My boyfriend is younger than me, should I have sex with him?

Updated on society 2024-06-02
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    The landlord didn't say the details. You didn't tell us how many years younger than you.

    If you're 5 to 7 years younger, you'll be fine.

    If he is 10 or more younger than you, then be practical and think about whether he can bring you happiness, whether he has a sense of security for the woman to rely on, including his family background, etc. That's the basics.

    If you like him, then I think you can be more realistic than you who are 5 years younger or older. After all, you haven't fallen in love with him yet. Falling in love with him, I think age is not distance. :

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Height is not an issue.

    Age is not distance.

    The most important thing is that your hearts are together.

    Also, you have to be loyal to him or her.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If two people truly love each other, age is not a problem.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It shouldn't be a problem for women to be a year older than men, but you have to be more practical when you're older, after all, women look older after 28, and men won't change much when they're 40.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I know you're afraid that he won't want you in the future, right? Actually, if he likes you too, there will be no problem.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Age is not an issue! (But don't be too different in age, 1 is OK!) )

    Love is something that doesn't need much to add!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You love him. He loves your words too.

    Age is not an issue!

    It's not easy to find someone who is good to you.

    You have to cherish it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Is sibling love also becoming popular today, being younger than you is not a problem, but in some ways it may not let you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There is no age difference in love.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    This one... Age isn't an issue.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    What's that?

    Two people who love each other don't think about these boring yes.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    True love knows no bounds!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Age is not important, love is the most important thing.

    If you really love him, then what age do you care?

    When the two get along, don't deliberately think that he is younger than you, so it is easy to affect your emotions and the feelings of the two people

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Can you accept the fact that your boyfriend is younger than you? If your boyfriend is more than 4 years younger than you, will you give him a showdown? In love, what kind of existence is it for a man to be smaller than a woman?

    As the saying goes, a female junior hugging a gold brick means that being with a woman who is three years older than herself is like holding a gold brick, between husband and wife, women are three years older than men, and they are destined to be rich and happy. Is this really the case in reality?

    My boyfriend and I met on a blind date, I didn't know anything about him before the blind date, and he asked me on the blind date if I mind being younger than myself. Because my ex-boyfriend is also younger than me, I myself think that age and mentality are two different things, so I clearly told him that I don't mind, at that time I only knew that he was younger than me, and I didn't care how much younger than me.

    After the blind date, we met 3 times in 10 days, I was very relaxed with him, and it was not at all like the one who had only known each other for a long time, we had a lot of common topics, he respected my ideas, tolerated me with a mentality beyond my age, and would take care of people, so I ignored the problem that he was 4 years younger than me.

    So after knowing each other for 10 days, I decided to be lovers. But I have always planted a seed in my heart, and I think that people who have only known each other for a long time don't have deep feelings even if they like it! At least I didn't have that much affection for him at the time.

    He has only been working for 4 years after graduation, and he has no house in this city, and now his main job is average, because I don't know much about his industry, and I don't know if he is motivated or average in this state. He is engaged in the side business of investment, and the income of the side business is greater than the main business, but I think the side business is very risky, and it is not a long-term investment channel, knowing that he is a person who wants to work hard to make money, want to achieve something, and do not spend money for pleasure. But he said that if he had money, he would rather change the car first, and I don't know much about men's obsession with cars.

    His family is rural, there is no discrimination, there is a sister in junior high school to him to raise, at present it seems that the sister is not the kind of bad child, but it is not clear whether it is the kind of person who works very hard. For some reason, I can foresee that his parents will not help him much, which means that he has to achieve something and rely on himself for everything.

    I want to give up because I've heard too many stories of being consumed by firewood, rice, oil, and salt. I was curious why we didn't know each other for a long time, and he decided that I was someone who was worth going with for the rest of my life, and I thought I broke up with him, and he could accept it, but he showed a lot of emotion. I told him that I was older than him, so I didn't dare to bet on the future.

    He felt that I didn't trust him and wished I had a little more faith in him.

    He said that the best love in his heart is "You don't deceive me when I am poor, and I don't live up to your bad kindness."

    I'm really hesitant to stand at this crossroads, I don't know how to go down, I don't know which way to choose, to be honest, maybe everyone thinks I'm making a big fuss about this question, but if I really decide to go down with a person, will these problems become obstacles in my future life?

    I know I'm cowardly again, and who wouldn't want to have a smooth sailing love in the future?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The female junior hugs the gold bricks, as long as the two of them feel good, and he has no opinion, you don't have a big spine to care too much about these. True love doesn't care about age, so it's the most important thing to manage your relationship seriously!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    This question depends on whether the other party is mature or not, if you are mature, it will be better, and if you are immature, you will be very tired. Immaturity of male production? It has nothing to do with age, it has to do with his family environment, personal experience, and his cognition.

    In fact, I think older girls don't have to be more mature, and younger boys aren't necessarily more naïve, in fact, it depends on the love of sisters and brothers, spiritual and even material equality, age is not a fundamental factor.

    In fact, girls' minds are really sensitive, chatting on the top of the circle of friends, posting couples' avatars, these things may sound silly and cute, but in fact, we are very envious of these couples, and we also look forward to having such a boy appear and take the initiative to do this for us.

    A person who really cares about you will not care about being secretive about you in the world they are talking about. I don't care, but I want you to come into his whole life, know his friends who are familiar with his work, have common friends with him, and have common topics. He will make you appear in the most prominent place in his life circle.

    The people who really care about you are manifested in the most ordinary life, in the trivial things of firewood, rice, oil and salt, in some of the smallest and smallest details, we look for and find love, and then get satisfaction.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Maybe it's a little warm man, who will surprise you everywhere and spoil you to the sky!

    Of course, it is also possible to be immature, and many places need you to take care of him.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    What is it like to have a boyfriend who is much younger than you? Sometimes you worry that he is too young to give you a very certain future. Sometimes you will complain that he is too headstrong and can't understand all your efforts and what you think.

    Sometimes you will also complain that he is not motivated, all the beautiful visions for the future are always only in words, as long as they are put into practical action, he will always say wait and wait and wait. But so what? It doesn't matter how many years you are apart, how far apart, how much you have to go through and wait.

    Just a sentence of "I love you, I love you too" is enough! How many people feel that they can't give their girlfriend a certain future at a young age? He resigned and came to Changchun to find me, saying that he would be wherever I was in the future, and I would do whatever he did.

    How many people think that there is a big age gap, there will be a generation gap, and there are many life ideas that cannot be synchronized? We have climbed Huashan for 24 hours together, and we have been to Hangzhou, Suzhou, and Yingkou together. We will also quarrel in a hurry because we can't understand each other's minds, but when I run to my mom crying after a fight, he will hug you and make you laugh!

    How many people think that young people are always slacking off on life and not wanting to make progress? Who said that only hard work is life, and comfort is naturally not another attitude to life? For those of us who have never thought of being rich and rich, staying with each other and ignoring each other is the happiest thing in this life.

    Now, everyone has the right to love and be loved, and it is really difficult to plan who to fall in love with many times, but just a simple fate. There was a lot of opposition around us, and we experienced a few wavers between us, but thankfully, we all ended up saying "My future, it's all you." ”

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