Falling in love with someone who doesn t know whether to love or not

Updated on psychology 2024-06-21
10 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    If your mind is not bound by something, you can really accept her from your heart, fully accept it, love is right.

    If you have only been dating for a while, and you feel that you love her, then decide after a while, but the premise is the same, the question is whether you can accept the truth from the heart, and being with her will not be so simple, if I am you, I will give up, there are many good girls in the world, do you have to love such a girl? Will the people around you and your family accept it? In the end, the most tired is yourself.

    In short, I wish you happiness.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If you're looking for a wife: as long as you like her and think she's suitable, don't care what she doesn't do. The question is, are you in love?

    If you're looking for a girlfriend: just get along for a while and then see how it goes.

    You can be friends without being lovers.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Clause.

    1. Letting go of a person does not mean forgetting everything, that is, remembering this person and what happened to you, no longer sad and tearful, or indignant, but can smile calmly and indifferently. Clause.

    Second, do a job that enriches yourself and makes life busier, so that you don't have so much energy to be sad and sad. Clause.

    3. Life is always slowly losing.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Time is a good medicine, but not an antidote, when time can't be solved, don't force yourself to forget, go with the flow, be happy, try to discover the things around you, love may come quietly.

    And why shouldn't he love? Whether it is external reasons or one's own, try to stand in his position and see, there may be new discoveries.

    It's best to say, what kind of love to talk about, is the game not fun, or the wine is not good, haha.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Don't get in touch, cut off the contact, and slowly forget what you should forget.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Keep yourself busy, get to know more people, and just wait a little longer.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Permit. What I fell in love with was the Taurus sitting.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Some people are easy to forget in the days when they are obsessed, and if they are reluctant to forget, don't force themselves so much. TIME WILL SETTLE IT ALL ...

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you don't really want to forget, then no one can help you, some things, the more you try to forget, the more it means that you care, when you don't care, you don't need to work hard to forget ......If you can't change anything with your efforts, just let it be!!

    I've been struggling for nearly 10 years, but I still haven't found an effective way to forget, so I want to tell you, don't waste time, there's nothing to help you forget, you're looking for a way to forget, and you're deepening your memory, which will only backfire, so you should go with the flow......

    In fact, there are still many beautiful things in life waiting for us to discover; Love, not all, try to divert your attention, maybe the mood will be better, and life will be a little better......

    Many people fall into it and can't climb out, and there is no antidote to this, and they must bear it; I always only know how to enlighten others, and I can't find my own antidote;

    I don't know what bad things I did to him in my previous life, and I can't forget how hard I tried in this life, and sometimes I think: maybe I tortured him like this in my last life.

    So, I got better.

    If you really can't figure it out, think so too! Maybe you'll be more comfortable......Come out early and give yourself a little more chance! You'll reap another piece of ......

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    .Try to take a serious self-examination first to see if you are living in a healthy relationship. You also (at least) equally cherish that you have no regrets, silently caring for and guarding you; Or someone who has nurtured or nurtured you?

    For example, family, such as teachers. Will you inadvertently ignore the people who have been silently caring for you? In the depths of their hearts, will they also deeply think about you from time to time, whether you are happy, joyful, and progressive in life?

    To those who care for themselves. Are you reciprocating your gratitude to them with sincere actions at the right time?

    Encourage you to slowly let go of your hands, and at the same time, turn your attachment to this fate that cannot be forced for the time being into the driving force of caring for yourself and the people who care for you.

    Because I have experienced the same emotional distress, I have also been confused for a while. Later, I found that this would add a psychological burden to the people who cared for me, so I actively compensated, and it turned out that this way I came out.

    After a while, when you realize the positive value of this trouble, congratulations, uncle is here to shake your hand.

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