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No way. What is the use of a great husband who has no wife?
Since others have pointed out your shortcomings, you have to find ways to correct yourself in these aspects. Find the value of your own existence from life, live a meaningful life every day, and strengthen communication with the people around you.
Life is your own, there are many women, and besides, you are still so young!
When your fate comes again, I hope you are ready.
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I hope my experience can be helpful to you. I'm as old as you, 27A few years ago, I was as introverted and shy as you are, blushing and sweating when I talked to girls.
Crush on a girl for 7 years. In the end, nothing happened. In college, two girls chased me, and I was scared and didn't accept it.
After graduating, I met a girl who was very outgoing, and when I was with her, she always said that I listened to her, and even slept ......It was also her who took the initiative. Gradually, I would joke and mess with her, and then we broke up, you can guess because I wasn't suitable for her. But after experiencing and thinking about it, it's really different, and the girl I'm talking about now is still outgoing, cheerful and lively, but I can mess with her.
Because they are familiar with each other, because they have nothing to worry about. My idea is that everyone has a fiery heart that is just overshadowed by concerns. Find a familiar person of the opposite sex and talk to her more.
Find an extroverted friend, observe his every move, in addition, think about everything simply, don't worry too much, and don't look down on yourself, I am born to be useful, I hope you can find a way to change yourself.
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Let your mother find someone to help you introduce it It's best to find a more bold one My cousin is 29 years old It's not the same He's an art teacher Now he lives on someone else's introduction You can also find someone to introduce you.
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Hang yourself,.
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People with relatively introverted personalities will indeed have a harder time finding a partner, because for introverts, they don't like to go out to make friends, their social circle is narrower, so the people they know are more limited, and knowing people is one of the bases for finding a partner, so it will be more difficult for them to find their own object.
Introverts are generally more willing to stay in their own little world, let them make new friends is a very difficult thing for them, we all don't like to get out of their comfort zone, when we encounter things we don't like, our first reaction is often to escape, rejection.
For introverts, his small world is Bi Chong's comfort zone, making friends is something they don't like, so the probability of introverts making new friends is relatively small, so it is not easy for them to find the object of their joy from new friends.
It is also impossible to get them to find a partner from the friends they know, because for relatively introverted people, first of all, they may not have many friends, and secondly, they generally do not have such thoughts about their friends, so it is not easy for introverts to find a partner from their friends.
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Introverts can find the same object.
Because there are many extroverts in the crowd, they are more impatient, and they are not necessarily willing to find an extroverted personality like themselves, and they are prone to noisy and noisy in life, and they can't tolerate each other.
There are also many people who are quietly introverted, who are more quiet and willing to find a slightly introverted personality like themselves.
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Is it easiest for introverted girls to find a boyfriend? Do you have such a girl around you? In fact, it is not easy for introverted girls to find a boyfriend, but if they master the right methods and skills, it is very easy for introverted girls to get rid of singles.
In ordinary life, many introverted girls want to get rid of being single, but it is difficult to get rid of it, because introverted girls are not pursued by boys, they do not have a favorite person, or they have a favorite person but dare not pursue it. Faced with such a situation, how should introverted girls get rid of being single? The longer you stay single, the more important your attitude becomes.
Don't always envy someone else's lover's life. You should know that a person's life also has incomparable happiness and freedom. You should learn to cherish your single life.
You are not a nobody, but your fate has not yet come. It is best to spend sad time reading, listening, and traveling alone, so that you can sublimate yourself from the inside and enrich yourself inside and outside. If you want Tsatan to get out of this list, you should expand your circle of exchanges.
If you stay at home every day, how can you connect with new people? While expanding your social circle, you are constantly improving and perfecting yourself. People who really want to get rid of the bills will find their opportunity in every social situation and try to seize it as best they can. Yes.
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Hello, I think it's mainly because boys who are too slow don't like to talk, so his social circle is narrower. If you encounter similar problems in the future, you can follow the following ideas to solve the chaos: 1. Find the problem Huaizai:
Often living in the world, always in the midst of all kinds of contradictions, when some contradictions are projected into consciousness, the individual realizes that he is a problem and asks to find a way to solve it. This is the stage where the problem is discovered. From the point of view of the stage of solving the problem, this is the first stage, and it is the premise for solving the problem of the lead banquet.
2. Analyze the problem: In order to solve the problems found, it is necessary to clarify the nature of the problem, that is, to figure out what contradictions there are, which contradictions are related to each other, and what is the relationship between them, so as to clarify what results the problem to be solved, the conditions that must be met, the relationship between them and what conditions have been met, so as to find out the important contradictions and key contradictions. 3. Hypothesis:
On the basis of analyzing the problem, a hypothesis to solve the problem is proposed, that is, the solution can be adopted, including what principles to adopt and the ways and methods that can be adopted, but all of these are often not simple and ready-made, and there are many possibilities. But formulating a hypothesis is a critical stage in problem solving, and the right hypothesis leads the problem smoothly.
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Everyone has their own temper, and the world is so colorful.
Some people are outgoing and proactive in everything, and everyone likes such people. And some people are deep and introverted and don't like to come into contact with strangers.
So there is a saying that introverts are looking for difficult households?
Is this really the case? I've found this phenomenon to be quite common. If you think about it or observe it carefully, you will definitely come to the conclusion that I am so old.
Of course, there are no absolutes, and we're talking about most of them here.
Those who were very active and outgoing in school at the time often had puppy love phenomena, while those who were quieter probably didn't fall in love until college.
Because they behave differently in different groups of people.
For example, in front of his own family, he can show his truest side. Whether it's a cousin, a cousin can play crazy. And if he changes the scene and changes the person, he may feel very uneasy, very cramped and does not know how to deal with the other party.
This is a typical manifestation of an introvert.
They feel that it usually takes a lot of courage to confess to the other person, or to accept the other person's confession. It may take half a day, or half a year, to take action. Until someone else robbed the goddess in their hearts, and finally had to sigh there.
So how do you get out of this fog zone?
In fact, it is very difficult to change a person's personality, since you can't change it, then try to do your best. But the pursuit of the object still depends on your own efforts.
Don't think it's okay to wait for a blind date every day, although the possibility is quite high, but I always feel weird.
It's better to recognize the freedom of a person yourself. Usually we can find familiar people, such as our classmates, because we know each other very well, maybe you don't have a deeper understanding, but once one party confesses, the other party will definitely have some ideas.
The other is to find your own colleagues, you must know that most of our lives are at home and at work, so it is more reliable to find someone to work in a unit.
In the end, of course, I found it in my circle of friends, but introverts should not have many friends. Anyway, one of their principles is that you don't need to have many friends, you need to be sincere, the kind that can share your weal and woe.
Therefore, the fate of love is not clear, sometimes it is hard work, and it is possible to chase and lose it.
However, persevere, you can find your true love No, otherwise even true love appears, but you don't know that it is in**!
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Actually, I don't think I can say that, people have different personalities, but introverts I think they also have their advantages. He generally prefers a quiet life. I think this is a kind of life that many people like, but the reality is that we need to get married, and the people in the family will ask for inheritance, and this is not a lot of pressure.
So be it. Some people's circle of friends is really small, so the friends of the opposite sex are also relatively small, and it is also more difficult to find the object, if you find it through a blind date, it is also difficult to find what you like, because this requires fate. Once the blind date is because the spine tour circle of friends is small, they can't find a partner.
So I think it's better to go with the flow, but I also have to work hard to expand my circle of friends. I am introverted and don't like to talk, and I have very few friends. It was so bad that I didn't have anything to say to my parents.
Then I didn't have any opinions, and when my colleagues and friends asked me what I thought about something, I couldn't tell me, and I felt that it made sense to listen to anyone. Over time, there was no one to talk to me. I ask my mother about everything at home, and now that I am married and have children, I am embarrassed to ask, because I think my mother will dislike me for not being assertive and judgmental.
Timid and small, he didn't dare to take the collar.
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The answer is not absolute, what you said is that the so-called cong quietly is difficult to explain the meaning of introversion, introversion is unwilling to express and communicate with others, the scope of communication space is narrow, there is something in the heart will not be expressed, I don't know how to say it, there are few friends, but introverts and ≠ can not find the object and find the object is difficult, looking for the object is destined by fate, but sooner or later, you can go to the kind of regular **** to infiltrate the scum to do assembly line or workshop work, what IT information technology, accounting, Software research and development, etc., these jobs need you to do in obscurity do not need you to talk more, as long as you do a good job in obscurity, you do your own work, plus you respect the elderly, filial piety to the elders, the beauty of the soul, you are introverted and absolutely not lose to extroverted people, will not express slowly, others talk to you don't speak, listen to what others say, learn from each other's strengths, absorb the essence, what others ask you to say, you say nothing, talk too much is a curse, you can talk about your strengths, homely, There are also jobs, how do people ask you, you just say it, don't be afraid of starting late, don't be afraid of starting low, after you do well, someone will naturally be optimistic about you, so I think it's difficult for introverts to find a partner, it's not absolute, introverted, you don't speak, do your own book honestly
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It's not easy for introverts to find a partner?
It is true that an introverted person has fewer advantages in this regard, because of personality problems, he is not too embarrassed to show his excellent side when facing the person he likes. There is often a desire to retreat.
But there are also introverts who will behave surprisingly in the face of people they like when they are hungry, and this may stimulate their potential.
Usually an introvert, you should strive to show your strengths, such as personality, cautious and patient, observant, able to properly care about the other person's emotional balance, physical condition, etc.
Communication needs to be faced, and when faced is to be outward, to force yourself to be bold.
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