My feelings. Urgent! About feelings, ask for help!

Updated on psychology 2024-06-07
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You can see that you love your boyfriend very much. I think there is a reason for his excessive caution, perhaps it has something to do with his family and teenage life. You can try to communicate with him, and you can discuss any ideas, because two people plan to live for a lifetime.

    BTW: "Later" is a bad word. It's easy to remind people of milk tea's "Later". It should be said "in the future".

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Invite your girlfriend to eat two meals and ask the other party to invite back?!Is this considered a man? What a shame!

    Don't want this kind of man! Fly! Aren't there still two boys chasing you?

    Let's get along with them first and see what kind of personality they are. Or, do you feel inferior? What is there to be inferior!

    There are only lazy women in the world, there are no ugly women! **If you don't like it, change it. Men are not perfect, and they are not qualified to always point fingers at women and judge them!

    Women just change for the sake of their beloved, and other people who don't care about it, while going cool, less verbosity!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Do men do it for women and have to have a gift in return? Still a man?

    I can't do it if I want to kill me. Do and everything for the woman you love willingly, and to reciprocate of course willingly.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I know you love him, otherwise you wouldn't be able to do it now, and he loves you too, maybe he just won't answer, talk to him well, I believe there will be gains.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I think you like him, otherwise you wouldn't have turned down the other two

    Do your best to reconcile with him

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Then try to help him, he is new to the city, there must be a lot of help in need, I hope you can exchange your enthusiasm for his affection, not for filling the void in her feelings in exchange for his temporary affection. You try to do it first.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Women have old complexes, seeing an ex-boyfriend doesn't mean she still loves him, don't worry, a man should never quarrel with his girlfriend for her ex-boyfriend, it's boring, hurts feelings

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It depends on how much you like her

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's very common, it's just that I haven't seen my friend's feelings for a long time, and if you love her, you have to believe in her, and everyone has to give each other a little privacy. If you want to maintain a relationship, you need to keep surprising her, which will warm up your relationship. Hope to adopt.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Since she says she loves you, she has to believe her, and her excitement is the kind of excitement that she hasn't seen her friends in a long time... It's all about getting the moment right.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The excitement may be because he wants to make the other person regret it and let him know that he is doing very well now.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    1. Fully understand your feelings, your pain is normal, everyone wants to live a good life, and your family is also thinking about you.

    2. In fact, many people have developed from poor boys, as the saying goes, children from poor families are in charge early. So, you have to look at your boyfriend with a developmental perspective, and when you look at your relationship, you have to look at it from a developmental perspective.

    3. You say that others are good. This is very important, if a person has a bad character, he will be ungrateful when he is developed in the future. But what is good for people?

    You have to be discerning. It's not that I listen to you, but if you have a good temper, you can call people good. But to have a sense of justice, a sense of responsibility, and more importantly, to be diligent, to have their own pursuit, such a person, can bring you expectations.

    4. If he is such a person, it is like buying ** to buy original shares, you should be resolutely with him, and it is worth the hardships! Because you have a bright future to look forward to.

    5. If he is just so-called honest and does not lose his temper, but is lazy, has no ideas, and has no sense of responsibility, then it is better to advise you to listen to your family's opinions.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think if you really want to be together, you can work together, you can't just let the man work to support the family, because the man's ability is also limited, and then you need to let your boyfriend change jobs, security guards will be those jobs for a lifetime, and they can't develop

    But this has to stand the test of time, not everyone can afford it, before you have to think for yourself. Whether this man can be relied upon. Ask yourself if you like him so much. Let yourself understand first.

    Then talk to him, ask him what he can give you in the future, whether he really loves you, etc., if all these are done, and know that he really wants to talk to him for the rest of his life, talk to his parents well, and let your man give your parents a time and a guarantee, this is still up to you

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    All I can say is ask your heart what your focus is! Don't tell me you can't put it down! Are you willing to live a hard life in the future for love, or give up love for yourself.

    No one will scold you for being realistic or whatever. Man does not perish for his own sake. Or in other words, you can't let go of loving him, even though the days later may be bitter, but as long as you are with him, it is sweet.

    Now that it's all so clear, what else is there to worry about?

    Please put aside all the focus of your heart first!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Ask your parents if you agree, if you don't agree, think about it yourself, think that this person has a good character, filial piety to parents, humility and tolerance, and you don't want to give up this relationship, just let it go, after all, you are only twenty years old, fate gathers and scatters, and when you think, well, it is this person, when you feel that this relationship is very solid, the time has come.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Wise women are good at managing their other half!! Make him your career! Believe in him the most important!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Believe me too, if it's realistic, how will the future be lived? There is something that can be budgeted, which is the basis for now. But no one's fate can be predicted, I want to say, "people"! Rational perception and perceptual perception are as important to you as they are. Blessing.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's not easy to do, the above is general, but listen to the correct one, security is not a good job after all, it is not stable, it is best to learn a skill, open a shop by yourself, if you have a degree, it is easy to do, it depends on the situation, the matter is man-made.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Let him work hard and earn money hard, and be self-motivated.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    According to the Great Dictionary of Psychology:"Emotion is a person's attitude and experience of whether objective things meet their needs"。At the same time, it is also considered in the general psychology course that:

    Emotions and emotions are both people's attitude and experience towards objective things, but emotions are more inclined to the attitude experience of individual basic needs and desires.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Then let go of the pain, there is a kind of love called letting go.

    How about making him happy if he likes it?

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I feel that this man is unreliable, he already has a girlfriend, he stepped on two boats, and screened from them, there is always one who is a cushion, and no one will agree to him to come like that, divide it, be wise!

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