The brothers and sisters of the husband s family came to borrow money.

No way, this is a debt owed by your husband, do you say the bank will not want you to pay back because you are pregnant? If it weren't for your eldest sister, your husband wouldn't be able to afford to read, and maybe you wouldn't be able to look down on him, and when you looked for him, you were destined to bear the debt he owed back then.

Calculate the family's economic accounts for her, and then you hide in your mother's house and let your husband deal with this problem, after all, it is a brother and sister, she can afford to buy a house regardless of her brother, at least the house price is not so high, she chooses to study for her younger brother There is also family affection, you can't not let your nephew be born for money, you dodge, your husband and sister and brother are easy to talk.

Originally, the eldest sister helped your husband, and she should indeed repay this love, but the current situation is not that I don't want to borrow, but I have no choice, and I am about to have a child and use more money, you can ask your husband to talk to the eldest sister well, it's not that I don't want to help, it's just that I also pay off my debts, and I'm about to face production. The hospital won't let you pay later! I believe it should be understood.

The eldest sister is in charge of your husband's studies, and your husband is obliged to help her. If she hadn't saved money for your husband at the beginning, I'm afraid there would be no family of yours today, let alone childbearing? So, save enough for your own necessary expenses, and help the rest if you can.

And my husband's eldest sister, you shouldn't interfere too much, she is his relationship, and it's not good for you to manage too much.

In this case, I can only take a part of it first, and when I finish giving birth to a child, I have to find someone to communicate with her slowly.

Do what you can, you tell her that now that you are married, everything is on your own, and you need money to have children.

People should have a grateful heart, if your husband gives this money, if you agree, your husband will also think that you are a good woman, like this money, I think no matter how you think of a way, you have to come out, a few thousand yuan is not much, and you can work slowly in the future.

If you can help, you can help, if you can't help, you can only make it clear to her, it's better to spread it out than to dodge, they are all relatives, and they should be considerate

How much to borrow first, if you don't borrow at all, it will definitely be unreasonable, and my sister will be cold.

The eldest sister should be supported to buy a house.

Tell her the actual situation, but you will definitely have to return this favor.

If you have it, you can borrow it, but you still have to live it if you do what you can.

Your brothers and sisters rely on each other, but you also have to do what you can.

Since she is this kind of person, she doesn't need to take care of so much, so she is not very rich, is she? As the saying goes, if you don't help the poor, you can't play it yet.

I don't have money to press, I take care of my own money, and my husband is soft-hearted.

If you can help, you can help, but if you can't do it, just tell her about the situation.

According to the actual situation, tell her the facts, all the people who should be helped have been helped, and it is impossible to even take out the child's production money, so it is better to discuss this with your husband.

Your husband lent money to his brothers and sisters behind your back, which means that he must know what to inform you, and you don't want to lend money to his brother and sister Beilu.

So after all, this is an internal conflict in your family, you first solve the internal conflict in your own family, and then you can go like their sister, and the money of the three-year-old has been lent out. You have to ask your husband the specific content, the purpose of the money lent to him, whether there is excess interest or no interest on the repayment date?

So do you care about the money or do you say that your husband is doing something behind your back, do you feel that your husband doesn't trust you and hide it from you, or does it mean that you both care and care about money and your husband.

Since he chose to carry out this thing behind your back, it means that he is still afraid or troublesome, and let you know about it. What kind of heart is it must be only between you that you know that only you are the two of you live, you can know whether your husband is troublesome and doesn't want to tell you, or because he is afraid to tell you, or he doesn't feel that it's none of your business and has nothing to do with you, so he doesn't even need to notify you, this is his own money, he has his own control, so he doesn't want to tell you.

So before you get the money back, you'd better discuss it with your husband and communicate with you, do you want the money or family harmony? If you say in your heart that you want everything, then you have to do a good job of fighting and fighting, there is always one aspect to sacrifice, if you want money and family harmony, your husband will not carry out such a thing behind your back.

Money, can not be easily borrowed from others, including their own relatives, can not be trusted, prudent life experience tells us that the money lent out is difficult to get back, just like a meat bun beating a dog, never returned. Wuzao told your husband that his hard-earned money, how can he say that he will borrow it? At the moment when money is hard to earn, you can't borrow it, don't take it as an example, otherwise, you can't live this day, so let's leave him with pain!

At the same time, it is understandable whether he has helped others, whether he is loving or has other intentions. It's good that I didn't meet the third child. Don't be suspicious without asking why.

If you really want to dress up like that, and your husband has eyes on other women, then divorce him quickly, don't want such a person to be with him, and live like this.

Everyone has a circle of social communication, they are all bosom friends, your husband is in the purpose of socializing and making friends, since he can make a move to borrow money, he must have his reputation. As long as the amount does not affect the functioning of the family, it is advisable to respect his decision.

The marriage is joint property, and your husband borrowed money behind your back, it is definitely not right, and you have the right to get it back. However, it is recommended to communicate more with the old manuscript leakage, and only solve the problem of internal blockage.

The most important thing for husband and wife is communication, and major family matters should be decided after discussion between husband and wife. You can tell your husband that the big expenses of the family should be decided by the husband and wife together, and borrowing money is related to the family's financial problems after all. In principle, borrowing money should be "emergency but not poor", which means that urgent needs can be borrowed, but poverty alleviation borrowing is not advisable.

There is also the fact that borrowing money for improper purposes cannot be borrowed, such as borrowing money to gamble, borrowing is harmful. If your husband's brother is borrowing money for improper purposes, and it is urgent, you can borrow money that is not urgently needed. Otherwise, you have to think carefully or don't borrow.

Husband, if you lend money to his brother, if you are doing something serious or doing something very important, it is understandable, it means that you are usually not very good to his brother, so he wants to help his brother. At this time, you can explain it to him, you say. The money belongs to the two of us, you can lend it to him, but you have to write a note.

Write a date for repayment.

First of all, you have to tell your husband that you are very dissatisfied with this kind of thing with him, because he should not lend your brother the money you have in common without saying a word, and then ask him to get the money back as soon as possible.

The husband is hiding from you and lending money to his younger brother, and you don't know what to do. You should sit down and have a good talk with your husband. If he often lends money to his brother, it is necessary to explain to him that the money is the joint property of the husband and wife.

The joint property of the spouse cannot be used to support his or her brother without the other spouse's knowledge. Make it clear to your husband that you don't want to be like him!

After all, it's your husband's younger brother, and he must help as an older brother if he is in trouble, which is also reasonable. Of course, if your husband lends his brother money and doesn't discuss it with you, then what he did is not right, but why not discuss it with you. Can you agree?

Think for yourself. What should I do, since the money has been lent out, I will just wait for your brother-in-law to repay the money in the future.

You can communicate with your husband and tell him that the money belongs to two people and belongs to the joint property of the husband and wife, and if the younger brother really needs to lend it to him, he should also do it, but he should discuss it with you, and he should not lend it privately, which belongs to the distrust of the relationship between the husband and wife and will hurt the feelings of the husband and wife.

There is no way to do this situation, so forgive him once, be reasonable, and let him know that the two of you live together, and some things must be discussed with you, so that relatively speaking, similar things can be avoided in the future.

If your husband lends money to his brother without telling you, you should ask the reason for borrowing the money, and then talk openly and honestly with your boss, and there are some things that should be discussed and decided by the husband and wife.

You have to learn to be understanding and tolerant, for example, if you have two children in the future, the eldest wants to borrow money from the second child, can you say that you will not let him borrow money, you can blame your husband You should not hide it from you, because you are also understanding and supportive.

You should discuss this matter openly and honestly with your boss, you should clearly tell him your opinion, and you should ask him for your opinion when he does anything in the future!

In general, after all, it is a husband and wife, and it is inevitable to encounter this kind of thing in a lifetime. It's best to communicate with both parties and talk about it well. If the feelings of the words are really bad, then yes. Can you imagine how to get a divorce or something?

This must mean that there is still a lack of trust and communication between each other. What to do like this? You must have to make three chapters of the law with him, and then you must understand each other about the economy in the future.

First of all, let's talk about why you hurry up to give the money to yourself, it must be that you have a bad relationship with his family, or you can enjoy yourself and his family's conflicts, otherwise how can he silently give money every day?

Hello this friend, this question of mine is, I personally think it depends on what my brother has this money for? If it's waiting for help! Personally, I think it's better to wait for this period of time! If it's something unimportant, I personally feel like you can say you want to buy something! No money!

Then you can go with you. My husband discussed. Let's see if there's anything to tell you about it later, don't hide anything from you?

Your husband is not doing the right thing, and your brother is having trouble borrowing money, but at least I have to discuss it with you, which is a sign of respect for you.

If money is not needed for the time being, then there is nothing to do. If you need money badly right now, ask your husband to get it back.

You should talk to him about the fact that both parties should agree to have a big expense in the family.

You want to think of a way to spend money, for example, if you want to buy a necklace or a car or a house, the bigger the better, so that he can't come up with the money and he will tell it.

has been lent out, sternly warned him, not to be an example.

Ask him why he didn't tell you, even if you agree or not, you have the right to know.

I think it depends on what you are borrowing money for, if you are going to do something or open a store, then you have to borrow it, if you are using it to spend a lot of time, then you can't, so you have to figure out what you are borrowing money for, and then decide how to do it.

The husband lent the thread to his brother without telling you, you should ask him why he didn't tell you about it, you should have the right to know!

It's also normal to lend it to his younger brother first.

Brothers settle accounts.

Brothers also need to make IOUs when borrowing money from each other.

Avoid creating a crisis of trust and contradictions between brothers.

Although said. Brothers have the friendship of wealth.

But there is still a relationship between brothers.

The needs of their own independent economic life.

If it is said. There is a brother who is more wealthy and generous.

Money may be given unconditionally.

This is the affection between brothers.

If the brothers are not very generous and rich.

Then it will be more conservative.

They will be more careful when they get the money right.

It is easy to form contradictions or even hatreds.

For this. In order to cherish and cherish the family affection between the new brothers.

When borrowing money between brothers.

It's about going to be ugly.

Written notes and IOUs shall bear their respective responsibilities.

I hope my brother can understand.

I borrowed my brother's money, too. I think if you don't have any money in a hurry, you can pay back some once in a while, no matter how much, then your brother will be more pleased. Because if he doesn't care about your brother for too long, he may feel a little chilled inside.

I think you are still a very good person, knowing that your brother is not easy, and he didn't urge when he saw a huge amount of money, it is indeed very good between brothers, I think your brother will definitely return it to you.

If your brother borrows money, if you have the strength, you will borrow, and if you don't have the strength, you will explain the situation.

It depends on one's financial ability and relationship with one's brothers and sisters.

If you have the financial strength to meet the standard and can help your siblings, you will help and help. However, if you have already started a family by the time you help, you need to discuss it with your husband (wife) and report it in advance. If you don't meet the standards and can't help, then communicate with your family in time, talk to your family, explain your difficulties, and let your family be prepared.

Don't slap a swollen face and become fat, especially if you already have a family, if you do that, not only will you be in a dilemma, but it will also cause the breakdown of family relationships, and eventually ruin yourself.

There is also the aspect of feeling brotherly affection, and your relationship with your brothers and sisters is also the reason and motivation for you to borrow money. If you don't have an emotional foundation or have had a bad relationship since childhood, then you can consider whether to borrow it. After all, there is no emotional concern, if you lend out money, others will not only not cherish the gratitude, but will also take it for granted, relying on the relatives to intensify the situation, and in the end it will only cause the dust to laugh into a tragedy.

Conclusion: Recognize the reality, start from reality, seek truth from facts, and don't be carried away by feelings, so as not to cause losses.