Is it worth it to drag yourself down because you serve the elderly?

It is worth it, because taking care of the elderly is the duty and responsibility of each of us, and only when we do this can we be worthy of our conscience.

I don't think it's worth it, and the elderly don't see this situation easily, although you do your duty to take care of them, but they don't want to see such results as parents.

Of course it's worth it. Filial piety to one's parents is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation.

As the saying goes, "Filial piety comes first." "As children, as parents, we all attach great importance to filial piety, and we all hope that our parents can live a long life and experience the joy and happiness of being in the same house for five generations.

However, if the elderly are not in good health, paralyzed in bed, they need to be taken care of all the time. In this case, is it worth it for your children to be dragged down?

A few days ago, I heard a friend say that her grandfather has been paralyzed for nearly ten years, and his range of activities is only a small bed every day. In order to take care of his grandfather, Dad didn't go out to work at all, and only guarded the old man every day. Give him feces and urine, feed him water and food, and put up with his bad temper.

Because grandpa is old and his temper is not very good, he doesn't like anyone, and he has to scold everyone when he sees him.

During this time, Grandpa's condition worsened and he was sent to the hospital. Now, I have to watch it day and night, my father is only in his 50s, but now he is like an old man in his 60s. The body has also been dragged down, and it looks very weak, and it has dragged down his body for taking care of the elderly all these years.

The children who came over said what was in their hearts: I hope I can be freed as soon as possible.

I feel very good about taking care of the elderly for a day, because it is time for me to do my filial piety. Taking care of the elderly for a month, although the body is tired, but can persevere. After all, I was ignorant when I was a child, and my parents took care of me.

After taking care of the elderly for a year, I was physically and mentally exhausted, and my health was not good, but I still wanted to persevere. After taking care of the elderly for ten years, the children are about to collapse and can't bear it, I just hope that the parents will go early to free themselves.

Many people will definitely be angry when they hear this last sentence. Taking care of the elderly is a matter of course, how can you cry bitterness and tiredness. But children who have never taken care of the elderly should not understand that taking care of the elderly is not only physically tired, but also mentally tired.

Taking care of the elderly is different from taking care of children, although taking care of children is also physically tired, but you watch the children grow up and become sensible, and the mood is joyful.

But to take care of the elderly, no matter how much time and energy you put in, you will not feel joy. It's like, no matter how hard you try, you can't see things getting better. No matter how hard the children try, they can't resist the passage of the old man's life.

This feeling of helplessness is very tiring. Therefore, in the case of physical and mental exhaustion, many children hope to be relieved as soon as possible.

How to take care of the elderly is the best way to know it.

I don't want to do it, but I want to say it. If you are not able to take care of the elderly, it is best to send the elderly to a nursing home to receive more comprehensive and careful care. Of course, it is necessary to choose a better nursing home.

The second is to hire a babysitter. Although it costs money to ask a nanny to take care of the elderly, at least your sleep quality is guaranteed and you can have time to rest. What's more, there is no blood relationship between the nanny and the elderly, and taking care of the elderly will only be physically tiring.

I won't feel tired because the old man's condition is getting worse and worse. If your children take care of you, you will be physically and mentally exhausted, and you will be overwhelmed.

Is it worth dragging yourself down by serving the elderly? There is no fixed answer to this question. The answer to everything comes from personal choice. If so, how do you choose?

Summary. Don't drag yourself down at any time by serving the elderly, it's not worth it.

Psychologist: Don't drag yourself down by serving the elderly, is it worth it?

Don't drag yourself down at any time by serving the elderly, it's not worth it.

Children will take care of their children, whether their living conditions are good or bad, their parents' old age and physical condition. This traditional way of raising the elderly is a way of providing for the elderly in our country's traditional family. The parents are old, the children live at home with their parents, the children are filial to the grandchildren, and the family is happy.

Such an old man lives an empty life and is very happy in his old age.

After people enter old age, their body functions have undergone very good changes, and they are susceptible to a variety of diseases.

Only by taking care of one's own body can we better serve the family, and if we drag ourselves down by taking care of the elderly at home, it is obvious that the gains outweigh the losses.

In fact, the old people are not forced to do so, and they don't want to trouble their children with reputation, if they can take care of themselves, they will not delay the work and first life of the children of Xuzhou.

Hello dear, the above is mine, I wish you a happy life, thank you.