When have you ever felt jealous?

When others achieve better results than me, I will be jealous, I will not be used to seeing others as better than me, and my heart will be full of jealousy for each other, and I think that I am the best and should not surpass me.

In the third year of high school, because our teachers were very biased at that time, they only paid attention to those students with excellent grades, so whether it was asking questions in class or tutoring after class, we would choose those with excellent grades.

In general, jealousy occurs because others are better than themselves, whether it is a better situation or a better living environment. Jealousy that arises out of envy of other people's such things.

When I do the same thing with another classmate and he gets a reward or a compliment and I don't, I get jealous because I think it's unfair.

It may be that when the person you like doesn't like you but likes another girl, then you will always think: why do you like her? What is better about her than me? Why? I'll be jealous of her.

Once I found out that a classmate I grew up with, she was admitted to a university that was several times better than me, because when I was in elementary school and junior high school, I was always better than him, which really made me very difficult to accept and jealous of him.

Sometimes I really can't restrain my jealousy, there are some people who are very beautiful, and then it will be very convenient to do a lot of things, and I will be very jealous, although I know that this should not be.

Since I was a child, my academic performance has always been very good, so I am also relatively proud, I have never been jealous of others, the only person who has ever been jealous is our Chinese teacher and his nephew, because he has unique conditions.

It's that I study hard with my friends, read books in the library, and review overnight. But when she took the exam, she passed the exam, and she was still in the top few, but I didn't pass yet, so I was very unconvinced.

Let's be an optimistic, cheerful and open-minded person. Don't envy others and try to do what you have to do. It's because you can't run, it's not that you can't get mental illness to prevent, and it's easy to get paranoia if you think too much.

Philosophers of the World Law Fifty.

The vulgar can not understand the high state of the age, low-key life in view of the evil, with jealousy, its heart is not hurt by the right, just annoyed by itself, from jealousy to evil thoughts, and troubles, for the way of jealousy is the enemy of self-harm.

Vulgar knowledge cannot reach the realm of advanced theory, that is to say, his thoughts cannot be sublimated to the realm of perfection, and the low-key and vulgar realm often gives birth to evil knowledge and evil opinions, and most of the people with evil knowledge and evil views have jealousy in their hearts, and they are jealous of others and other industries, in fact, this kind of person harms himself, because jealousy is his own enemy and the person in the bird, and the state of mind he produces cannot hurt the other party, because he produces this state of mind and cannot hurt the other party, he becomes more and more troubled. As a result, the troubles hurt oneself, so this kind of self-seeking suffering is caused by jealousy and evil thoughts. For this reason, jealousy belongs to one's own enemy and not to the enemy of others, so we should not be jealous if we understand this truth.

Learn the Dharma of the Third Buddha of Nam Mu Dorje Chang!

Summary. There is no room for envy.

There is no room for envy.

Jealousy can have a negative impact on personal growth and development. It is mainly reflected in the short-sightedness of jealous and fierce sails, and the strength of the branches and hail is narrow; Jealousy can blind people and make mistakes in judgment; Jealousy can also affect relationships and missed opportunities for growth.

In short, we need to face up to jealousy, and we must also learn to overcome it positively. First, we must understand the objective law of "there is a sky outside the sky, and there are people outside the world", and learn to accept the excellence and progress of others. Second, treat yourself as a guest, treat others with dignity, and be both modest and self-defeating.

Everyone is inferior to others, and when others surpass us in some aspects, we can consciously think about what we are better than the other person, so that the psychological balance of our own imbalance will be restored to a balanced state. Third, we must recognize that the essence of success is to surpass oneself, not to overcome others. It is necessary to break the narrow-minded and selfish thinking through continuous progress.

Fourth, we might as well use the strong superconsciousness of jealousy to work hard, sublimate this jealousy, and turn jealousy into the motivation for success.