Why has everything changed over time, whether it s friendship or love, or something else?

Updated on society 2024-06-04
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Hope you know:

    One: when you find changes, yes, whether it is friendship or colleagues and classmates, your relationship with them needs to be maintained, you can not ask your relationship with them to reach the original warmth, but you must at least maintain mutual attention and condolences with them, you must learn to classify them, and take more care of the people you cherish. So it should be said that you are like trees that need nutrients and water to irrigate.

    to be eternal. Second: In fact, when others are 'changing', they are also 'changing', have you ever summarized the process of this 'change'? Let me tell you, people have goals and purpose, for example, chasing male (female) friends, they all take themselves as the initiative and male (female) friends as the goal.

    When you chase it, isn't your goal changed from "chasing" to "patting", so if you want to keep nothing the same for a long time, then you must know how to maintain your relationship, just like antiques are still fresh and need to be maintained all the time.

    Third: Whether you agree with my statement or not, I just hope to cherish the people you value.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    There is a shelf life for buying things, not to mention these feelings? Look at the opening point.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Because time he can make everything fade.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I also think that it is, maybe after a long time, everyone is familiar with it, and they don't start to be so enthusiastic, and I feel that the feelings have faded.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I don't know when we started to become rusty, the original laughter and laughter are gone, only indifference and alienation remain. I am more and more aware that life is composed of one carriage after another, and the people who were still watching the scenery together in the previous period will get off at the next stop. I tried hard to hold on to our friendship, but then I realized I couldn't do anything about it.

    If you want to hold it tightly in your hands, you will be the one who hurts in the end. In our short life, we have to go through so many partings that sometimes we numb ourselves: it doesn't matter, I don't care at all.

    In fact, it's not that we don't care, it's just that the lost friendship, no matter how much we keep it, it won't help. We all seem to have changed, and we don't seem to have changed. Away from each other, we are still living well in our respective circles.

    It's just that I don't want to talk about those happy times together, I just want to hide them all in my heart. We've all gotten better, but we just can't go back. Parting is a catastrophe that everyone must go through.

    We have all given our friendship sincerely, and we trust each other so much that we are sure that we will be with each other in the future. However, we can't escape the arrangement of fate after all. Some people, after all, can only appear at a certain time, and they will definitely leave at a specific point in time, and will not stay for a minute or a second.

    Sometimes I am also puzzled, two people who were once so good, who were obviously people who walked through the streets and alleys holding hands together, and people who thought they could be friends for life. How can you say that if you are estranged, you will be estranged, and if you say that you are scattered, you will be scattered. There are many, many reasons.

    As each other grows up, with each other's different experiences, there are fewer and fewer common topics, but there are more and more contradictions, and the quarrels become more and more intense. Cracks arose little by little, and all the grievances and grievances finally burst out on a light and breezy day. Eventually, we will drift apart and end up as strangers.

    No matter how good the relationship is, it needs to be carefully maintained. When one party is working very hard, but the other party feels that accepting this kind of effort is taking on the pressure, then the friendship is like an imbalance in the scales, and it also means that the friendship will not last long after all. When friendship has become a burden, it has gone sour.

    A friendship that has changed its flavor can never be changed back to its original form. I'd love to ask you how you're doing, but the greeting in the input dialog box was deleted; When I encountered difficulties, I was still the first to think of you, and after typing everything I had to say, I deleted everything in one breath; I want to share happy things with you, but when I open the dialog box, I think, forget it. The two people who were once so good have become the most familiar strangers.

    A lifetime is so long, and some people are already lucky to be able to appear in life. Regarding friendship, the most regrettable thing is probably that I didn't say goodbye well.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Friendship when I was a child was the purest, without any pressure from interpersonal interactions, and without any interests. It's a pity that many of my childhood playmates have a hard time getting back to the way they used to be. Those childhood friendships were simple and beautiful, and they are still stuck in my fond memories today.

    Friendship between small children is the simplest, they just play together for the sake of playing. Most children are very greedy for companionship, and many times, two children just play together for the sake of playing, without any other purpose at all. This simple friendship is the purest of all kinds, without any demands and without caring about any interests.

    Children who play well can give half of their belongings to another person. It can be said that the friendship when I was a child had more gifts from two children, they accompanied each other, gave each other gifts, and every gift came from my will. This kind of friendship cannot be found in the adult world, and every adult will not approach anyone simply for the sake of play, nor will he despise his own interests and give generously.

    Childhood friendships are able to forgive each other for no reason. Each of us has some small conflicts with our playmates when we are young, but these conflicts are also very easy to resolve. At that time, it seemed that forgiving someone did not need any reason at all.

    To this day, you can still hear many adults saying after a quarrel between two children, Jing Shiwan, "It's normal for children to fight with each other, and they will be reconciled in a few days." That's right, between children, if you say sorry, you can easily forgive each other, and you can reconcile as before. And it is difficult for quarrels in the adult world to have a good ending, and even if they are reconciled, they will not return as before.

    Adults will remember the injuries they have suffered and the losses they have suffered, because no one wants to plant two heels in the same place.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think friendship will change over time. Any two people are very good friends, but because they are very good friends, they are so good that they have nothing to talk about, and after a long time, there is nothing to say, and the friendship between you will slowly be diluted by time.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think it's going to change! Because time can dilute everything... If you haven't been in touch for a long time, maybe he'll forget about you... It's really helpless...

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Yes! In the beginning,'And there is no friendship.

    Afterward. Slowly, there will be.

    Later, we learned to help each other.

    Later, they became good friends.

    Later, she became a good woman. Later. It's your loved ones.

    This one is changed for the better.

    If it's bad.

    It's about starting from behind.

    from loved ones. and became unrecognizable. Love is the most selfish; Friendship is the most precious; Family affection is the most selfless.

    Love, friendship, and a family affection will surely make your tree of life green and lush, whether it is in the sun or in the wind and rain, you can shine with a kind of glory that is read.

    Family affection is a kind of depth, friendship is a kind of breadth, and love is a kind of purity.

    Family affection is a kind of sunshine bathing without conditions and without asking for returns; Friendship is a vast and grand embankment of understanding that can be inhabited at any time; Love, on the other hand, is a kind of mysterious and boundless soul that can make songs forgetful and tearful.

    In life, it is a pity that family, friendship, and love are missing; The lack of two of the three is really pitiful; If you lack all three, you will live like you will die! "Experiencing the depth of family affection, appreciating the breadth of friendship, and having the purity of love, such a life can be called a veritable life.

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