Should I hold on to this love? Love masters, help me!

Alas, this silly girl, she spoiled you!!

As you yourself said, "I take her kindness to me as a habit" - you feel that all her contributions to you are natural and cost-free, and do not need to be exchanged, which leads to the inequality of your feelings, and you see the occasional normal small complaints as "rebellion" of "the following offense".

She looks good at you as a sign of love for you and gives it all to You, and you don't only don't cherish the appreciation, but you seem to be a little "disgusted" - because you don't put your heart and soul into it, and you also say "I don't think she's the kind of girl I'm looking for", but she doesn't know your feelings and thoughts yet, right?

Thinking of breaking up but can't bear it, reluctant? - What can't you bear? What are you reluctant to do?

I can't bear to tell her, "You're not the girl I want to date?" ”

Can't bear her good? - Then you are too selfish!! It's a bit hateful!!

Since people are not the type you want, you have to find an opportunity to spread out the conversation and tell others about your decision, don't think that you won't hurt her if you don't bring up the breakup, you have hurt her, but she doesn't know it yet.

You can't put it off, it will only make things worse in the end!

So, if you've decided, find an opportunity to tell her what you want, and it's good for both of you.

Well, above, understand?

If you don't love her, leave, don't hinder others from loving her, you are a person who doesn't know how to reciprocate, you must know that there is a reward for paying, you are reluctant just because you want to get a feeling of being cared for, this is not love.

Are you a blind bear breaking a stick?

Can you guarantee that the next one you're looking for will be better than the current one?

Think about it yourself.

Tacit understanding is cultivated little by little in life.

Anything love at first sight is.

If you can't devote yourself to it yet, quit, women should cherish it.

Actually, I don't think he has the same feelings for you anymore, as you can see from your description! Let's break it down for you.

1: "He is a soldier, and we can only see each other once a year due to the particularity of being a soldier, but our relationship has been very good for two years!" "It proves that your relationship is still very good in the past 2 years, and his feelings for you are still there!

2: "But we reconciled after three days, and he told me not to worry!" A confident look.

When he still has feelings for you, he is confident? Why do it? It's that he still has feelings for you, he still loves you, he can persuade his parents, he can overcome all external difficulties to convince!

3: "He was silent when I brought it up this time" Literally, here's the key point! I was confident before, why is it silent now?

"If he had a long interval between confidence and silence!" I'm 80% sure that the way he feels about you has changed significantly! We don't care if the change is caused by the pressure at home or wait, but you have to understand that change is change, and it feels like change!

4: "My relationship with him is getting worse and worse, even if he is deliberately distant" Well, the statement that basically coincides with point 3 proves that he really has no feelings for you. Not much else to explain, you are also an adult, and many things will be understood!

I am a man, you have to understand, love is given by both parties, is it love that is paid unilaterally? You ask, "Do I still maintain this situation?" and you are the only one who maintains it, is it useful? Even if you use a lot of stupid ways to move him, but this is moving!

It's not the feeling of thumping at the beginning! There is a big difference between touching and loving! When he got back together with you, I don't think it's love at all!

Did you know that it went bad?

Give it up! This love is no longer worth your keeping.

Do you know, the relationship between two people is still two people in the final analysis, everything else is external factors, maybe the pressure at home is really great, he is unwilling to bear it, and there is, you have been for a long time, and after a long time, you will question the former you and me, you will question your choice and persistence, really you love him too much, and he doesn't seem to be so firm, in order to exclude other factors and be with you, you can tell him more, I hope he is confident, I hope he can be brave and more determined for happiness, I envy those who fight with everyone for their love, in order to be with the person they love, they can use all kinds of methods, even if they are tired and do not retreat, you have to show your determination first, and then slowly drive him, so that he has the same determination as you, and also, the long-distance relationship itself is difficult to maintain, you have to be mentally prepared, you know him, and his heart will not turn a blind eye to the feelings of so many years, he may think that his approach is for your good, but you tell him, don't push you away again, It is really good for you and responsible for your relationship to let you bear it with him. As you described, he will never refuse you when he sees you, and he will only be ruthless when he doesn't meet, so appear in front of him when necessary, but don't put pressure on him.

The morning sun was so mild that it shone in my eyes, and I shed scoundrel and heartbreaking tears. Sometimes giving up is also a kind of love, because there are always so many scoundrels in this world.

I'm also two years older than my boyfriend, and for some reason both families are against it.

I believe that if you really love each other, all kinds of resistance and pressure can be overcome, of course, the resistance I encounter may not be as great as yours, my advice is to communicate with him, ask him what he thinks, and tell him your determination.

Love is lost to time, distance, money, but hope is not lost to our own cowardice and evasion.

Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them. When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, when he turns your interest into his interest...Or because he loves you. In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you.

I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you. If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover is always the most understanding.

In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back. If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life.

A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and a love that cannot stand the test is not profound. A beautiful love enriches life, and a test of love is perfect...