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I've always considered myself a very sincere person. What I said is not a lie, I made a promise, and I will fulfill it.
But now I'm going to put quotation marks around what I once believed in. What is sincerity? Be honest and honest with each other, and gain the trust of others by touching them from the bottom of your heart.
Take myself as an example, I am sincere, but my sincerity is based on myself, I don't lie to others, because I am afraid that lies will expose other people's bad impression of me, and the starting point of everything I do is self-interest. So I'm not sincere. Second, what have I done that touches others from the bottom of my heart?
In the past, I struggled with interpersonal relationships, habitually pleasing others, mistakenly thinking that my flattery was moving others, and I was especially concerned about other people's opinions. I mistakenly think of this as my kindness and concern for others. But if you think about it, the ultimate starting point is to settle on yourself.
My primary concern is what others think of me.
I once had a friend who remembered a lot of people's birthdays, and I was very envious of him, thinking that he was a very attentive person, and then I thought, if I did it, would others have a good impression of me, and I couldn't understand why I cared so much about other people's impressions. Since I want to remember someone else's birthday, then I really care about him from the action, and I should accumulate virtue for myself. Don't think about the rest.
From another point of view, it is clear that the essence of interpersonal interaction is a relationship of interests, and if I have no value, it is useless to please others. So really don't think too much, you can think about your own interests, but don't care too much about other people's opinions. Reduce internal friction.
I finally realized that I am not a sincere person, I am introverted, I start from my own heart, I care about my own small world, I care about my own feelings and losses, this kind of performance is indifferent, ruthless, and selfish in the eyes of others. I should admit everything about myself and accept everything I have.
I can't change my personality, but I can change my ways and methods, as long as I want. Yes, I'll go back and change it when I want to. I have a direction, and I won't blindly judge myself anymore.
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Sincerity is to be sincere, honest with others, to move others from the bottom of your heart, and ultimately to gain the trust of others.
Sincerity is also a descriptive word in personal literature, used to describe personality. If you learn with sincerity, you will have nothing to do, and if you build a business with sincerity, you will not be prosperous. Sincerity can enable us to make good connections, make life invincible, and create a happy and happy life.
Sincerity means truthfulness, sincerity, sincerity, honesty and honesty to move others from the bottom of their hearts and ultimately gain the trust of others. Sincerity is also a descriptive word in personal literature, used to describe personality. If you learn with sincerity, you will not be able to eliminate anything, and if you establish a business with sincerity, you will not be prosperous.
Sincerity can enable us to make good connections, make life invincible, and create a happy and happy life. Sincerity can make people smile, good luck continues, and peace and society warm the world.
The reason why people remain sincere is swift
1. Build trust: Sincerity is the foundation of trust, if a person has been deceiving others or hiding his true thoughts and emotions, it is difficult for others to believe him, and it is even more difficult to establish deep relationships and friendships with him. Sincerity, on the other hand, can make people feel authentic and credible, and build a stronger relationship of trust in the process of communication.
2. Enhance communication: Sincerity can make people communicate better, if a person is hypocritical to others or hides his thoughts and emotions, then it is difficult for him to establish real connections and communication with others. Sincerity, on the other hand, breaks the ice and allows people to communicate more easily and naturally, which in turn increases mutual understanding and depth.
3. Improve efficiency: sincerity can improve the efficiency of work and life, if a person is hypocritical or disguises his emotions in work or life, then it is difficult for others to understand his real needs and ideas, which leads to communication difficulties, and bridges affect the efficiency of work and life. Sincerity, on the other hand, allows people to understand each other's needs and ideas more clearly, which in turn improves the efficiency of work and life.
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