, you can communicate with each other when you encounter any problems, and students will do their best to help.

The classmates talk a lot when they are in class together, graduate, go their separate ways, contact each other in different circles, each has a new life, a new job, a new friend, and slowly play with new friends, and the classmates slowly have no common topics, and no one speaks.

I used to be with my classmates every day, just so many people, but now I have entered the society, and the friends I have made have changed, and I have more new friends, no longer the small circle I used to be, and the topics are different, and I can't talk together.

They are all people of a certain age, and some may be married and have children, in order to avoid unnecessary troubles and cause misunderstandings among family members, they can't be ridiculed in the group as before, joking, etc.

Students who are really close to them generally chat privately and don't talk about some things in the group.

When I first started my career, although my former classmates were all going their separate ways, I would often confide in each other in the group of classmates about the current situation, or share my work and interesting things in the workplace.

But slowly, not only did the class reunion not get together, but there were fewer people talking in the group.

There are times in the workplace when you recognize the true face of other colleagues, and at this time, you will always remember the friendship that you didn't have interests in college, but you find that you are not in touch with many people, why?

1.The circle is different, and the topic is different.

Although everyone's starting point is the same, after working hard for a period of time, everyone has a different development process, so some people have an annual salary of hundreds of thousands, and some people have a monthly salary that barely solves the problem of food and clothing, and everyone has a different salary in terms of salary income.

In addition, due to the different directions of career choices, everyone has a different social status, so it is difficult for everyone to fit together.

Everyone has a new circle, so there are not as many intersections as there used to be in the circle of old classmates.

finally gathered for a class reunion, and the theme became showing off and comparing.

Last time I went to a class reunion, I remembered that when I was in college, everyone complained about the teacher and complained about the school's air conditioning, and I didn't see them for many years, but I listened to how good they were, and how many connections they could show us, which was really boring.

2.Contact feelings are generally based on private chats.

In fact, this is very realistic, because in the past, everyone could talk in a group, but then they gradually had their own small circle, just like when I was in college, although I was popular, there were four or five people who were the best relationship, and the others were just maintaining face.

After I get to the workplace, I will still keep in touch with these people, and other people generally don't interact with each other, so a group is divided into several small groups, and I believe that everyone will be like me, and now there are only a few people who can get together.

Because everyone is busy, they are busy with their own business, and because they don't live in one place, they don't have much intersection and common language, and they don't know what to say.

Because after graduation, everyone has their own lives, and as time goes by, everyone is changing, and the relationship is not as good as it was when they were in school.

Maybe it's because they're no longer together and there's nothing to talk about, so there's less and less people in the group to talk to.

Why is there no one talking in the group of classmates? These reasons are both realistic and helpless!

Maybe for him, the group is just for receiving important information, and it doesn't matter if he doesn't want to talk.

Just let it be. Probably really busy. Not everyone has a lot of time to chat. That alone doesn't mean much

What is the specific situation, what do you think, tell the truth, and communicate well. Believe it's not a big deal.

Many times, communication between people is important. It's good to understand each other and understand each other.

You said it yourself, there are a lot of people who pretend to be forced. He sent red envelopes is a typical pretending mentality In addition, did he borrow money and write an IOU? It's okay if you don't make a recording, and now the society talks about evidence.

It's normal, with my own circle, sometimes I'm too lazy to pay attention to it, and I don't have too many topics.

It may be that there is no person or thing of interest. But it is not excluded that I am very busy with work and have no time to take care of the circle of friends. And so on is possible.

Maybe it's because you've been struggling so much lately to talk to someone.

Find the same interests as you, as long as there is a common language and close communication, the relationship will naturally be there!

The group of students is medium for half a day.

Want to talk to someone.

Helplessly, the classmates were busy.

Unaccompanied hate is hard to fill.

Hehe, satisfied.

Every time we meet, we take the initiative to greet each other in a friendly way. If you have a chance to be together for a long time, talk to her, unless someone with a very withdrawn personality will talk to you. Don't be afraid, once raw and twice cooked.

Make up your mind to open your mouth for the first time, and future contact will be easy. Give yourself courage!

Maybe there is no time to manage, when Huai is blind, it is not ruled out that he is indeed very busy, or in a state of diving and watching.

Everyone's situation is different.

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In the classmate group, as long as I speak, what they mean by talking means that in reality, if the two people are not familiar with each other, they may not rashly talk to you or answer the phone. It may also be that what you say is different from the topic that everyone in the group is concerned about. Usually you don't get along well with everyone and don't fit into other people's circles.

In the group of classmates, as long as I speak, they don't come out to talk.

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In the classmate group, as long as I speak, what they talk means is that if the two people are not familiar with each other, it is impossible for them not to talk to you rashly or answer the phone. It may also be that what you say is different from the topic that everyone in the group is concerned about. Usually, you don't get along well with everyone, and you don't fit into other people's circles.

No one pays attention to you when you talk to the group, and I think it's normal for me to be filial piety. If you don't talk often, say a word or two once in a while, no one will really pay attention to you. So if there is no one in the group who can ignore you.

Then you can change it by the following points. First, there is no one in the group to pay attention to you, you take care of others, and communicate with them more.

There could be many reasons for this, and here are some possible explanations:1Lack of common topics or interestsIf you and your classmates don't have much in common or interests, they may find it difficult to find a topic to talk to you about, so they choose to remain silent.

2.Social anxiety or shySome people may feel scared or anxious about socializing, especially when communicating with strangers or people they don't know very well. If your classmates fall into this type, they may be inclined to remain silent rather than communicate with you.

3.Personality is incompatible Everyone has a different personality, and some people may be out of step with your personality and choose to remain silent. It doesn't mean they don't like you, just that they don't feel comfortable communicating with you.

4.There are other reasons that may affect the conversation of students, such as time constraints, personal problems, etc. Whatever the reason, the best way to do this is to speak directly to your classmates and ask them why they are reluctant to talk to you, which may give you a better understanding of how they really feel.

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Why do some people in the group of classmates keep not talking? Here's the answer.

1. Economic reasons: To put it bluntly, it is too rich or too poor. I don't talk because I am financially out of my classmates or much lower than my classmates.

When people are in different classes, it is difficult to communicate, but in fact, people of different classes live in different worlds.

2. Emotional reasons: People who are generally single or divorced, or even have scandals, are reluctant to participate in this kind of chat. They will be the center of public criticism, bringing physical and mental stress. I was embarrassed to quit the group of classmates, so I could only keep silent.

3. Busy work: In the enterprise, you will hold a little leadership position, or the backbone of the business will bear heavy work pressure, and even work overtime until late at night every day, how can you have time to chat there, and it is the most practical to work hard to make money. Don't doubt this, believe me, many people don't chat, don't update the circle of friends because they are busy, and they can't take care of it.

Work and family simply don't have time to take a break. If you go to Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou to work, you will know how much work pressure an enterprise employees face, how crowded the subway is, and what time the office will light up at night.

4. Because of someone: You wonder why one person has been in the group and has not spoken, maybe the other person knows it very well. When two people have a conflict, the group sees one person talking, and the other person will not respond.

When two people have emotional entanglements, or even break up unhappily, they will be strangers when they meet in the future, and they don't want to hear any more news from him, and they don't want to evoke painful memories anymore.

Answer your questions and learn from each other's life experiences.