How do you think about a man who is excellent and kind but indecisive and always wants to hurt no on

To put it simply, since you love, there must be harm, or indecision, then scum. I remember a supporting role in a martial arts ** said that if I had dealt with the relationship problem at the beginning, I would not have been so sad, which just shows the disadvantages here. This supporting character actually loves one of the heroines in the book, but she has nothing to do with her, and she cried at the end.

Zhang Wuji is very scummy, but in the end he still understands what he loves; He Shuhuan is also the heroine who is about to have an accident, so he knows his feelings, why bother. But this is also human nature, many people avoid problems when they encounter them, and when they understand, as a result, they hurt more than one person. Reality doesn't allow you to sit on it, you can only make trade-offs.

Injuries are a must. This can only be said to be self-inflicted. In fatalistic terms, it is doomed that you are destined to lose your beloved.

In this era of efficient communication, everyone likes to divide people in groups; When you think he is an indecisive man, and you are still willing to get along with him, and you are willing to spend time trying to find a solution, it shows that he is very important to you! For important people, we should pay attention to the truest thoughts of his heart; Sometimes indecision is because you care too much about others, care about A, care about B, care about C, and finally don't know how to choose and how to make decisions! At this time, he should also be uncomfortable, be more considerate of him, enter his inner world, help him analyze the pros and cons, encourage him to face it bravely, no one's indecision is a lifelong thing, as long as you are willing to help him, I believe your relationship will become closer and closer!

Get along with indecisive people. Basically, you need to make a decision and not ask for his opinion, or don't wait for him to make a decision. He tends to give the choice to the other person.

Or there is a choice, when neither of you knows, you try to put forward it in the form of suggestions. In addition, when you provide the answer to the choice, you have appropriate guidance, so indecisive people are actually easier to get along with.

Don't confess, he's not interesting to her. I haven't seen too many people like this. "I actually like you" and "I really like you" explicitly hinted to the girl, but never mentioned it together, did not take the initiative, did not refuse, and was not responsible.

I just love the feeling of being with you. I thought you were the kind of person I liked. I don't seem to like you that much.

I don't like you lately. You are trembling, he can advance and retreat freely, and the relationship should be equal. Actually, I just don't like it, he thinks he's playing, he thinks you're playing with him.

If you want to play, you can, you can just play together, if you want to be serious, then forget it. If you don't give anything, you want to get it. That's it.

Door-to-door, why not?

Don't like indecisive boys. I like it directly. Indecisive boy mother-in-law mom.

What do direct boys have to say. I've beaten and cried, and we've been together. No grudges.

Fight together. It's hard to carry it together. Blessed are each to his own way!

Anyway, don't touch feminine and indecisive boys. Contact with a good temper, although I am introverted.

The force is mutual. People are very strange, but they need to add an extra self-esteem. Love is spoken out loud. Let go of the damn self-esteem. Not having your own opinions is a big disadvantage, and if you don't do things well, you will be chaotic if you don't make decisions.

First of all, you have learned that the other party cannot make a decision quickly, it is recommended that you do not help him make a decision at the beginning, but try to think about it for the other party, provide an opportunity to choose one of the two, help him analyze, let him choose one to choose, and then help him complete the decision, try to complete it perfectly, and cultivate her confidence. Because he lacks analytical ability or selection syndrome, after establishing confidence, help him build up analytical ability, after having confidence and analytical ability, and then make decisions, it will slowly get better, this requires a process, feel it!

Let him think for himself, we don't need to give too much advice. Or you directly show him that you are too indecisive and not a long-term solution, you don't need to ask him too much, you just have to be happy.