My personality is very hot at times, and he is very introverted, do we have any results?

Personality cannot be changed, but it can be improved. The change in personality is only influenced by the outside world, and only our perception of the world is changed. But our nature has not changed, because that is our nature that cannot be changed.

First of all, you have to have this awareness to change, and then you can improve your character from other people, such as what are his strengths that you can learn from, what he does when others like him so much. Introverts tend to have a slower pace, first of all, you have to consciously remind yourself to be faster, so that you can be in line with everyone and the mainstream, so that those who are fast-paced will accept you to a greater extent. Sometimes you have to praise people at the right time, and of course you have to praise them to the point.

In this way, others will be comfortable listening to it and will gladly accept it. You affirm others, and others will affirm you. Of course, we want to be ourselves as much as possible, so that you are comfortable from the inside out.

On this basis, let's talk about how to care for others. So far, you can maximize your happiness. P.S

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...Ha, just kidding, not to mention the character, even if there is a so-called result, don't worry, you have to say 88 in the end....Hello for you like this. I really don't have anything to say.

That's right, I'm a more introverted person, and I'm a little envious when I see those lively and cheerful classmates, but I really can't let go of the real thing.

Glad for your question. Everyone has a different personality, some are extroverts, some are introverts. Introverts like to be quiet, like to think, think about a lot of things, and think about problems more comprehensively.

Extroverts like to move, like to be lively, and they also like to express themselves, and they want others to affirm him. But the consideration of the problem is often more one-sided, that is, it is very arrogant. In fact, when you encounter something, you can encourage yourself, let go of yourself, don't think too much, just be yourself.

It is possible to change personality if there is a strong desire to change and long-term persistence. Psychologists' research shows that about 50% of personality is genetically determined, and the rest can be shaped and perfected as oneself grows under the influence of the environment. If you are not satisfied with your personality, you can try the following methods.

Successful Character Training – Self-Training The specific method is as follows:

Clause. 2. Determine what role you would like to play if you were an actor and why you like it.

Clause. 3. Choose any person you worship and list the traits and qualities in him that make you worship.

Clause. 4. Combine the second and third with a personality of your own choosing.

Clause. 5. Change what you don't like in your image, behavior, and personality, and reinforce what you like.

Clause. 6. Express your new personality. I would like to remind you that you should not expect to develop a character that will be successfully transformed anytime soon, but that you must also build on the core of your character.

Life still needs some wisdom.

Please listen to Master Jingkong's "Understanding Buddhism", "The Four Teachings of Lifan", "Taishang Induction Chapter", "Dizang Sutra" and "Amitayus Sutra".

The "Path to Liberation", "Ahama Sutra", "Heart Sutra" and "Diamond Sutra" taught by the Dharma Master

Jian Fengwen layman talked about the "Lengyan Sutra", "Yuanjue Sutra", "Lenga Sutra", "Six Ancestors Altar Sutra" and "Three Ancestors Faith Inscription".

The vowel old man speaks of "Lotus Flower Record".

Master Shengyi's "Diamond Sutra" and "Six Patriarchs Altar Sutra".

There is a link to the Sanhui Zen Room on the homepage of my space, and there is one.

Amitabha.

Accept the fact that success or failure has nothing to do with whether you are introverted or not.

Hello friend.

You must have something on your mind.

You have to find out what is on your mind.

For example, ask relatives to talk about it, send it and write a log.

Then just forget about it slowly.

Communicate with others and see how they do it.

Everyone has their own way of life, I understand, but I can't accept it.

If you know that you have such shortcomings or shortcomings, it means that you are already very introverted.

It seems that the character controls the ontology, and the original character is cultivated by oneself, and listening to Junyi is like the character controlling itself.

It reminds me of what my teacher told me when I was a kid, and I had the story of two little people in my head, one lazy and the other hardworking, and they often fought.

Don't gossip, get down to business.

There are two kinds of shortcomings for us.

One is to try to make up for it and eventually get to what we think is an ideal state.

Actually, it's not, it's also the ideal, all the objects in the world are in a state of contradiction and chaos in the harmony of yin and yang, and once the two get out of control, it will be the collapse of this natural body, excessive introversion to depression and even despair and suicide, overconfidence is like arrogance.

We can make up for it, but don't do it deliberately, be natural in body and mind, have a skin, don't be afraid of other people's laughter, it really can't be changed, such as Cao Cao's suspicion, it doesn't affect his hegemony, the debauchery of a writer does not affect his creation, not necessarily every successful person is an extrovert, everyone recognizes the kind that succeeds in the end.

The second is that we're trying to take advantage of these shortcomings.

A good example of this is the great writer Franz Kafka, who was a small clerk during the day, was careful in the office, and at night he started writing his own work, and he was like a giant in the world.

Let's chat! Be lively and chat with others! Or increase your knowledge by yourself, and if you have a topic to talk about, let's blend it in!

Open your heart and go outside.