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Why do men and women have different evaluations of beauty? This question needs to be approached from multiple angles.
First of all, men and women think differently.
Men and women are different in many ways.
Men are more rational, while women are more emotional, so the way they look at things is naturally very different.
When it comes to beauty, men are more interested in the intuitive feeling of the surface, while women may pay more attention to the deeper part of the heart.
Men are more direct, passionate, and unrestrained, while women are more reserved, reserved, and reserved.
Therefore, the evaluation of the same person's beauty by the two will naturally not be the same.
Second, men and women have different priorities.
Because men and women are different in many things, we find that men and women have different priorities in many things.
For example, for appearance, boys may pay more attention to the whole when evaluating it, pay more attention to whether the whole is beautiful, and the beauty is in the **, while the same person asks women to evaluate, and women may pay more attention to the part.
For example, the eyes are very beautiful, ** very white, or other evaluations, because the two have different ways of thinking, so the focus of the two is also different.
Naturally, the answers drawn in this way will not be the same, so it is rare for men and women to evaluate the same person's beauty in the same way.
Finally, men and women have different comprehension abilities.
In addition to the different focuses and ways of thinking, men and women also have different levels of understanding.
Men will be more rational in evaluating a person's beauty, while women will often be more emotional.
There are various differences between men and women, and the reason for this is only because of different thinking patterns, different understanding skills, and different focuses.
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The aesthetics of men and women are different, so the evaluation of appearance will be different, so many people will think that why men and women sometimes have differences in some places is because they already have different ways of seeing things.
Actually, sometimes I really think that some girls are not good-looking, but my boyfriend thinks that girl is good-looking. Because ** may be different for the evaluation criteria in people's own hearts when it comes to their appearance. That's why everyone chooses their boyfriend and girlfriend differently.
Because each person likes different types, it may be based on their own growth, education, and personality. Therefore, as we grow older, we will change the external world. Therefore, we need to respect the views of others when we sometimes have different points of view.
Because, everyone looks at things from a different angle, and what they see is that things are also different. Therefore, it is normal for men and women to differ in appearance.
At the same time, every time I go out shopping with my boyfriend. There are still some differences between us in the way we look at some things. Because maybe because of his family background since childhood, he and I see things differently.
So this has a lot to do with the environment in which I have lived since I was a child. The places where we live are two different places, and he has always lived in a smaller family, so he looks at things in a smaller way. The girl I like is the kind of lady type, and I've always liked lively and cheerful people, probably because of my family education.
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It has something to do with my experience when I was a child, when I was a child, my classmates liked a girl with a round head, and then I always thought that girls with a round head were good-looking.
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It is normal for people to have different preferences and opinions! It's the heart that really counts! Inner beauty!
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This is still the influence of old ideas, and it cannot be changed overnight.
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Or is it the influence of the inferiority of men and women in ancient times.
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The idea of inequality between men and women in feudal tradition is at work!
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Men's understanding of things is more rational, and women's understanding of things is more emotional.
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I give a few possible reasons:
1.Men are strong, women are weak. From weak to strong, a strong woman, no crying, no tears, no pestering, then, although this person is different from other women, but there is a bit of a strange woman's taste.
After all, a woman who tries to become the same as a man with a higher status, trying to open up a world that is not weaker than herself, is difficult and dangerous, and is not afraid of congenital disadvantages, then it is somewhat admirable. However, a manly man. should stand up to the sky, but every day she pretends to be a little woman, evades responsibility, and abandons the pride and dignity of men, which is tolerable, but unbearable!
It's like a carpenter who wants to be a king, so everyone has to praise him for his ambition. But if the king wants to be a carpenter, then he is the king of eternity, and he deserves to be drowned by spit.
2.To put it mildly, it is very unpleasant. Men always have a bit of fun when they look at women.
Girls are masculine, full of swearing, or grinning, which can be classified as a manifestation of straightforwardness. Men themselves are very righteous and straightforward. So when I see a woman with a similar personality to myself, I can't help but feel a little buddy.
The confidante buddy feels very peculiar. Just like if you have a flower cat and look like a cat, it is good, if you learn from you every day, you will not feel annoyed, but feel very cute and different. However, if you learn to be a cat every day and be a pet, then not only will the people around you scold you and disgust you, but if the cat is conscious, it will also be ashamed of you.
3.In the final analysis, our society is still dominated by men. It is also natural for men and women to have different standards for men and women with different social status.
In Europe and the United States, although the feminization of men is a little more unacceptable, the masculinization of women is always eye-catching. However, many European and American women are no worse than men in terms of scolding.
For women, three from four virtues are required. Occasionally, a woman can have the ambition and ability of a man, and she is called a strange woman. For example, the Red Whisk Girl. For men, it is required to stand up to the sky and the earth, and not to be reduced to playthings. These are all remnants of the old ideas of patriarchal societies. Personal opinion only.
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Upstairs was right, but I think he overlooked an important issue. That is: although people despise feminine men from the traditional culture, but in fact there are many people who like them from the bottom of their hearts, and many beautiful and delicate men from ancient times to the present have never been sought after and loved by people (the opposite sex or the same sex), just as they have never been scolded by others, and even many people despise and love them at the same time; Masculine women, women with short hair and strong personalities may be praised by those around them, but there are very few people who really love them, and of course they may not need to be pampered much.
This is also an interesting phenomenon in psychology, that is, superficial contempt and reverence are often contrary to subconscious liking and disgust. As far as the gender reversal of the landlord is concerned, human beings naturally like beautiful and lovely things, regardless of men and women; Human beings are inherently free from hard and strong things, and they have nothing to do with men and women. But society has taught human beings "should" and "shouldn't", and at the same time, this is a patriarchal society where the strong have been supreme for thousands of years, so people will revere masculine women and despise feminine men.
But as I said earlier, all this reverence and disdain is in a socio-cultural sense, and liking and hating are in the sense of natural nature. There is no absolute right or wrong for anyone to become what they are. The feminization of men is essentially a return to the forces of nature, which are compliant, inert, non-attached, and feminine; The virilization of women is essentially a kind of socialized transformation, and social existence is autonomous, hyperactive, persistent, and masculine.
The person himself may not have thought about it so much, but that is the essence of the problem.
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Because in ancient China, there were only ...... male eunuchsMulan ......
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The key is that most men demand happiness while not asking women to have money, and most women are not willing to let men have no looks while pursuing money.
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But the deeper problem is that I have a house, a car, money and power, and all you can give me is beauty, so I am not at a loss.
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Some things can't be said directly, and they don't sound good, but it's okay to do them. Men ask women for beauty, and you see which man asks for it directly.
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Beautiful women can ask men to have money, and some men are willing to pay, and the average woman will be despised for worshipping money, which is a society that looks at faces.
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Men ask for people, women ask for money, and the essence is different.
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Men are tired, women struggle on their own, they can't find a rich man, men struggle hard for the happiness of women, tired.
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You have to have a degree, you don't need to find a wife who is too beautiful, it's almost fine, it's troublesome after being too beautiful, and if you find a husband who is too rich, you will be said to worship money.
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Reasonable! In "All the People Witness", Sun Honglei said that beauty is for consumption.
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Hehe. It must be the ignorance of the man, don't just pursue beauty; Women don't just pursue $$ if you choose between money and the person you like, of course choose the person you like.
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It's really wrong to worship money, of course, if a man wants a woman to be beautiful, you can also spray it, spray it hard. Both of these people have a bad mentality.
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The core values of socialism are deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.
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Men worship money more, and there is no bottom line for defeat.
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Most of the men who go online have no money, and the women who go online are for money.
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said that the inferior nature of men at the bottom is there,
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Women are always used to comparing themselves to women of the same age around them, but men are comparing themselves in all ages, and there is no obvious age limit. Older women, no matter how well maintained, will definitely be inferior to younger girls.
1. Women compare their appearance with women of the same age.
Men and women have different evaluations of beauty, and the difference lies in their different frame of referenceThat is, 60 points for men and women are not the same thing.
As for women, they are always used to comparing themselves to women of the same age around them. For example, 20+ is compared to 20+, and 30+ is compared to 30+.
2. Men compare women's appearance among women of all ages.
Men, relatively speaking, are not so keen on beauty, they value their wealth more, and whether they are handsome or not is just the icing on the cake. But men care a lot about women's beauty, and they compare them among the women they have access to, and there is no obvious age limit. That is, they often compare 20+ women to +.
If a man is 30 years old and he is looking for a partner, then his choice is between 20-33 years old women. At this time, there was a 30-year-old woman who thought she was 70 points, so she was full of confidence. But in the end, the man thought that she only had 58 points, and the passing line was not reached.
This is because the female is in the 30-35 age group, while the male is in the 20-33 age group.
Some people have also made statistics on this, and there is a big difference between a man's evaluation of a woman's appearance and a woman's evaluation of her own appearance, and this difference is a relatively stable value from a statistical point of view.
Suppose a woman's appearance is evaluated on a 100-point scale, if a man rates her as 50 points, then she usually thinks that she has a score of 65-70 points for her appearance. The difference is between 15 and 20. I've seen a lot of women come to the conclusion that their ** is above average, and men generally think that she can reach average at most.
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It shouldn't be the same, men should have masculine beauty and women should have feminine beauty. This can't be reversed, otherwise men and women will not be men.
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Whether it is a man or a woman, the evaluation of beauty should be different, most men should like women to be gentle and considerate, and they will not like female men, women like the masculinity of men, and everyone's aesthetics are not the same.
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This is normal, on the contrary, women's evaluation of men's handsomeness is also different, mainly the difference between each person's aesthetics and the sense of temperament exuded by another person, this sense can be seen as intuition, and it can also be seen as a different kind of hormone secretion by the cerebral cortex and pituitary gland on people's sensory nerves.
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Men's evaluation of beautiful things is different, because the thoughts are different, that is, the perception of beauty between men and men is also different.
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I think everyone's aesthetics are different, not only male and female, everyone is different, and there is no reason for this, it just depends on personal preferences.
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Both men and women have different evaluations of beauty, men evaluate women, and women evaluate men differently.
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Men are associations of appearance, and they are so coveted about women's beauty and are particularly sensitive. Women don't care so much about men's appearance, as long as they are tall, and they don't pay too much attention to whether men's facial features are very exquisite.
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Men look at women Women look at men differently, and the points where women attract men and women who attract women are of course different.
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Let's have their own eyes, and everyone's definition and evaluation criteria for beauty are different.
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