Ask for advice on how to correct your clever behavior

I really suffered a few big losses and got rid of it.

Before I suffered a loss, I wouldn't think that these little cleverness were bad, at most I felt a little guilty. I feel that everyone else is stupid, and then I am more and more bold, more and more clever, and more and more involved......It will eventually be revealed, and the later it is revealed, the more painful it will be.

Until after suffering a big loss, it immediately relented. People are like this, how normal it is to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages.

People who have really been clever and later changed will understand the feeling that their "cleverness" has been recognized, or the feeling that someone who understands is silently staring at you "playing smart", and does not speak or remind, but in fact, they have seen you thoroughly. You may not have realized it at the time, but in retrospect, the psychological pressure was really great, the whole body was cold, and you would fall into a series of strange circles such as embarrassment, condemnation, and remorse.

Middle. Don't think that your "little cleverness" is seamless, if you don't realize that someone can see through you, it proves that you are not smart enough.

Thinking about this, I am open-minded, and I will no longer be self-righteous and easily "clever", as if I am being checked and balanced by something. Instead, they are more willing to observe the "clever" behavior of others. If you look closely, you will find that it is really easy to see, especially what you have done, even the mental activities.

Of course, this does not mean that some "means" will not be used to achieve certain goals in the future, as long as the interests are large enough, few people can completely resist, right? But what is certain is that I will not use some seemingly smart means anymore, and I will not value those small profits anymore, and I will definitely consider whether it is worth it, how to bear the consequences, and whether the result is really wanted. As long as you think about it more, you will basically feel that it is not worth it for this little thing, forget it, and it is not worth bothering.

Learn to be humble and generous, you will not be so competitive, and if you have a deep background, you will know how to be humble. Therefore, the fundamental reason for being smart is that your knowledge is shallow, and if you can realize this, you will not be easy to be smart! Is that right?

Learn to be humble and generous, you will not be so reckless and competitive, if you have a deep background, you will naturally know how to be humble, and you must change the bad problem of playing clever, so as to make more mentors and friends.

How to correct yourself playing smart, this first thing to know, reasonable clever is no problem, so that you can get a quick way to complete, which can greatly reduce your time waste, but the consequence of playing smart is that you lose the opportunity to exercise yourself, which will make you gradually fall behind, resulting in a decline in your ability.

I think first of all, you have to realize that the consequences of clever behavior are bad, you can think about the consequences of your actions, and then slowly correct them, and let your family members accompany you to correct them.

If you want to correct your clever behavior, you can try to use your cleverness in your business. For example, if something breaks down at home, you can try to do it yourself.

In fact, I was also a clever person when I was in school, teachers and parents would often say that I had a good brain and did not study steadily, I pretended not to care on the surface, but in fact I knew that I was very easy to suffer. But my little cleverness will not be ** wisdom, I know that I must be serious when I should be serious, so that in the end, the results of the college entrance examination are quite ideal. So I want to tell the Lord that being clever is not necessarily a bad thing, as long as you are clear enough in your heart to find the good and the bad.

A little clever is greedy for the small profits in front of him, regardless of family and friendship, and self-centered in everything, a little profit will make him complacent.

This is cleverness, cleverness itself has a tragic color that cannot be erased, cleverness always has a personality weakness, personality weakness will always create the limitations of life, so the life of a wise man is often very successful, and a smart person may create a fragmented life. Once the cleverness is pasted with fame and fortune, the tragedy of life will be staged. If the big man is mistaken by the little clever, the damage caused is catastrophic.

What do you want to do? , how good you can be smart, how good you can give priority to what you do, people's body shape can't be changed, don't change it.

Don't be smart, then no matter what you do, you have to be honest, and you have to show your honest side to others, and you don't want to be played by others' cleverness, we have to understand some clever means, understand the deep meaning behind other people's words, and resolutely do not go into the set that others have woven for themselves. And even if we know that others are clever, we don't need to break this matter, after all, we are all colleagues, we still have to get along with each other, and we always have to maintain face. If you ignore the cleverness of others, it will make others feel very annoyed and angry, and it will also bring a lot of trouble to your future work.

Being smart is generally only for their own selfish desires, and they use some means to get what they want, which may be money, status, or work. And these little cleverness can indeed bring some benefits to themselves at some times, but how can people who are obsessed with immediate interests, or even people who do not hesitate to sacrifice their precious things for the sake of interests, be considered truly smart? True wisdom is to see everything, not to be happy with things, not to be sad about oneself, not to be attached to those vain desires, as long as you eat well and dress well.

We can even leave everything behind, go to the mountains and forests to live in seclusion, abandon all stress, and return to nature.

Some people will be proud because of their cleverness, they feel that their cleverness has brought them a lot of benefits, but these benefits are actually accompanied by a certain price to show off to others, this kind of thing will not increase others' good impression of themselves, nor will they make others think they are very smart, but will only make others feel that you are very greedy and cheap, very concerned about gains and losses. Cleverness is always linked to desire, we want more money, we want to climb up through others, we want to let the people we hate be excluded, so we use our cleverness to guide the evil in the hearts of human beings. If we don't want to be deceived by these clever people, then we have to increase our knowledge, and when we see more and listen more, we will know what is hidden behind this, and we will also know what other people's calculations are playing, so that we will naturally not be deceived by others.

People who don't want to be clever are generally very upright people, these people disdain to be in the company of those who are clever, have their own set of views on life, and want to live in this world with a clear conscience, such an idea is also better, but people who are too honest will always be deceived and used by various people. Therefore, we can be honest on the surface, but we must not be too honest in our hearts.

I think you need to have a clear mind and a correct three views, so that you can do not play clever, and you don't be clever, you yourself must have firm willpower.

The first thing is to be honest with people, and don't play tricks with others, the most important thing is to be able to easily see through the other party's cleverness, which is also of great help to yourself.

Integrity and kindness. Maintain your integrity and kindness, and have your own bottom line, so that you can neither be clever nor be played by cleverness.

Don't gossip, and be sure to go out to work and don't join any small groups so that you don't get tricked by others.

Be calm, don't panic when you encounter something, think clearly before you do it, and don't do something blindly.

Cleverness is not mistaken by cleverness, it is useful under certain conditions, to be precise, it is just a small means of indiscriminateness. It is not as smart as a smart person, but if it is too smart, it will be mistaken by being smart.

Hello allusions.

Outsmart oneself.

Ziri: "Everyone is a day: 'Give (1) to know.'"

Drive and accept all the people who are trapped in the ladder (2), and Mo Zhi Zhi is also (3). Everyone said, 'Know.'

Choose the mean, and not the month (4) to keep also. Excerpt from "The Mean, Cleverness is Mistaken by Cleverness".

Thank you for adopting.

It's okay to be clever once in a while. Experience can be gained from experience. And it doesn't have to be clever.

When someone says the first sentence, I will wait until he wants to do what the solution is to pretend to be stupid and kick the ball, as for how to kick it, it's up to you.

Others will know at a glance if they are clever, but some people are unwilling to explain it to you!

Not being down-to-earth and opportunistic will not last long.

Being clever is stupid.

It means you're not smart enough