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No. Our country pays great attention to filial piety, pays attention to filial piety to the elderly during their lifetime, and guards filial piety for the elderly for at least 100 days after their death. Moreover, these "filial piety cultures" also extend to marriage customs.
Therefore, there has always been such an unwritten rule among the people of our country that the elderly and younger generations in the family cannot get married.
During the period of filial piety, that is, within 3 years, it is not allowed to carry out happy events, so as not to clash with each other. That is, after the death of the elders in the family, the younger generations are not allowed to get married for three years. The above are some of the old customs in marriage customs, and with the opening of the mind, many regions are not so strict about filial piety.
But at least they will keep filial piety for 100 days, dress up in mourning clothes for 100 days, taboo brightly colored clothes, and do not go to entertainment venues.
After eating and drinking, after three months, the younger generations are free to marry and can choose whether to marry or not.
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First of all, we Chinese pay more attention to filial piety. It is not allowed to get married during the period of filial piety, and after the death of grandparents, it is a grandson who cannot marry a daughter-in-law within three years, and it seems that it is okay for a granddaughter to marry, which is also a regional custom. After all, it's a red and white happy event, and I'm afraid of conflicts, but there aren't many people who pay attention to these nowadays, it depends on what you think.
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In many parts of our country, it is customary that if an elderly person dies in the family, he can get married within 100 days, and if he does not get married within 100 days, he has to wait for three years. Marriage in 100 days is called Chongxi, and if you don't get married in 100 days, you have to wait for three years.
In some places, the rule is that no matter whether a man or a woman dies, they must wait until the New Year to get married.
In ancient times, there was a mourning to control drugs, and filial sons had to be temperate in all aspects of life during a period of time when their loved ones died. After the baby is born, he will not leave the arms of his parents for three years, and he will always need the care of his parents. Therefore, when the parents die, the children should also hold for three years and keep filial piety for three years.
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Of course, this is not allowed, the old man has passed away, and it is not allowed to do happy events, it must be two years later, you can get a marriage certificate first, and handle it after the banquet.
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Our country pays attention to filial piety, and you are related to the old people in the family. Emotionally, ethically it should at least pass the period of filial piety. In this way, everyone will come out of their grief and will come to your wedding with a very spiritual outlook. Isn't it?
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If it's a close relative, it's best to postpone it.
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If the marriage has been arranged before the death of the elderly, it is usually sufficient to get married within 3 months of the death of the elderly. There is indeed such a saying, you must get married within 100 days, otherwise you have to keep filial piety for 1 year, the death of grandparents is filial piety for 1 year, and the death of filial piety for 3 years is the death of parents. It depends on your local customs or your own family traditions.
Article 1046 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China.
Marriage is voluntary] Marriage shall be completely voluntary between the man and the woman, and it is forbidden for either party to coerce the other party, and it is forbidden for any organization or individual to interfere with it.
Article 1047.
Legal age of marriage] The age of marriage shall not be earlier than 22 years old for men and 20 years old for women.
Article 1048.
Circumstances in which marriage is prohibited] Marriage is prohibited for direct blood relatives or collateral blood relatives within three generations.
Article 1049.
Marriage Registration] A man and a woman who wish to marry shall apply for marriage registration in person at the marriage registration office. Where the provisions of this Law are met, they shall be registered and a marriage certificate shall be issued. The marriage relationship is established after the marriage is registered. Where marriage registration has not been completed, the registration shall be re-registered.
Traditional culture in China.
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There are no taboos, and the house where the old man in his own family has lived should be full of memories, not taboos, so don't be so particular.
If the body of the elderly is not at home, children can go, but it is best to avoid it, and if the elderly person dies in the hospital, they can go to the house. Because the yin qi is too heavy, it is best not to go to this occasion. There are some things that must be disbelieved, and it is better to believe in them than to believe in them.