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I think their family may be more introverted, and you should be this kind of character. From his mother and his performance, it should be like this, his mother can't get used to your living habits, not to mention, he likes to stay at home and not go out to play. Since you are here today and have the idea of hesitation, then you have to think about your own happiness.
You feel that they are lukewarm to you, which should be the reason for the lack of communication, but they already have plans to get married, which means that they are still satisfied with you. To solve this situation, you still need to be open and honest with them, such as his mother, you can honestly ask her if you have any bad habits that can be proposed to you in order for you to improve. And your boyfriend should tell him that you can't always watch movies and play games as the only pastime, and that the family needs to be maintained by both parties and take into account your feelings.
Judging from your current relationship, the past two years are estimated to have been dull, lack of communication, love has length and no temperature, take the liberty of saying it, it may not have been ml.
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It's up to you, whether you want to endure it or break up, find a time to discuss it with him.
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It is a mistake for you to agree to live in his house, it will make his mother feel that you are worthless, and maybe you will think that you are a random girl, you should know that their thinking in the previous generation is very different from ours, they are very conservative, as for whether you want to marry him, it depends on yourself, I think it is better to go out and live, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been in China for thousands of years, deep-rooted, and difficult to solve, especially your living habits are different in all aspects, you can persuade your boyfriend, Analyze and analyze with him, and if he doesn't want to be a sandwich biscuit in the future, he should agree to move out.
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Do you really like him? Do you feel happy and happy with him? Are you confident about the future and his life?
If the answer is yes, then you should tolerate everything about him, believing that everything will be okay, and you will adapt to everything. If the answer is no, you should think carefully. Getting married is not about buying something, although you are not satisfied with it, you will buy it with a ruthless heart, and the big deal is to waste some money.
Marrying a non-human can be very painful, and the negative impact on people and the trauma in people's hearts may take a lifetime to smooth out.
No one can help you make this decision, because only you know the real feelings. Decisions are hard to make, but they are necessary.
Finally, I wish you happiness.
A stranger.
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