What does it feel like to be in a relationship with a narcissistic friend?

Feel like you're the center of the world, the focus of all people. The point is that being looked at by the opposite sex more often makes you feel like you have a crush. Every time I am with such a person, I feel embarrassed, and I always feel that there will be a lot of strange eyes around me.

But there is no way, since I am friends with him, I will never leave him. Just try to get used to his narcissistic habits.

There will always be such friends around, narcissistic, confident, cheerful, and lively. Watching them look narcissistic is funny and makes me happy. I am lucky to meet them, they will not feel inferior because they are ugly, and they are very optimistic.

They don't care what other people think, they're always so powerful. I envy them, I envy their character, I envy their attitude.

is the most beautiful in the world, admiring herself in front of the mirror for ten hours a day, not seeing the flaws on her face, and always claiming that she is not good at language as a science student, but she can praise herself from top to bottom with gorgeous words. Others recognized as good-looking say nothing more than that, passers-by, saying that we have a problem with our vision, anyway, it is absolutely impossible to hear from her words that praise other girls for their good looks. We roommates are asked to bring a prefix when calling her, such as "cute", "beautiful" and "long-legged", but except for the long legs, I really don't agree with it.

There is always a feeling of being despised, there is a sense of compulsion to look up, I always feel that I am very good, I am very proud, no one in my eyes, I like to call people.

In fact, narcissism is nothing, it's just overconfidence, as long as you don't cheat your friends and are sincere to your friends, you can still continue to date, but you are always self-centered, self-righteous, and don't care about your friends' feelings, then you can really stay away.

There is pressure. You can't deny the other person's aesthetics, you can't deal with your own taste too casually, and you may have to accept the other person's narcissistic state.

I would be afraid to treat him with a normal heart, and he would usually brag to me about how good he was and how much the leader appreciated him. Whenever this happens, I listen patiently, but I don't give an opinion. Just be respectful.

There is a saying that ugly people make a lot of mistakes. But I think that my friends are ugly, my grandfather doesn't love my grandmother, and if she doesn't narcissise herself, isn't it self-abandonment.

Whenever my friend started boasting, I started rolling my eyes as if I hadn't heard.

They need to be understood, their differences accepted.

1. If the people around you are narcissists, accept their differences.

Accept that different personality types and that not everyone thinks and acts the same way as you. Instead of trying to change others, learn to embrace differences and find balance when you really need to communicate with them.

2. Don't try to change them, focus on your own needs.

Try to understand that narcissists are resistant to change, and it's more important for you to see them for who they really are, not what you want them to be. Pay attention to how you're feeling and who you want to be. Accept the fact that:

There are so many different types of personalities in the world, and the only thing you can control is your attitude and your own behavior.

3. Recognize that all they do is come from their insecurities.

Narcissists are very fragile on their hearts, and they will be good at questioning others because this is how they can feel better. When you learn that what a narcissist is doing to you is not personal, but rather comes from their insecurities, you know that sometimes they just need a certain level of comfort. This is especially important if the narcissist is someone you have to work closely with, or a member of your family.

Proper comfort can calm them down and complete the task at hand.

4. Give up gaining the approval of the narcissist.

You're not the kind of person narcissists say they are. So don't let their blame game ruin your self-esteem, and don't argue with them over what you think is right. There's no point in arguing with narcissists in order to prove them wrong, because they won't give up on proving themselves right.

You are more likely to get frustrated when they disagree with you in an unpleasant way. Know your own worth and stay away from what narcissists think of you.

5. If a narcissist hurts you, stay away from them.

Remember, healthy relationships go both ways. It's a relationship of mutual respect, built on the foundation of mutual understanding and give-and-take. But any relationship with a narcissist can be the opposite, because it's about making the narcissist unilaterally happy and constantly getting support.

Such a relationship will only make you feel stressed and not conducive to your growth.

6. Learn when to walk away.

When the narcissist starts to make you feel uncomfortable and doubt yourself, cheer yourself up, give yourself enough respect, and leave them. If you fall in love with a narcissist, you should consider ending the relationship and pursuing a better life. If the narcissist is your family, you don't have to be cruel to them, but it's best to keep your distance from them.

Relationships are the weakness of narcissistic people. They don't have anyone else in their eyes, this kind of person you snub as much as possible, if he says "I" how it is, then you calmly say "don't tell me how you are anymore, I don't care and few people care, who do you think you are" "Many questions you look in the mirror and you will have answers without asking me".

So how can we protect ourselves and get along with such people?

1. If you can leave, you can leave, and if you can end the relationship, end the relationship, because don't believe that carrying a fierce shirt can change them, extreme narcissism is generally a personality problem, it is not a disease but it is more terrible than a disease. Unless this person suffers a big loss, has a lot of bad luck, and wants to change it to the extreme, external forces can't shake them.

Second, if you can't leave, then you have to protect your body with a vajra cover, and do everything you can to understand yourself and protect your heart. Know who you are, where you are, what you're doing. In other words, the argument is to increase one's self-confidence and self-esteem.

If your heart is strong enough not to be afraid of conflict, then you can go head-to-head, express your point of view directly, find the logical loopholes of the other party, point out the exaggerated or untrue parts of the intellectual, and the cycle repeats to infinity.

When you get along with a narcissistic person, you have to think about your own situation, if he can make certain changes, it is acceptable, if he is too narcissistic, then the shadow will start the relationship between you. If it's the latter, it's better to choose to leave, and the other is to know how to be proportionate, and sometimes don't argue too much, because he will think more about himself, or the posture is to guess and elevate himself.