Do you want to focus on your career or quit your job and get married?

Updated on workplace 2024-06-08
40 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Now you are faced with three choices.

    One, you stay here and ascend to the top of the world, he doesn't come.

    Result: You get money, status, and lose love.

    Two, you stay here and ascend to him.

    The result: you lose face.

    Three, you resign and go to him.

    Result: You get love and lose money.

    Love, money, face, choose for yourself, you must lose one.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You'd better think about it more, it's better for him to come over, he's out of work anyway, so that one of you can have a good income, and besides, if you really like him, do you care what others say?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Income is the foundation of survival. The man has no income, what will you eat after you quit your job and get married?!

    The people in our unit are all the kind of people with better status and status, and when they see him doing nothing like this, they will gossip, "When they gossip again, I ask them to help them find a job." And these people will be very useful in finding schools for your children in the future, etc.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Why did your boyfriend quit his job, this question is very important, there are good or bad jobs, and it doesn't matter if you work hard or not. For you, he must at least have a job, otherwise what is there to love you, marriage requires a lot or nothing, but two people working together can be considered true love. I don't think you should worry about yourself, let him think of his own way, you are busy with your own business, otherwise you will lose not only your job, you may have nothing, don't blame the family!!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    1. All First of all, your new job is not better than the original company.

    I said it well, one is the treatment.

    The second is salary. The third is the promotion space.

    If your current company is already very rubbish.

    Then you don't need money, you have to leave.

    What are your own thoughts?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I asked for leave in the original company, asked for half a month, and said that there was an urgent matter at home.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    See if you can ask for leave from the new unit... said that the formalities were not completed, can you ask for a few days off.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Which job you prefer, decide which one to choose.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's best to look for a job first and contact the next one before resigning, but generally speaking, resignation should be submitted one month in advance, so you can also submit your resignation one month in advance, and contact the next one as soon as possible within a month, so that you are not afraid of resigning and having nothing to do.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    1。Yours.

    If you don't have more money to live with, you should find a job first and then quit your job.

    2。If your job is very leisurely, then find a job first and then quit.

    3。If you're so busy at work that you don't have time to look for a new job, quit your job.

    4。If you are already tired of your current job and have some working capital, quit your job.

    5。If you have a good career and you need to be well prepared to find a job, quit your job.

    1. Under normal circumstances, it is necessary to start looking for a job first and then resign, but the new unit needs to wait for entry, and you need to resign in the previous unit, which is a certain risk.

    2. Under normal circumstances, it is recommended to resign before starting to look for a job, and you should be able to find a new unit in a month. And as long as the time is reasonable, the risk will be relatively small, mainly depending on the individual's ability and the type of work.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Submit your resignation first, and after agreeing, look for a job during the handover process.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It depends on the extent to which you want to change jobs, and if you really want to, just quit. In general, let's take a look at it first.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Find a good job in resignation first, if you encounter an interview, ask for an annual leave or something, if both parties are satisfied, you can negotiate the time to work in a month If you resign and look for it, what if you can't find a better one? Many of my friends are like this, naked resignation, after more than ten days did not find a satisfactory one, and their hearts were also panicked, and then they just found a company similar to the current one and signed it

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Should I quit my job and find a job, or should I find a job and quit my job?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Generally, it is more psychologically natural to quit work first and then look for a job. If you are not satisfied with your job or are not competent, you can change your career, don't tie yourself down, okay?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Should I quit my job and find a job, or should I find a job and quit my job?

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    According to my experience of changing eight jobs, it is worth losing hundreds or thousands of dollars without going through the resignation procedures.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Dizzy, you must look for a job first and then quit, otherwise, how to pay off your debts and support yourself after a period of not working? If you don't have to worry about these problems, you can quit your job and then move to a big city for a while, which will help you find a suitable job. But it depends on whether you have the courage or not!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you really don't want to stay there anymore, quit your job and then look for a job, so that you can feel more at ease, but there is a side to giving up everything, there is also a side to gaining, and the most important thing is to see what you think, because no one dares to give 100% assurance about the decisions they make, because if you don't want to stay there anymore, you will be wasting your youth to stay.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Submit your resume online first, if a company finds you, you can communicate with the department boss of their important person, and if you reach a consensus on communication, then go to the interview on leave, which is more stable.

    In order to be secure, you should find a job and give up your current job, otherwise you will have a stressful life during the transition period.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You can pass the online interview

    If you don't find a good job, you will lose your current job, and if you don't find another job, it will be even more tangled.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You can first register online for job information, through ** or email to learn about the employment situation of the position in the city, in addition, you can also send your resume to the headhunter, they will help you find a good job, if you are good enough, someone will come to you for an interview.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Let's quit first......Believing in yourself is the best ......

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    After 11 years of death, I have been staying in the current company, and I haven't had much salary or work for two years.

    DAO is motivated, feels pressured, and has little room for development. I really want to resign, entangled in resigning after finding a job or looking for a job after resigning, looking for more trouble while working, applying, interviewing to ask for leave, the leader is not good for approval, and I don't want to resign immediately after the resignation to work, I want to take a good rest to adjust and adjust, and position myself whether to choose other industries (I don't really want to do this industry anymore, and I don't like this industry very much). If you quit your job and look for a job, you are worried that you will not find it all at once.

    I do have some concerns, where to go? Thank you very much for your advice from friends and seniors!! If the economic conditions are agreed, you can resign and look for it again, because it is indeed not a simple matter to ride a donkey to find a horse, and the current company is sensitive + disgusted with the people who ask for leave, especially when you encounter a leader who is not good at speaking, jump while you are young.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You're still quite entangled when you arrive! Since you want to take a good rest, adjust and adjust! If there are no economic conditions, then resign first!

    Take your time when looking for a job! I can't eat hot tofu in a hurry!! Hey, hey....If you want to find a good job, you must take the time to talk to you?

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    How do you make this choice, depending on whether you have a choice and what you care about most?

    Some people don't really have much choice when it comes to finding a job.

    Mr. Wang, 30 years old, is the project team leader of an IT company, and the company gives him a very good salary, raising his salary twice a year, but due to the restrictions of the company's industry, the technology they use in their work is a relatively backward framework, and there is no advantage in finding a job in an Internet company.

    After all, he is tired of the company's overtime environment and backward technical management concepts, but he can't spare time to learn again because of his very saturated work.

    His wife also happened to be pregnant with his second child, and the family's expenses depended on his current salary, and he was unable to guarantee that he would find a better job than his current salary, so he did not dare to resign and look for a job after resigning. He didn't have a choice.

    Kobayashi just graduated 2 years ago, and broke up due to a failed relationship with a colleague in the company, in order to avoid embarrassment, she didn't want to resign directly a year ago. In fact, as long as you wait for more than half a month, the company will issue a year-end bonus, but for her, she is still young at this moment, even if she cuts her salary and changes jobs, she is happier than staying in the current company. She is also still young, she still lives with her parents, she doesn't need to think about renting a house, eating and living, and she has more options to change jobs, so in terms of emotional and career choices, she chooses to quit her job first and then change jobs.

    If it's still hard to give up, you might as well think about the worst outcome after choosing and see which one you can bear. For example, finding a job and quitting your job means that you have to juggle your current job and at the same time take time to prepare for the interview. And looking for a job after quitting your job means that you have a gap in looking for a job, and you need to consume your savings during this time.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Think about the situation where you have a better chance of finding a good and satisfying job, and then make a decision! It doesn't matter if you don't have revenue for a while, or if the company that is about to leave is good or not.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Don't quit yet, use the weekend or free time to go to the interview, or you will quit again, and the interview will not be successful, and it will not be all over

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Then you can find a job and quit again.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It's better to see if you have a goal first, and it's better to resign early.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It's simple ......Decide for yourself, it's your life, don't always let others sway ......Ha ha.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    With the current way of the world, it is recommended that you must find a good home before resigning. What you have to consider now is: the situation you are experiencing.

    Is it effectively avoided by changing jobs, if changing jobs may not be able to solve this problem, then we must choose carefully, now private enterprises account for the majority, the boss "one word", one person does n personal work is very common, I personally think that changing ten units may also be the so-called "no freedom and privacy, no human rights" ......The question of staying is whether this position is more conducive to your future development. You must have a career plan for yourself, if it is conducive to your development, then work hard in it, accumulate enough resources, and be fully prepared for the future, if the company has no potential and prospects, and can not learn any skills, then it is better to start looking for a new job while you are young.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If other employers actively invite you to go, you can consider filling in the resignation application in the original unit, and then wait a month to hand over the work at hand to your colleagues and then resign, so that not only will the boss of the original unit appreciate you, but the current boss of the unit will also be impressed with you.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Find a new job before quitting.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It depends on the extent to which you want to change jobs, and if you really want to, just quit. In general, let's take a look at it first.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Reply 17

    Thank you for working so the top, be careful not to break your head, haha

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I don't resign.

    I've been waiting and waiting.

    Neither is it an option.

    Good work doesn't come out of waiting.

    It's found.

    I often have to go to interviews.

    The old unit still has to ask for leave or something.

    What a hassle. If I decide to change jobs.

    Definitely resign first.

    And then I searched for it with all my heart.

    You can always find the right one.

    It stands to reason that it was okay to find a job during this time.67

    89 These months are the hardest to find.

    The landlord weighed it well.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    If you want to leave and start working immediately, find a good job before quitting, and if you want to relax, quit.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Personally, I think it's best to find a new job before quitting. You've got to weigh it up yourself.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Reply 20

    Thank you for the suggestion!!

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