Why do I hate such classmates, am I normal like this

Updated on healthy 2024-06-04
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    There is "peaceful coexistence" and "seeking common ground while reserving differences" between countries, and the same is true between people. Everyone in the world has a different personality, there is no good, bad, normal or not, only mutual tolerance. As long as this friend doesn't have a principled problem that you can't accept, I personally think that since it's a classmate, accept her shortcomings.

    Of course, if dating her really affects your emotions, then treat her as an ordinary friend, and there is no need to "go online" and reject her. Ostracizing her means that there is something wrong with your mentality, because, when you are out of society, you can't let them all disappear when you are out of society, such as colleagues, friends or acquaintances! Learning to get along with different people is something you will have to face in the rest of your life.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's normal, a person has a way of living, and everyone has their own preferences. If hating her bothers you, you might as well think about it, she has lived like you for so many years, your character has been formed because of your experience over the years, and she is the same, you can understand yourself, why should you be harsh on her?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's normal.,Everyone has people who dislike me too.,Since you can be a friend on the show.,It means that you're not particularly annoying.,Just do it.。 If you can't see it, you won't see it, and you'll slowly forget about the existence of this person

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Normal, I think your relationship has a feeling that it is not a bitter family.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you don't like it, why bother to be friends, it will upset you, because you are not sincere enough, and your friend is just a name, or tell her what you think.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's just uncomfortable, super normal.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Normal, we also have it in our class, hehe.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    When I was in my first year of junior high school, there was a classmate who really hated it, and almost the whole class hated it. When I was in the first year of junior high school, I didn't know anyone in my class because I didn't study in my hometown, so I didn't know anyone in the class, at that time she felt very enthusiastic, and the class was also very positive, and the teacher liked her, I thought her grades should be very good (in fact, I was not as good as me), so at first I told me in the back seat that she was very cheap (she was like this, and she spoke very hard) I didn't believe it at first, thinking that they had a personal vendetta, and then I really knew what it meant to be uneducated. I'm the only one who didn't mess with me, I won't retaliate against you, although I hate her in my heart on the surface, behind her back, and I love to make small reports, but I didn't target her.

    Let's just say one thing, the teacher asked us to say one thing (and didn't tell us not to say it, this is a small thing, and this teacher is also very annoying, teaching is not good and very insulting students), so I told this thing to a friend who was at the same table with me, I knew they wouldn't say it, but do you know how she said it??Hehe, I said it in front of many people, I was scolded at the time, I admit that I said this is wrong, she sued me, I was wrong, but why did you slander me, and you yourself said it to others. This teacher is also annoying, just because of this incident said that my clothes have changed, I just hehe, isn't it just a blue and white striped middle sleeve with a large sleeve plus black trousers and small white shoes, and I have been wearing it like this for a long time, why didn't you say it at that time.

    I defended you when my classmates were talking about you behind your back. You don't even know how failed you are in teaching. When I didn't know it was her sue, she even comforted me, and after the incident, she apologized to me, who wanted your fake apology, although you got my revenge, but who called me a Scorpio, I hold a grudge.

    This incident also opened my eyes to a group of fake friends. Now I'm gradually estranged, now I don't want any so-called best friends, good friends, in the future, in school, I will gradually be alone, this class makes me disgusted. The men are obscene and disgusting, and the women are scheming and nasty (but there are good people, but they all play with those nasty people) so I don't have any bosom friends in this class, although there are a few who can talk about it and there are many things, but I dare say that every time she provokes me first.

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