What makes you feel lost right now?

Now I feel helpless and lost. After graduating from university, he directly entered a large state-owned enterprise after graduation, traveled all year round, and after working for 5 years, because he was going to get married, he resigned and went home to find a new job. I have been working as a technician at the grassroots level for 5 years now, with a salary of about 3,000 per month, and I live a 9-to-5 life.

At present, the company is in a recession, the company is losing money every month, and I don't know how long it can last. Originally, I was a little unwilling to do such a job that was a little too stable and comfortable, and I could see what I looked like on the day of my retirement at a glance. Now there is another business crisis.

I don't know where to go. I should say that he is a more self-motivated young man, he has always been very attentive and serious in his work, never thinking about messing around, and he is doing his best to do his job well. In my spare time, I have also passed the municipal first-class construction engineer exam, and I am currently reviewing for registered geotechnical engineers, but the company is really unable to concentrate in this situation.

In addition, I study while working, and I really don't have the mentality I had when I was a student.

I still remember when I was in college, maybe at some point, I was not so wealthy, because my parents gave me a monthly living allowance, at least my basic life was guaranteed. At this time, I will be more or less cranky, I still remember that there was a very popular word at that time, the beautiful name is depressed, maybe this is confused, I don't know what I want to do, there is no clear goal, life has lost its direction, this is spiritual confusion and helplessness.

When my career isn't going well, I feel helpless. When I start a family, I need to be brave enough to bear the burden of my family, and sometimes I feel helpless. In the face of the elderly who need to be supported and the children who need to be raised, when I see the monthly expenses flowing in a hurry, I am very helpless, and the feeling of not being able to make ends meet will really make people helpless, make people run away, and feel helpless.

I remember many years ago when I left the unit because I was calculated and angry, I had no goal, no future, helpless and confused. At that time, it was not like now, the economy was prosperous, there were many opportunities to choose jobs, and I was in a strange city, I felt that the sky was about to fall, and I didn't know what I would face in the future. Where does the money come from?

Lay on the grass at the entrance of Wen Jindu for two days.

It is difficult for men, although they are confused, they will also feel helpless, in the end, they still need to be brave to face it, people have no foresight, there will be near-term worries. If you look farther, maybe you will be a little less confused and helpless in your heart.

The third year of high school began a rebellious period of life, abandoning his studies, missing time, and abandoning himself. I didn't get into a good university, and I almost ran away from home after the college entrance examination. Watching the people in the same village being admitted to a good university and setting up a banquet, looking at the helpless eyes of their parents, I felt very useless and helpless at that time.

Later, I chose a good junior college major, and it wasn't until the day I received the notice that I suddenly understood something. On the day I went to college, my mother died early, and I got up at 5 o'clock to prepare things for me, and my father took me to the train station in the city for the first time. Seeing my father carrying a big bag and a small bag, I wanted to cry because I didn't get into a good university.

Looking at my father's distant back, it's really sad!

At the age of 24, my father left us forever. I just joined the work, I have not been deeply involved in the world, and there are still a lot of puzzles that I can't solve; There are still a lot of things that I can't do for a while; I was just able to earn money, but my father couldn't accept his son's filial piety. The son wants to raise but does not wait.

Summary. In this materialistic world, we can be easily influenced by our surroundings. Sometimes, the fast-paced life can also make us physically and mentally exhausted, and we want to experience the slow pace of life.

There are even many times when we may have self-doubt and feel lost.

I don't know what I should do in the future, and the future is dark. At this point, you get stuck in a vicious cycle of emotions. The more I think about it, the more anxious I become, the more I think about it. But if you can't solve such a thing, you will be very powerless.

What to do when you feel lost.

We'll be happy to answer for you.

Study hard, lack or not as good as others.

Others are born with good family backgrounds.

In this materialistic world, we can be easily influenced by our surroundings. Sometimes, the fast-paced life can also make us physically and mentally exhausted, and we want to experience the slow pace of life. There are even many times when we may have self-doubt and feel lost.

I don't know what I should do in the future, and the future is dark. At this point, you get stuck in a vicious cycle of emotions. The more I think about it, the more anxious I become, the more I think about it.

But if you can't solve such a thing, you will be very powerless.

No, it won't. Kiss.

How to say, actually, I'll tell you.

Learning is long, and learning doesn't give you overnight ambitions.

However, learning brings you a step-by-step process.

From nothing to something, from something to rich.

What you don't have now, you'll have later.

What we have to do is to create value and create our own future.

Don't choose to give up on yourself because of a short-term loss.

Eat whales] [eat whales] [eat whales].

Everyone has periods of confusion, and that's normal.

Nowadays, there is a lot of pressure in study, work and life, and I am experiencing various reasons such as unsatisfactory grades, difficulty in choosing a job or failure to start a business, which leads to my own extreme depression, loss of confidence in myself, and a manifestation of no goal and no hope.

At this time, the first thing to do is to get out of this small circle of your own thoughts. Start with the surroundings of your own life, and you must not stay at home alone and stupidly find the reason. Get out and about and get in touch with the people around you to make yourself feel better.

Learn more about all aspects of the society, know more about what you are good at, and find a job or thing that matches you or can give full play to your ability to do, so that you not only have enthusiasm but also have room to play.

Confusion is short-lived, and the adjustment of mentality is the most important thing. As long as you face the problem openly, everything is not a problem.

I give you advice, do you think it's okay? 1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you walked in the Qing collapse, others apologized to you Zhenghui, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then wake up in the morning and don't love the bed, wake up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax. 5.

Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale. 6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects.

For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it. 7.

Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water. 8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand.

For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc. 9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy.

Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, but how your life is, I believe it is wonderful. Go for it! Finally, I wish you a happy life.

That's what you do when you're lost.

Everyone will experience the "trough" of life, feel that they have lost the meaning of life, and they are very confused about their future and future. At this time, we adjust our mentality, reflect on our past, and learn from our experiences and lessons. Experience teaches.

Rekindle hopes and dreams for life. Build self-confidence and courage to walk out of the "trough" of life and face the future with confidence.

3. Believe in yourself. Have faith in yourself at all times. In the face of loss, we must believe that we can, come out of the loss and confusion, confidently face our past, look forward to our future, and let ourselves continue to be strong in our hearts.

Bravely move forward towards your dreams.

When you are confused, who do you want to accompany you the most?

I usually stop and think about what I really want.

The most confused moment in my life was probably after graduating from college, when I couldn't find a job, I was very confused about the future, renting an expensive old house in the city center, and I didn't know what I wanted to do. What can be done in the future? Whenever HR asks about career planning, I will be confused.

Will you feel very incompetent, very confused, the future of the road in the end**? The ambitions I once swore were all a joke, and I was really helpless during that time. I feel like I'm almost a waste.

It feels like I'm going to be a waste of wood for the rest of my life, and it's a very uncomfortable feeling.

Then one day I suddenly figured out that confusion would only cause me trouble and make me hesitate. Instead of worrying about my future every day, why don't I stop and think about what kind of advantages do I have? What are the disadvantages?

What exactly do I like? What can I do? What do I want most?

Then after thinking about this, I will make a short-term plan for myself, maybe only for a day or a few days, and do things according to this plan, and if I don't think it will work, I will analyze the reasons and continue in a different way. If that doesn't work, then switch to another channel until you find what you really want.

I usually don't want to talk to a lot of people when I'm very confused, I think it's a bit embarrassing, especially when I tell my family, I'm a little afraid that they will accuse me, so I usually do it myself, but if I'm too anxious, I will choose to go out with my friends for a drink, sing a little song, and vent, I will feel a lot better.

In fact, aren't all young people like this now? It's not terrible to be confused, it's terrible to be defeated by confusion. Only after experiencing confusion can you know more clearly what you want. In the future, I will be able to face life more bravely.

When I feel very lost, I will calm down and think about my future life direction and future life plan. Only by planning a clear goal in this way can you be motivated and not feel lost in life.

When I feel lost, I look for some inspirational books to read and exercise more.

Get out and see more and accumulate some of what others are doing.

When you feel lost, you will write down your goals first, so that you know how far you are from your goals, so when setting goals, you must set up short-term goals and ultimate goals separately, so that you know what kind of person you want to become, or see how expensive things you like. Give yourself the motivation to fight.

Confusion begins with self-awareness and begins to wake up. Awakening makes you try to find yourself, to know yourself. You're looking for help, you're repenting.

On the way to get lost, I am returning to a perceptual heart and a grateful love. You begin to look for consensus, for faith, for friends and friends, for affection and warmth. So you're reflecting, you're sober.

When I feel lost, I will go to my best friend, she understands my heart very well, and is more experienced than me, has always been called a confidant little sister by us, tell her the problems she encounters, 1510, she will give me some advice, every time I will reap full results.

When I was confused, I would hide in a place by myself, not thinking about anything, and not talking to anyone, but then I found out that it was useless at all, and then I chose to talk to my sister about life, and he would always encourage me, and then let me find the direction of my life, no longer confused, and know where I should work hard.