My husband s family owes more than 100,000 debts, and my mother in law is sick for three days, and I

Updated on healthy 2024-06-23
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Life can't be smooth everywhere, you should share the hardships with him when you marry him, although it is indeed a lot of trouble, but your husband is raising a family alone, why don't you help him think about it, he is more tired than you, not to mention that in addition to money and family sadness, adjust your mentality and face these things positively will eventually pass, people owe hundreds of thousands of dollars and now they have paid off, and they have bought a house, and their mother-in-law is still working when she is sick, how difficult it is for them, you still think so.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Hearing your predicament, I can understand how tired and annoyed you feel. This situation can really cause a lot of stress and emotional burden. Here are some suggestions to hopefully help you deal with this situation:

    1.Communicate openly with your husband: Share your feelings and thoughts and find solutions to problems together.

    2.Seek support and advice: Talk to family, friends or professionals about your situation and listen to their advice and advice for emotional support.

    3.Make a plan and budget: Create a workable repayment plan and try to control your expenses as much as possible to reduce unnecessary expenses.

    4.Focus on your physical and mental health: Ensure your own health and well-being by engaging in sports, relaxation activities, or seeking counseling to reduce stress and anxiety.

    5.Seek professional help: If your mother-in-law's illness requires a professional**, seek help from a doctor or health insurance provider to make sure she is getting the appropriate help**.

    Most importantly, remember that you are not alone in this problem. Face the difficulties with your husband, find solutions together, and be patient and supportive along the way.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Hello, I hope you can treat this kind of thing rationally, you are pregnant now, you have to control your emotions well, no matter what happens, the child is born in the talk, in the talk, you must have been together after true love, needless to say, it is also because you want to get married, so husband and wife, can you be happy with the same trouble, if you really don't want to be together, for the sake of the child, you say, what can you do, think more about him, and then see what others say.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You can agree, but you can keep your opinion.

    Analysis: 1. After all, they are father and son, and they have a blood relationship in their bones and a blood bond.

    2. As the saying goes, "Father's debt is repaid by his son, and it is justified", for the sake of the face of the father and son, and for the reputation of the future husband, it should still be.

    3. If your husband wants to pay it back, he must have his ideas and opinions, don't interfere too much, after all, it is their father and son's business, after all, your husband also earns money.

    4. At the same time, it also shows that you and your husband have this strength and ability. Don't hurt the harmony of the family, hurt the feelings of the husband and wife, affect your husband's image and reputation, and affect the future development for the sake of 50,000 yuan.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You can understand your feelings, but the father's debt to the son to inherit the father's business, this is a matter of course, well, as a child must help his father, as a daughter-in-law, it is best to support her husband's decision, well, he will be grateful to you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you can help financially, not all efforts pay off.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Your husband and father-in-law are father and son, although the father's debt may not be repaid by the son. But if the economic conditions allow, it is also your husband's intention to be a son.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You and your father-in-law are a family, and since you have extra money now, you can lend it to your father-in-law.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The debtor should pay the huge debts owed by the in-laws, and the children have no legal obligation to repay the debts on behalf of their parents. However, the child shall pay the debt on behalf of the parent in the following cases:

    1. The child accepts the gift of the parents, causing the parents' debts to be unable to be repaid, whether the gift is consciously or unconsciously;

    2. Children who have inherited an inheritance from their parents must bear debts within the scope of receiving the inheritance.

    A creditor cannot demand that a child who is in debt pay off a debt owed by his parents. The Father and the Son are two independent civil subjects. After the death of the father, if the child inherits the father's estate, and inherits the father's debts at the same time, the children are obliged to return the debt.

    If a child renounces his father's inheritance, then the child is not obliged to pay the debt to the father.

    Estate debts mainly include the following categories:

    1. The taxes and fees that should be paid by the deceased in accordance with the provisions of China's tax law during his lifetime;

    2. Debts owed by the decedent due to the debts of the deferred contract;

    3. Compensation for the damages to be borne by the decedent due to the infringement;

    4. The decedent bears the debt of returning the unjust enrichment due to unjust enrichment;

    5. The expenses to be borne by the decedent due to the lack of management by others;

    6. Other personal debts.

    Legal basisArticle 1161 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China.

    The heirs shall pay off the taxes and debts that the decedent shall pay in accordance with the law within the actual value of the inheritance. The part exceeding the actual value of the estate shall not be subject to voluntary repayment by the heirs. If the heir renounces the inheritance, he or she shall not be liable for the taxes and debts that the decedent shall pay in accordance with the law.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you owe money to others and make an IOU, and do not repay the money when it is due, the creditor can file a lawsuit with the court, and the court can accept it if the conditions are met, and you can apply to the court for enforcement after winning the lawsuit. Article 119 of the Civil Procedure Law provides that the following conditions must be met for a lawsuit: (1) the plaintiff is a citizen, legal person or other organization with a direct interest in the case;

    2) There is a clear defendant; (3) There are litigation claims, facts, and reasons for the jujube banquet; (4) It is within the scope of civil litigation accepted by the people's court and the jurisdiction of the people's court receiving the lawsuit.

    If the debt is due, you can ask the other party to immediately repay the arrears and interest, and if there is an actual economic loss caused by this, you can ask the other party to compensate for it. If there is an agreement on the interest rate of private loans, it shall be handled in accordance with the agreement, and the agreed interest shall not be higher than four times the interest rate of the bank's loan in the same period. If there is no agreement on the interest, the other party can request payment according to the bank's loan interest for the same period, and the other party can agree.

    However, if the other party does not agree, then in practice the court will usually not support it. There are many ways to recover arrears, such as negotiating with the other party and asking for payment. If the negotiation fails, you can entrust a legal officer to send a letter to the other party.

    The letter of legal personnel can play the role of reminder and warning to the debtor, urging the other party to repay the loan in a timely manner, bear the liability for breach of contract, etc., which is much more convenient than the judicial channel, but the letter of the relevant legal personnel is not mandatory, and if the other party refuses to return, it is still necessary to file a lawsuit in the end. If you can't find anyone to sue the court, the court will announce the service of a default judgment, and you can provide the court with clues about the other party's property, such as a vehicle, house or deposit in the name of the other party, and apply for enforcement, freeze and auction the above property to repay your debts. If there is an IOU, an IOU can be used as evidence, and if there is no IOU, other evidence, such as bank transfer records, ** recordings, Hu Sheng witness testimony, etc., can prove the fact of arrears and the amount of arrears.

    The statute of limitations for creditor's rights and debts disputes is 2 years, calculated from the date on which the infringement was known or should have been known.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    1.Hundreds of thousands are not small numbers, they are not necessary expenses for life, they must be a failure of investment in business, and you are not obliged to pay it back.

    2.Even if there is still a statement, don't say it back.

    If you are not paying a large amount, it means paying it back in installments.

    Tens of thousands a year, so that they also learn a lesson, and you don't have to be too nervous, 3Your husband must not say no, because he is their son, and he can only say that you are unwilling, for the sake of their father-son relationship, for your money.

    You don't have to complain even if you carry a black pot, this is a way he doesn't want to pay back or doesn't want them to squander money anymore, meaning; It's hard for you to see me.

    This time, my wife is unwilling, don't do this in the future, let them restrain a little.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most difficult to get along with. Your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have been living in harmony for seven years, which is already very good. Now my mother-in-law wants to move out and live independently, but in fact, it's okay to have a free space and live happily.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Is the debt owed by your mother-in-law or by you? If you owe it, don't complain that your mother-in-law doesn't give you a good face, after all, 200,000 is not a decimal number, and it seems understandable that your mother-in-law can't accept it. If you can go out alone, just follow the old man's heart.

    When you are well, the old man will be happy when she sees you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    As long as the conditions permit, it is good to live separately from the elderly, after all, the living habits and rules of life of the elderly and young people are different, and it is easy to have conflicts when they live together for a long time. Now that I am in debt, my mother-in-law wants to buy a house, and it is a bit too much to say.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    What do you mean? How can you owe 200,000, what is the use? Is it the cost of living?

    Or is it something else? Anyway, you two should have an account, right? You are in debt, and your mother-in-law is going to go out to buy a house, and through your things you have fully experienced a sentence called:

    It is difficult for a clean official to cut off family affairs.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    How did you get into debt?

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Keep giving. Now that the money has been given to her mother-in-law, she is able to dispose of it freely.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think it's her business how my mother-in-law uses this money, and as a daughter-in-law, it's good to have a clear conscience with filial piety.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think it should continue to be given, giving my mother-in-law 1,000 yuan a month is out of filial piety to my mother-in-law, although my husband is no longer there, but since I am married, I have the obligation to take care of my mother-in-law on behalf of my husband, as for what my mother-in-law uses this thousand yuan to do, it is my mother-in-law's own freedom, and we have fulfilled our own will.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    (1) The debts incurred for the purchase of property borrowed by one party before the marriage has been converted into the joint property of the husband and wife;

    2) Debts incurred by the husband and wife for the common life of the family;

    3) Debts incurred by husband and wife jointly engaged in production or business activities, or debts incurred by one party engaged in production and business activities, and the business income is used for family life or shared by spouses;

    4) Debts incurred by one or both spouses for medical treatment and for the treatment of persons with legal obligations;

    5) Debts incurred for raising children;

    6) Debts incurred by the elderly who have an obligation to support them;

    7) Debts incurred to pay for the education and training expenses of one or both spouses;

    8) Debts incurred to pay for legitimate and necessary social interaction expenses;

    9) Debts that are agreed upon by the husband and wife as joint debts;

    10) Other debts that shall be recognized as joint debts of husband and wife.

    The above is a joint debt between husband and wife, which needs to be repaid together, if it is just a debt owed by the husband foolishly, you can not pay it back. The daughter-in-law filed for divorce, and the court refused to handle it because of debts, indicating that the creditor had sued the court to apply for enforcement. In this case, you might as well do your husband's job and come back and agree to a divorce.

    However, even if you leave, your debts have been regarded as joint debts by the court, and under the condition of ensuring your basic living conditions, you will be repaid with joint property first, and you will be jointly and severally liable if you are insufficient.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    What color of roses is more appropriate to send to chase girls, and it is best to send as many as you want before you confess.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    From a legal point of view, the son has no legal obligation to pay debts on behalf of the father;

    But the son shall pay the debt in place of the father in the following cases:

    1. Accepting a gift from the father, causing the father's debts to be unable to be repaid, whether the gift is consciously or unconsciously;

    2. Inherited the inheritance from the father, and assumed the debts within the scope of the inheritance;

    3. The debts borrowed by the father are used for the common life of the family, especially for the life of the son, who in turn lives with the father.

    In our country, many times, the father borrows money for family life, and it is not excluded that it is for the life and training of children, so it is not easy to distinguish whether it is Bi Lead who spends the borrowed money;

    If the son refuses to return the debt after the death of the father, although there is no legal responsibility, it is not in line with the moral tradition, so we still advocate that the son should repay the debt on behalf of the father if the son is willing and within the scope of his ability, so as to reduce social disputes and carry forward the tradition of joining hands and social morality.

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