Personal emotional questions are answered well and extra points

Ever heard a phrase? Deception is more terrible than not loving.

If you don't love him, tell him frankly that we may not always need love, but we need dignity all the time, and if you treat a boy you don't love like this, it is actually tantamount to trampling on his dignity.

Love is not something that will be reciprocated if you give, and you must love him if he loves you. Tell him honestly, and I'm sure he can understand you. Although the process will be painful, at least you are honest about your feelings and him.

And he will also look for another emotion that truly belongs to him.

As for your tablemate, you can tell her frankly that love is not charity, and you really can't love him.

Only by being honest and brave about your feelings can you treat the three of you like this is the best solution.

As for who you want to choose in the future, I still hope that you can think carefully again, and if you don't love it, don't accept it easily. so as not to cause unnecessary troubles to yourself.

Have you ever heard of drinking doves to quench your thirst? If you use the methods you know are wrong to solve the problem now, you will make things out of control, and your pain will deepen and last.

Follow your first love, this is not a betrayal, this is respecting the will of your own heart. On the contrary, what you are doing now is betraying yourself, you will not be happy in the future, and you will not be able to make your current boyfriend happy.

Everyone has the right to pursue happiness and make bold choices for their own happiness. I hope my reply will help you and I wish you happiness.

Would you rather regret it forever than try to see if you can turn your defeat into a victory?

Answer: I'm afraid no one will say, "Yes, that's what I am."

However, we often desperately retreat when we shouldn't, and don't dare to try to succeed for fear of failure.

Take, for example, the spectacular performance of Kwan when she won the 2000 World Figure Skating Championship: she was hell-bent on winning first place, however.

She was only third overall in points before the final race, and in the final auto event, she opted for a breakthrough rather than a few mistakes. In the 4-minute long song, it combines the most difficult triple jump, and also boldly jumps two in a row.

Times. She may have failed ugly, too, but she succeeded.

"Because I don't want to wait until I fail to regret that I still have my potential," she said. ”

A great Chinese man once said; Hopes for victory and the restoration of favourable circumstances often arise from efforts to hold on a little longer.

To be a man, why not give it a go.

Don't deceive your heart! Quietly ask yourself what you don't want, and when you have the first answer in your mind, it's OK!That's it!

That's the result you want, whatever it is, that's your first reaction! The most accurate response, do that, and don't let yourself regret it!

Useless. Time will change everything! Don't worry, treat these things with a normal heart, don't think too much! The more I think about it, the more annoying it gets!

This will only make things worse, and if you miss your first love again in the future, and he finds a new love, then it will be useless for you to regret it.

I have only one word for you; Give up what you don't love and go after what you love! Don't be too face-conscious! Happiness is in your hands, see if you can grasp it

I think you can fool all the people you can't fool yourself.

Summary. Personal emotions are sent to help you analyze.

Personal emotions are sent to help you analyze.

Our boss likes to disturb me, a year ago said that I was mentioned as a middle-level cadre, not only the salary will be increased but also others, let me think about it, a year later, I was indeed mentioned as a middle-level cadre, but a recent meeting always borrowed me to raise a small question, make a big fuss, so that I can't get off the stage.

I was very angry, I don't know what he meant, he used to praise and encourage me, and now he has started to suppress me again.

He was very cautious with me, feeling that he was afraid of leaving a bad influence on me.

It should be regarded as your own person, and on the surface, you are actually done for other people.

I didn't know his intentions, I had a hard time accepting it, and I told him privately for the first time, and I still don't pay attention to me.

There is a chance for two people to communicate well together, but it should be a lack of communication.

He won't communicate with me about this.

He was very careful when he got along with me, feeling that he was afraid of leaving a bad influence on me: first, he loves you too much and is worried about making you angry. Some boys are not very confident in their relationship, and they are worried that they will make the other party angry, so they are always cautious when getting along with their partners.

Second, you may have a strong personality. You usually like to instruct him to do something, or find that he does something that is not your favor, you bend the socks and scold him, and he is a little afraid of you many times, of course, be careful.

If you like you so much, you should have what to say.

It's not that we've never talked about relationships, and he hasn't said anything.

Not mentioned, but his actions speak for themselves.

Summary. Dear, I am a psychological counselor who is committed to emotional problems, emotional problems always make people have all kinds of anxiety and self-doubt, so I think to deal with emotional problems, you first need to know what you need in your heart<>

Dear, I am a psychological counselor who is committed to emotional problems, emotional problems always make people have all kinds of anxiety and self-doubt, so I think to deal with emotional problems, you first need to know what you need in your heart<>

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Dear, asking for WeChat is equivalent to emotional repair, so judging from so many emotional cases I have accepted, you are much better than other couples and couples who repair after the relationship breaks down. So I think there are some issues that need to be clarified at this time.

First, what was your previous relationship with him?

Second, what contradictions were there before.

Nothing to talk about, after I confessed by mistake, I kept chasing him behind, and I said a lot on WeChat, and then I recently saw him in his state of king and wrote that he was autistic, and today he saw me, and I saw him peek several times, not like I don't like it anymore.

Dear, it looks like this, he still likes you.

If that's the case, I think you can ask him directly in person.

So what do I do?

It can have a good effect<>

Summary. Hello, I am Mr. Zhou, who is good at analyzing problems in marriage and family, love, psychology, interpersonal communication, etc. I can feel that you are very confused now, so if it is convenient to tell me about your specific situation

Hello, I am a teacher of emotional puzzle solving Zhou Coupaochun, who is good at problem analysis in marriage and family, love, psychology, interpersonal communication, etc. I can feel that you are very confused now, so if it is convenient to tell me about your specific situation

Hello, have you encountered any problems or confusion in your relationship recently, so it is convenient to talk to the teacher in detail?

Hello, Tuanzao San, my child is a girl who came later, a few days ago because of some things in the collapse of the family I feel like I'm angry with my father, I haven't come back for many days, at my best friend's house, whether it's my father or my stepfather, is it a few days before the child can regret coming back?

Hello, if it's a stepfather, it's hard to say, if it's a father, then don't pay attention to her and she'll come back.

Hello, how old is my daughter now?

My daughter is 22 years old, I have been adjusting my wild state for many days, my stove state is not particularly good now, can I be any problem? I don't have any illusions about this child, I just think of her as my own daughter, the child hasn't come back for seven or eight days, I still miss the child, I miss the child very much, I don't know how I got out.

Hello, the 22-year-old child is not young, can you tell the teacher about the specific reason? In fact, it is better for the mother to come forward for this kind of thing.

I've told my mother, now I can only use time to dilute everything, I can only wait, but the child also said back from the side, now I'm afraid that I have a problem, I Liang Niansen, this father especially wants to respect the child, I'm afraid that there will be a problem in my heart, just simply think about the child, no other aspects of thinking, it's normal dad wants the child, as long as the child is at home, I can't have a problem, right? It's something other than the father.

Do you mean that burying fiber is that we let the child out of the bend and imitate the fear? There should be no good grasp of the distance between us and the child, in fact, it is very simple to eliminate misunderstandings.

The relationship between my daughter and us should not be biological! Otherwise, she wouldn't have been so wary.

Yes, how can such misunderstandings be dispelled?

Is my daughter not going to school now? Do you have any work?

Hello, since her daughter doesn't go to school, she will take family things more seriously.

Hello, if you want to clear up the misunderstanding, it's best to find her best friend first, but it must be your mother to find it.

Let's not come forward, and we'll apologize and explain clearly after my mother is done.

When necessary, let's just be a father.

My daughter was misunderstood because of our actions or behavior.

There is one last question that can be answered, that is, I am very confused and confused, to do a filial piety and silver limb banquet to be a father's doing, I just don't know what to do and what not to do.

What a father should do is to pay silently without asking for anything in return, and a father must be able to backing his daughter and be a backer.